CANCER MAN WITH A LOT OF SCORPO IN CHART

HELP ME!!! Deeply inlove with a Cancer man. And i know he is with me too...i see/feel a lot of scorpio in his chart. So he is very driven to have sex with me, right at the very start because of our connection. And im not ready. Im a virgin. I feel like i torture him with it bc yes i have the same desire so we do sext, but its like i always backout about actually pursuing in what were talking about if you know what i mean. He has been hurt in the past and he used to only open up when he was drunk...he doesnt drink anymore...but in school hes followed me, watched me, looked for me, (very lowkey but i still know lol)

I feel like hes to insecure to approach me...is it nerves? fear? doesnt want to mess it up? intimidated? (im a Sag) And im a very lucky catch...& very picky about who i like. HAvnt even had a real realtionship, he knows im virgin. SO i imagination he feels really good that i want to giv myself to him. (i was a lil pushy in the past about dating) (befor i knew that he was a sensitive emotional person he wud b cold short answerd and sexual/dirty.

I have made him jealous...i dont think he understands that i get along better with guys, and that i have a lot of guy friends.(or maybe he does and hate it ahah) But only hav eyes for him. I hav texted him (through his 9 month journey without face to face contact)..idek i just wunna know what he wants me to do...is he waiting for me to approach him...he has given me a vulnerable baby look face (head down eyes up) and his body posture is so low (like a shell) looking down at his phone when he knows im looking at him or when he knows he should b looking back too....

Im very confused, so many different moods idk witch one i shud approach him on..iv been thinking about caressing his hand and walking next to him (i know he wud b surprised) we havnt had physical contact ever.. because im scared of making the first move...and hes all like all (sex) or nothing (because he to scared??) ughhhh idk