Cancer & Jealousy.

How jealous are you ? or how jealous can you get ?

grade it from 1 to 10. 1 being entirely blas?, 10 being psychotic.

Please state your Venus & Mars (targeting the noobies more than anything else)

I think i'm a 6 in any given moment. I do remember hitting 9.5 in the past.


Cancer Venus/Scorpio Mars

People with key placements in Cancer, please share your rating. (particularly Cancer Moon's and Cancer Venus people)

I can get jealous in a romantic relationship, I would rate myself a 5-6 somewhere around the mid range at most. Usually when I get jealous I let things pass, so that I don't make any stupid moves.

Venus - Leo
Mars - Gemini

isn't that the same thing ?

territorial, possessive, jealous ?

Posted by BommyKnocker
isn't that the same thing ?

territorial, possessive, jealous ?

that was for ligeia.

I think I am more competitive than jealous.

Posted by DeeGee

Posted by BommyKnocker
People with key placements in Cancer, please share your rating. (particularly Cancer Moon's and Cancer Venus people)

If you give me a reason to get jealous I guess it would range anywhere between 4 and 7....I dont really get jealous unless my partner is not paying attention to me.

Paying attention meaning communicating, showing me affection, the little things that he should know about me.

If that's not happening, then something is wrong between us...

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so you go with your partner to a nice resturant, he's being nice and romantic and what not.. paying attention to you completely and entirely.

His workmate passes by, she is a stunning 20 something year old. The whole restaurant is just staring at her beauty. Your partner introduces her to you, you guys have small talk.. and then he says that they have to drive to some city close by as part of work, they will travel together and they will stay in the same hotel.

rate from 1 to 10 how you imagine you would feel in that moment (in terms of jealousy).

and then that day comes when they travel.. your partner goes, everything is normal.. he kisses you goodbye and everyone is off with their day. He calls you before both of you go to bed to say good night and then tells you the hotel messed up the booking. So he and that 20 something have to share a bedroom, two beds, but still, same bedroom.

rate from 1 to 10 how you imagine you would feel in that moment (in terms of jealousy).



Sorry for being.. well.. me. I have a feeling you have a jealous streak and you carefully worded that post above. Feel free not to answer if you don't feel like it.

Posted by incandescentcancer
I think I am more competitive than jealous.

in romance ?

Posted by BommyKnocker

Posted by incandescentcancer
I think I am more competitive than jealous.

in romance ?

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Yeah, I am like that in everything.

Posted by incandescentcancer

Posted by BommyKnocker

Posted by incandescentcancer
I think I am more competitive than jealous.

in romance ?

Yeah, I am like that in everything.

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How can you be competitive in romance ?

Hope I'm not coming across as rude or intruding. It's just being competitive in romance is completely foreign to me.

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Posted by incandescentcancer

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Posted by incandescentcancer
I think I am more competitive than jealous.

in romance ?

Yeah, I am like that in everything.

How can you be competitive in romance ?

Hope I'm not coming across as rude or intruding. It's just being competitive in romance is completely foreign to me.

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Well, put yourself in a situation that you aren't the only one vying for a particular girl. What you gonna do, walk away?

@DeeGee: Yeah, you're jealous. I can see your Venus in Cancer all the way from here.

@Poisson: lol, yeah. I like pushing buttons.

@IC: I see what you mean. I don't compete which is why it sounded very different to me. Must be that Leo Venus of yours that loves the chase.

I love possessive women, but lately I've been seeing more psychotic than possessive. Got me curious about where cancers are in that spectrum. Particularly interested to hear from cancer women.


If I can help.. finish this sentence:

I was so mad, I just wanted to cut his balls of after... (complete this sentence/story)

balls off*

Posted by BommyKnocker
I love possessive women, but lately I've been seeing more psychotic than possessive.

Do you? Possessive women make me very concerned. It shows a lack of trust. Why does it comfort you?

Posted by incandescentcancer

Posted by BommyKnocker
I love possessive women, but lately I've been seeing more psychotic than possessive.

Do you? Possessive women make me very concerned. It shows a lack of trust. Why does it comfort you?

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I think because it implies investment in the relationship and commitment.

Posted by BommyKnocker
I love possessive women, but lately I've been seeing more psychotic than possessive. Got me curious about where cancers are in that spectrum. Particularly interested to hear from cancer women.


If I can help.. finish this sentence:

I was so mad, I just wanted to cut his balls of after... (complete this sentence/story)

my Man calls me 'territorial', lol and ya he loves it! I'm ok with chatting and banter but if the female starts to get ideas then I begin to squirm. and YES, they usually come on stronger after the see/meet me!!! grrrr. It's not his fault, i know.

I was so mad, I just wanted to cut his balls off after... he tried to make me jealous on purpose to test my affection or let me know he was mad about something

My possessiveness is about a 7 - Cancer Sun/Venus, Aries Mars
My baby's is about a 9 - Pisces Sun, Scorpio Mars, Aries Venus, Taurus Moon

I don't know.
Life is so mundane right now, I'm surprised I have a heart rate. 😢

Posted by sugaries
Even though I may feel the jealousy, I won't ever act on it...

Yeah, pretty much the same with me. I will feel it but I won't show it or act on it. I think it will result in stupid moves and just worsen the situation.

Posted by Poisson
Yes, it would irk the fuck out of me. And I'd voice my displeasure. Shoe on the other foot... would he want me sharing a hotel room with another man?

