cancer guys - would you read...

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by cosmicgirrl on Wednesday, May 27, 2009 and has 10 replies.

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@canedcrab
18 YearsCancer

Yeah we probably would. I've done it before so I say yes.

But at that same point I don't have anything to hide when it comes to that ether. So in other words ask me for my phone and I'll give it up without a problem.

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@sarasa
19 Years1,000+ PostsCapricorn

LOL. YES they will. I have a cancerian friend who said that he once had a crush on some girl in HS and guess what he did? He looked up her school records, don't know what he meant by that but apparently he was working part-time in couseling or something of the sort. And he somehow managed to look her stuff up, stuff that a HS kid wouldn't normally have access to. Pretty sneaky people they are!

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@krysrenee7
18 Years5,000+ Posts

Well if anything, they'd check it out of pure convienence & opportunity vs. b/c they don't trust their partners. There is a difference between when "trouble" comes to you all by itself vs. you actually LOOKING for trouble.

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@cosmicgirrl
19 Years

update!

he read my text, sneaky b*st*rd!!!!! he acted all cool and told me he didn't read them all, only first few!! but think he lied about that (i didn't make a fuss though cos i got nothing to hide) its just that it was an old phone that i left and there were lots of messages from exes, boys that i used to got in touch with when i was single that have not been deleted so i felt kind of weird (if he in fact read the whole thing). also there were messages between me and my gfs talking about him which was quite embarassing cos it feels like he knew right through me.......

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@domanb
17 YearsCancer

I would read through a few too. If they seemed harmless than I would probably stop, just like your guy said. I would believe him when he said he only read a few. Don't worry about him reading the ones between you and your gfs. If anything, you have to worry about it going straight to his head and over-inflating his ego. Now that he has seen a deeper side of you, he will probably be more willing to open up to you about himself.

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@cosmicgirrl
19 Years

"I would believe him when he said he only read a few."

i can never be sure but my instinct tells me he read em all but i'm not gonna be bothered with it now. although it's amazing how he acted like nothing happened as if he never read anything at all damn cancer boyss

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@Smiles24
17 Years500+ Posts

I've used my previous GF phones to call my friends. I never cared who she was texting or talking too. And if she cheated on me; it was over! Plain and simple. Although I let her play and look through my phone. I had nothing to hide at all.

-SMiLES