Cancer man or even females. Is it true that you always go back to your ex if you ever truly loved them? Even if they hurt you?? What is the motive or reasoning behind it and how long does it take you to go back??
CANCER MEN AND EXES
to go back to keep in touch perhaps, to go back to rekindle a finished relationship is unlikely.
Posted by SentimentalCrabbydid you have someone else in the picture and still went back?? or were you totally single with no one ?
Well in my past experience from my last relationship I had constantly went back to my ex Virgo multiple times. I was naive and ignorant, he was my first real serious relationship... So, I would say I kept coming back because he made me believed that he was going to change.
And I was head over heels in love with him, I was going to do anything for him. Until I finally got to the point that I couldn't dwell with the pain anymore.
It didn't take me long to get back with him, but I am sure other cancer's would be different.
Yes they do. Also if they are in a committed relationship they will always seek out their ex...always. They believe even tho they're not currently together that this one person is thee only person that can love them completely. Often times putting their current mate through an unseen hell. They will sulk and retreat until they have time to get back with their ex who they consider their one true love.
Never been in love with any of them so not the best person to give an opinion. Happily stay in contact with most as friends but I'd never go back out with any of them.
Posted by SentimentalCrabbyInteresting. Would you be put off though if you tried to go back and got ignored would you then move on or would the feelings still be there? I was/ am in a predicament with my cancer ex. We were together 3.5 years but really broken up for the last year. We were trying to get back together and work on things but recently he had been acting funny and I discovered he was talking to another. I was really hurt because I had asked him before I even discovered this if there was someone else in his life/ picture and he lied and said no. We met up and I told him I would not be talking to him or seeing him again and he tried to call and text me that night and the next day but I did not reply. I figured he was angry ( which I dont know why when he wasn't the one it was done to ) and he sent me long mean text messages to which I did not respond. He sent me one last one and it said to enjoy my perfect little life and dont talk to him again. lolPosted by KrissyTheCappy36Single no one else was in the picture but him.Posted by SentimentalCrabbydid you have someone else in the picture and still went back?? or were you totally single with no one ?
Well in my past experience from my last relationship I had constantly went back to my ex Virgo multiple times. I was naive and ignorant, he was my first real serious relationship... So, I would say I kept coming back because he made me believed that he was going to change.
And I was head over heels in love with him, I was going to do anything for him. Until I finally got to the point that I couldn't dwell with the pain anymore.
It didn't take me long to get back with him, but I am sure other cancer's would be different.click to expand
Posted by GoldigoldI think maybe everyone is different. When I first got with my cancer ex he would talk about his ex girlfriend alot or make references to her lol
My Cancer wouldn't give two shakes to his exes.
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
@KrissyTheCappy36
All with honesty, I been put off constantly and been ignored and I would try to make conversations with him, simply cause I was way too attach (I blame myself for that). All my emotions that I bottled up was kept inside, and it was always about him. All the conversations was always about what he wanted to do in his life, and I would just listen to him.
And yes, the feelings would still be there. But I've already made up my mind that I wasn't going to deal with his bullshit anymore and go on with my life (It was a toxic relationship.)
In my opinion, you did the right thing to shut him off. When cancers are sort of over-whelmed about an on and off relationship, they get pretty indecisive on what they want. (I got confused).
Once they realize they're losing you they panic and try to get you back.
However, I think that was pretty immature for him to send mean text messages. I never done that, the Virgo ex already end up with somebody and tried to console me, hoping we would talk to each other and leave in peace.
But he hurt me too much, said he was going to do something and put all the blame on me.
I burned the bridge, left, and ran to the other side of the fence where the grass is greener. Which it is for me :]
In my mind I believe I did the right thing but my heart still has those feelings and that sense of what if. I mean I'm just confused about why he would lie about such a thing when all he had to be was open and honest. I felt like I had no choice but to walk away because I am not going to compete with another for someones attention or love you know? Its been two weeks since all of this happened and I haven't heard from him but of course I understand that he's probably mad or something plus he has the other female. Do you think down the road he'll own up to it and apologize or do cancers not really do that?