No, a guy reacts to this situation worse than a woman does usually. I don't think any guy is inherently comfortable with the idea of his SO sharing a room with another guy no matter what the trust level. You got to be very clear headed to accept something like that.

I'm jealous prone. The ranking depends on the depths of my feelings for the person.

With regards to my husband, I would be a 7.5.

venus - gemini
mars - saggitarius

btw...I will never spell saggi blah blah correct. I think it has two t's? or is it two r's?

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Posted by CanceritaBonita
btw...I will never spell saggi blah blah correct. I think it has two t's? or is it two r's?

sagggittatittiestarius?

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all I see in that word is titties lol

^^ sorry my inner 12 year old boy decided to come out today haha

Posted by Poisson

Right. So if he has any respect for our relationship he will try his damnest to find an alternative sleeping situation. If that is not possible, I will trust him and somehow say "i trust you" through my teeth gritting...

I agree, sometimes it's important to reassure the woman in your life. It doesn't matter if she is acting up a bit, she needs the petting. I am totally in favour of that.

Posted by LostinmyMind11

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Posted by CanceritaBonita
btw...I will never spell saggi blah blah correct. I think it has two t's? or is it two r's?

sagggittatittiestarius?

all I see in that word is titties lol

^^ sorry my inner 12 year old boy decided to come out today haha

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You said it and I just kept quiet, the observation was the same 😛.

Posted by Craabmoon
Lol, good eye Virgo.
Oops, lostinmymind11 🙂

🙂

Posted by incandescentcancer

Posted by LostinmyMind11

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Posted by CanceritaBonita
btw...I will never spell saggi blah blah correct. I think it has two t's? or is it two r's?

sagggittatittiestarius?

all I see in that word is titties lol

^^ sorry my inner 12 year old boy decided to come out today haha

You said it and I just kept quiet, the observation was the same 😛.

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suuuuure ;P

Depends on the situation. Most guys I have dated have had a lot of female friends, and remained friends with exes. My jealousy level was 3 and not even because I thought anything was fishy, I was just demanding of his time. had an ex cheat on me and my jealousy level was about a 4 or 5.. Mostly I thought it was funny and demanded he be my personal slave for a week. Honestly he felt worse about it then me.
Then again My x husband left me for his x. My jealousy level was... psychotic.

Moon Leo
Venus cancer
Mars Libra

I don't think I get jealous, I get really really sad if someone would play me a fool like in BK's example. That would be really bad judgement on his side and really bad judgement on my side to be with someone who'd do something so unrespectful. I would be greatly disappointed to myself for choosing so wrong.

Sun Moon Cancer, Venus Taurus, Mars Libra

He was ringing you to just to chat before going to bed and he incorporated the developments as part of small talk. If he didn't mention it and told you in a later date, it could appear like he was trying to hide something earlier.


It's kind of interesting to see how people analysed that scenario.

I don't consider myself jealous, for me my anger is almost always caused by being disrespected and or making me feel like a fool. I feel like people often get labeled as jealous when its more of a self-respect type of thing.I can't give a rating of 1-10 because it always depends on my mood. In that scenario though I'd be fine with all of that because he's being honest with me...unless I got a "feeling" when I met her that she had bad intentions or was disrespectful to me in anyway. I know it sounds cheesy but my gut feelings are always dead on, fellow cancers you must know what I'm talking about? I find it annoying actually, never having the luxury of getting to be naive about anybody. Even if I didn't trust her, I'd still trust him because he is filling me in on the situation. Even if she made me uncomfortable I'd act like it's all good, because you can't do anything about it anyway. Here's how that scenario could bring me to a 10, calling me and leaving out details-sharing a room. And then finding out about it after the fact. This type of thing makes me crazy!

^ Well answered, something like this goes on in my mind as well but am unable to find the right words to explain it. I also feel the term "jealousy" is widely misused and misunderstood.

LOL man this thread is hilarious, the little "scenarios" cracked me up.
Erm, I can't say I normally get jealous, I tend to maintain a very steady composure most of the time and can be pretty detached with my emotions (scorpio moon), but if there is something that sorta sets me off a bit, normally I would say my jealousy rating would be about a 4-5. Like 90% of the time I probably wouldn't speak of it or talk about my concerns, or definitely would not do some retarded action to try to distill my jealousy (aka crazy bitch actions).

Probably a couple times in the past or a couple possible situations could bring the rating up to an 8 at most though. Again, I have a tendency of keeping things inside which probably isn't very good.

I have a leo venus and mars.


I read on one of these posters that someone liked some level of possessiveness too. I guess I am the same way to a *certain* degree, only enough that they care about me and like to be around me and stuff, but definitely not to the extent of telling me what to do or what I can't do, or chaining me up to a basement column support or crazy sh*t like that lol. I've been with some controlling people and, obviously, it isn't fun.

Venus in taurus and mar cancer grade3

Posted by CluelessCancer
I'm jealous and possessive.

mmmm hmmm yeah i get ya. *sharpens blade and nods*

If I'm possessive of someone, then generally around an 8 if he seems to be showering his affections on another pretty 🙂
But I have to be totally love with that person for it to be pure, passionate jealousy.

Scorps seems to know how to poke a stick to provoke this.

Oh...sag rising, moon in Aries, Venus in gemini