Cancer guy thinks I like his friend?

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ScorpioGirl1984
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16 Years

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Been talking to a cancer guy I like. I have throughout this time met a couple of friends and became friends with them.

One night, I called Cancer guy's friend Jason, who I have met through him. I invited him out. Unknown that he was with the cancer at the time when I called.

We kept communicating throughout the night about meeting up. At the time, I was thinking he would bring the cancer with him. However, then he came by himself to meet me. So I texted the cancer guy asking him to come too. He texted me back saying that he was at a different bar too far away and that Jason had went home. I texted him back saying "No he's right here next to me at the bar". Strange that his friend didn't tell him he was going to come meet me.

Now the cancer won't talk to me. Anyway to remedy this?
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Gingerscorp
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Nah... I bet she was trying to indirectly get to the friend to hang out and "like" her so that he would talk her up to Cancer. Basically being indirect and kinda sneaky. She wanted the Cancer to ask the friend who he was talking to so that the friend could say it was her and she hoped that Cancer would make a gesture of interest toward talking/making a plan to see her so SHE wouldn't have to be the one to put herself out there.

It's a mind game of sorts. I've been guilty of it myself. 😛 It seems this backfired on her.
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Smiles24
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A terrible backfire. ScorpGirl1984 if you like him, just being direct with him and let your feelings be known to him; I say stop waiting in the backwind for him to come around, make the gesture yourself. Some cancerians like it when someone directly lets their interests known to them, not a bad thing. Although some cancerians like to play mind games, they are the ones who hate to be played with (hypocritical I know).

-SMiLES =)