Cancer Man's I Love You

I have this question to better understand him. Same old story, I have feelings for him and I said I love you to him. He said - "I love you too but my idea is different" He added he is not looking for any relationship, even with any other girls.

Out of this mess, he asked me to stay away and "move on". So I went through this painful heart break since last months and I am not over yet. While we were staying away, he kept in touch with me, asking how am I time to time. Timeline is in months. He told me that he does not like me staying away from him and he wants to reconnect.

I said I am still in love with you but you don't accept my one sided love, to which he responded that - "Its not one sided, I love you too but in different way than your feelings." Meanwhile, my brother is visiting me next month and when he got to know this, he is all excited to meet him, hang out with him.

Me and this Cancer guy haven't met since July and without talking about us, he is planning to meet my brother. It feels weird! My brother knows about him so they talked about meeting already over Facebook and what do they want to do when they meet.

I am a Taurus , 26 years old. My love interest is Cancer, 28 years old and my brother is Cancer, 25 years old. We are not that mature towards relationships. When he asked me to move on, I removed him from Facebook but he and my brother are still connected over Facebook.

Of course, I would like them both to gel well, I love them both 🙂 Moreover, this Cancer guy in our last conversation asked me to cook for him like I used to do before.

We are not platonic friends. He told me previously that he is extremely attracted to me and is thoroughly impressed. I don't know if I should see him again or stay away or reconnect like nothing happened between us.

And yes, we got intimated before parting off. Maybe he is referring his love as friendly love and I have romantic love for him? He says he has always said truth to me which includes - "I want you to be with me till my last breath but I am scared if we dated, I might lose you" (It did not make any sense to me obviously)

It feels like he also feels romantic love towards me but is hiding it up through friendship. Its my gut feeling which is saying he wants something else but doing something else.

I am an Asian who is on work visa in the US. He is an American. He knows I don't want to live here permanently. Since we met, he has helped me everywhere - almost everywhere.

I think he only wants to be friends, even if he has romantic feelings for me and I should accept it and move on.

Please help.

Thanks.

Leave him alone.

We don't do long distance and you're not trying to stay.

You're temporary because you want to be but regardless you can be a friend and your brother can be his friend - well it seems that they see it that way. Idk if they're both into astrology but I am and I always more than happy to meet other Cancers if I can. If there was a an app for that I'd be all over it.