My cancer guy actually made a meme/video (on Facebook) on how he walks past his ex. I didn't watch it, but it makes me wonder, like why go through the trouble? Is he trying to get her attention? Note, the video is set to public.
Posted by Jkatslol see yeah I think that's a cancer thing. He might be thinking of her.
My cancer guy actually made a meme/video (on Facebook) on how he walks past his ex. I didn't watch it, but it makes me wonder, like why go through the trouble? Is he trying to get her attention? Note, the video is set to public.
Posted by GoldigoldYeah same after a while it stopped. When I first started talking to him though it did bother me... like why do you constantly talk about your ex? But as I read around I guess thats kind of a thing for your sign. Do cancers ever feel guilt or remorse about things they do ??Posted by KrissyTheCappy36Mine did too, we both did. I thinks it's normal to share experiences in beginning then I told him I don't want to talk about it anymore. So he stopped.Posted by GoldigoldI think maybe everyone is different. When I first got with my cancer ex he would talk about his ex girlfriend alot or make references to her lol
My Cancer wouldn't give two shakes to his exes.
But he doesn't hold onto his past.click to expand
Posted by KrissyTheCappy36Which is NOT a good thing imo. Thinking is one thing, but to make a meme/video about it? Unless he's bitter (don't remember why they broke up), and is rubbing that shit in her face. Wish I could remember who broke up with whom.Posted by Jkatslol see yeah I think that's a cancer thing. He might be thinking of her.
My cancer guy actually made a meme/video (on Facebook) on how he walks past his ex. I didn't watch it, but it makes me wonder, like why go through the trouble? Is he trying to get her attention? Note, the video is set to public.click to expand
Posted by JkatsBut then again, he knows I would see it, so i'm just confused. Maybe he was trying to reassure me (in his own crabbie way), that she isn't a threat, that I am his one and only.Posted by KrissyTheCappy36Which is NOT a good thing imo. Thinking is one thing, but to make a meme/video about it? Unless he's bitter (don't remember why they broke up), and is rubbing that shit in her face. Wish I could remember who broke up with whom.Posted by Jkatslol see yeah I think that's a cancer thing. He might be thinking of her.
My cancer guy actually made a meme/video (on Facebook) on how he walks past his ex. I didn't watch it, but it makes me wonder, like why go through the trouble? Is he trying to get her attention? Note, the video is set to public.click to expand
It depends on the relationship, how well it went, how enigmatic the ex was, why they broke up with me...
As a Cancer, I do reflect on the past quite a bit, but we learn, too.
I can see me talking to an ex, but not being intimate. I could only take back an ex if the breakup was super recent, but after some time, that person is history to me. I've studied that person, I'm objective, I see the flaws, and the mistakes with that person.
As a Cancer, I do reflect on the past quite a bit, but we learn, too.
I can see me talking to an ex, but not being intimate. I could only take back an ex if the breakup was super recent, but after some time, that person is history to me. I've studied that person, I'm objective, I see the flaws, and the mistakes with that person.
Posted by thinktoomuchMostly likely yes, or overthinking once again. Why oh why are Cancer men so hard to let go?!?! I've NEVER had this problem before with any guy, even my ex fiance. I KNOW that I would be perfectly fine single, and would eventually find my forever, but my heart is too invested in him to cut ties. It's really frustrating. 😢 I know i'm being stubborn....Posted by JkatsSeriously Jkats! To me it sounds like you are misreading the cancer guy in an extreme way, because you don´t know how to let go of it and him.Posted by JkatsBut then again, he knows I would see it, so i'm just confused. Maybe he was trying to reassure me (in his own crabbie way), that she isn't a threat, that I am his one and only.Posted by KrissyTheCappy36Which is NOT a good thing imo. Thinking is one thing, but to make a meme/video about it? Unless he's bitter (don't remember why they broke up), and is rubbing that shit in her face. Wish I could remember who broke up with whom.Posted by Jkatslol see yeah I think that's a cancer thing. He might be thinking of her.
My cancer guy actually made a meme/video (on Facebook) on how he walks past his ex. I didn't watch it, but it makes me wonder, like why go through the trouble? Is he trying to get her attention? Note, the video is set to public.click to expand
Posted by thinktoomuchBut why even do it if he knows that I will see it? THAT'S what I don't get. Is he that stupid lol?
