Cancer man comes back, but not all the way..

Hi everybody! Hope y’all can help me out..

I have been dating this cancer man for 3 months now. The last month we haven’t been on speaking terms cause of an argument that we had a month ago. He felt as if I was making issues out of small things and instead of confronting him whenever I dislike something I choose to walk away whenever I feel upset. He hates the fact that I do so.

So after 4 weeks of little communication I decided to end it because I was so fed up with the whole thing. It was unclear to me if he just needed space or if he was done. And I couldn’t really ask him, cause every time I tried to talk to him he would just get angry for trying to talk to him whilst he was still clearing his mind.

Two days after I ended things I got a message from him sort of apologizing for the way he spoke to me which was kind of an aggressive way. That conversation actually led nowhere. Then a week later I started to miss him and messaged him that I missed the nice him and that I’ve been thinking of him. He said that he missed me too and asked what we could do about that to change it. So we agreed to meet up and talk about everything that happened.

Yesterday he came by and we talked about everything, I could sense that he didn’t want to give up and try to work on us. We made some agreements on how to handle things in the future so this doesn’t happen again. The only problem is that, after 5 weeks, he STILL needs to “mentally prepare” himself before going back to the way it was before. He wouldn’t even give me hug when he left. He also isn’t speaking to me now and told me that he is not there yet to send me the old “good morning” texts etc. How are we supposed to go back to normal if we aren’t even speaking? Is this typical Cancer behavior? How am I supposed to handle this?

I’m an Aquarius btw

Give him space, he will be clinging in no time.