Cancer men: Scorpio Vs Aquarius

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Posted by iwin32
1. Yes, no doubt.
2. I dislike Aquarius cold, fake, back stabbing, etc personality.
3. I don't know if they play the "needy", as you said, role better than the Aquas or any other sign, but I get along with Scorpios and we're very similar. I like the way Scorpio females show their love. Aquas are a 'NO, NO' for me. But hey, I hate them and they hate me that I may end marrying one. /s



How do we seem fake? Can you explain how a Scorpio loves differently?

Thanks
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Aquas: Care a great deal about humanity at large and how they fit in/or don't fit into it. They are very concerned with how they come across to society in general and want to project who they are as an individual. Unfortunately, who they are is based more in idealism than reality, therefore what they project is usually not who they really are at all. It is the ideal version of themselves... so they can come off as fake.

Fascinating minds, very logical and almost emotionally dead. Most Aquas I know consider emotions as weakness and this is where they can really clash with Cancers.

Scorpios: Also interesting minds, a bit more self absorbed and/or superficial but have unbelievable emotional intensity. I would describe a Scorpio as 'demanding' more than 'needy'. A Scorpio will show their love in an emotional way, be it sexual, nurturing, anger, jealousy... you're going to feel it.

I find both like to argue but an Aqua just likes to fight for the sake of it. No real reason sometimes and are fine with walking away after.
A Scorpio always has a reason for a fight and is passionate about it. There will always be time for making up after...

But really, it is so hard to compare these two elements (air and water) and the rest of your chart will have a big impact on how you go about things.
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Posted by myownway
It is very true that when people feel emotions around me I think they are weak and out of control. I also feel very embarressed for people with they are acting on their emotions. I also think my Leo moon does not help me deal with emotions either. Ugh



Awww... it's not a bad thing, it's just different 🙂

I know a Aqua / Virgo couple and they are made for each other! I wouldn't try to change who you are.. just find someone who will appreciate your awesomeness and not make your relationship a battleground.
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Posted by myownway
Questions for the Cancer men:

#1 Do you prefer Scorpio women over Aquarius?
#2 Which ever your preference why do you like one more so over the other?
#3 Do you feel Scorpio women play the "needy" role better and express passion better?

Thanks



#1 Depends more on the individual woman and what your definition of prefer is.

#2 "Liking" someone should be based on who they are as a person, their attitude,
their actions, their morals/ethics, not their Sun sign.

3# From a general perspective Scorpio's have a reputation for being passionate
and they are certainly 'sexually' charged by nature but so can many other Sun signs
when you get to know them.

I feel you are seeking to answer some specific questions running through your mind
possibly relating to a specific situation you're currently experiencing or have
experienced recently but your generalized approach may end up giving you a false sense
of understanding.


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#1 I understand that it depends on the individual, but I was asking here on a horoscope board for a more general answer based on the signs.

#2 Again, I understand, but I was looking for general answers, like some of the other posted

#3 From what I have read it sounds like Scorpios are more into sex than Aquas.

It would not give me a false sense of understanding, as I understand everything is different for every person. I just thought there may have been a few Cancer men that could give me their general opinion. Thanks
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myownway
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Posted by iwin32
1. Yes, no doubt.
2. I dislike Aquarius cold, fake, back stabbing, etc personality.
3. I don't know if they play the "needy", as you said, role better than the Aquas or any other sign, but I get along with Scorpios and we're very similar. I like the way Scorpio females show their love. Aquas are a 'NO, NO' for me. But hey, I hate them and they hate me that I may end marrying one. /s



You are definitely marrying an Aquarius. lol lol :-)
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scorpios smell like onion rings. no bueno! I prefer aquas all day. They know how to have fun and don't make everything about themselves. Scorpios are nut jobs (generalizing from experience) and they are needy in a creepish bossy manner. Aquas are aloof and withdrwn in public but i'm no fool and i know what's up.

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Michael
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There is a potential for incredible chemistry between the two. It is the lack of empathy on the part of the Aquarius that can hinder the ability to flourish. Cancers are sympathetic to a fault and Aquarians don't seem to be equipped with the same feelers for that. The passion in other the erotic zones though could level house and home. If you really want to be with a Cancer, understand the nature of their subtle ways and their need to be feel and be tender and you are on your way.