Well who knows, maybe it´s a cultural thing, maybe things are just different where you guys are from, than where I am from, but if I was dating someone, and they made a mede to put on facebook walking past their ex, that to me would be a huge indicator, that this person is not in any way over that ex. It´s like a cry out for attention from the ex or mutual friends. Imo.
I just couldn´t stop myself from commenting, because seems like the more you share about him and you, the more obvious it becomes, that it´s not what you want it to be.... But that´s just me, and I´ll let it go now.
And no, he's definitely not giving me what I want/need. I know that if one of my girlfriends was going through what i'm going through right now, i'd tell them to move on. But yet, I can't take my own advice.
Posted by KrissyTheCappy36Yeah my ex cancer, when we first got together was ALWAYS talking about his ex. It was a little annoying. I know he still had feelings for her. She was a scorpio and basically crushed him lol.Posted by GoldigoldYeah same after a while it stopped. When I first started talking to him though it did bother me... like why do you constantly talk about your ex? But as I read around I guess thats kind of a thing for your sign. Do cancers ever feel guilt or remorse about things they do ??Posted by KrissyTheCappy36Mine did too, we both did. I thinks it's normal to share experiences in beginning then I told him I don't want to talk about it anymore. So he stopped.Posted by GoldigoldI think maybe everyone is different. When I first got with my cancer ex he would talk about his ex girlfriend alot or make references to her lol
My Cancer wouldn't give two shakes to his exes.
But he doesn't hold onto his past.click to expand
Speaking of him his mom called me the other day. I know they were probably talking about me. But I have no desire to go back down that road.
Lol ...cancers are so complicated and when I look back its crazy how you dont really notice their traits in the beginning because they are so charming! Then over timethey display their true colors and become manipulative ..it really is a shame.
Posted by SentimentalCrabbyWhat do you make of what I posted? How my crab made that Facebook meme/video. Look through comments...
@KrissyTheCappy36
It's pretty common to have those moments when you think 'what if,' your heart still loved him emotionally. But your mind is the one thinking logically, there are signs about him that you did not agree upon wasn't there?
I am sure that he didn't confront you about it, since he was probably seeing where things were leading to when you two were still talking. He was keeping his options open.
And I clearly could comprehend with you about walking away and not competing with another woman. I did the same. You realized your worth and value, no woman is supposed to be part of a contest just to win over a man's love. You're also important, you have feelings and you deserved to be loved in return as well.
Fighting for a man's love to prove you'll be there until the end is a waste of your time. He realize it too late and it is his loss.
Usually some cancer men believes they weren't at fault for they wouldn't come around and apologize.
Posted by SentimentalCrabbyHmmm, I kinda thought that, but then was thinking that he wanted his ex to see it to get a reaction from her.Posted by JkatsIf that meme/video was post in public instead of private in Facebook.. Then he is actually thinking you'll be roaming around his page to see what he has been doing lately.Posted by SentimentalCrabbyWhat do you make of what I posted? How my crab made that Facebook meme/video. Look through comments...
@KrissyTheCappy36
It's pretty common to have those moments when you think 'what if,' your heart still loved him emotionally. But your mind is the one thinking logically, there are signs about him that you did not agree upon wasn't there?
I am sure that he didn't confront you about it, since he was probably seeing where things were leading to when you two were still talking. He was keeping his options open.
And I clearly could comprehend with you about walking away and not competing with another woman. I did the same. You realized your worth and value, no woman is supposed to be part of a contest just to win over a man's love. You're also important, you have feelings and you deserved to be loved in return as well.
Fighting for a man's love to prove you'll be there until the end is a waste of your time. He realize it too late and it is his loss.
Usually some cancer men believes they weren't at fault for they wouldn't come around and apologize.
They'll assume you'll watch it just out of your curiosity and say something about it. They will laugh, thinking that is their way of revenge too.
To put it simple, that's their way of boosting up their ego. If you seen other videos in other medias that involves "That moment when you bump or see your ex."click to expand
And I won't say shit lol, what's the point? Gonna message you by the end of the day, just be on the lookout. 😉
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