Cancer men in relationships - Are they jealous of strong women!?

Just my past experience ... I'm a pisces sun/libra moon/leo rising ... I'm sensitive and an assertive woman.

I've been involved with a handful of cancer sun and cancer moon men in my past. I've noticed that with many of these relationships (which have never ended well, I may add), these guys needed a weaker person with them. They have this weird push-pull where they're attracted to stronger, maternal women, but look to tear them down when it all ends. I don't get it at all.

These cancers will be the ones to end things, but when I move on, they'll still try to passively aggressively "one up" me as I move on with my life successfully. Here's an example ... I've noticed a few exes stalking me on Facebook and whenever I post something positive about my life, they post something similar (although they've been quiet online for months!) In the meanwhile, they have some doormat of a girlfriend that fits their idea of the weaker feminine archetype. But they'll be cheating on her and obsessing about the exes that THEY DUMPED ...

This is some of the saddest, most pathetic behavior I've seen. I feel like many of these cancers have issues with women in general and hate their feminine side ... Not sure why they feel compelled to attack women who don't eat shit for a living ...

Anyone have a similar experience with cancer placements in men? Tell me your stories.

they respect strong women.

They don't enjoy it as much if you're too opinionated and judgmental/independent strong women who forget how to be soft and feminine while being strong.

Strong women who carry themselves like men, they don't like

Strong women who stay grounded and can do things on her own while remaining feminine and warm .... that will get most men , not just cancer