Cancer men: Why won't he just leave me alone?

I'm A cancer myself and have been dealing with a cancer man for about 2 years. He pretty much broke my heart when I thought he and I were on the same page. I can't be his friend because it hurts too much and I need closure. He won't let me go tho. I'll ask him to leave me alone, I've been really mean a few times and yet he'll always...ALWAYS come back. I feel he has feelings for me, but he does not open up. I know he got rejected at 17 and he said he'd never let that feeling happen again. Ok, but you're 33 now it's time to let that go!

He pulled away from me, yet he comes back. He's doing his own thing now too and so am I...I just would like to know why does he come back if he does not want to be with me? As a Cancer,I never return if the feelings are no longer there..also I am known to cut (like I am trying to do him) men off if I see it will not go anywhere, even if I am in love. He is moving to China in 6 months and last week I told him I couldn't wait for him to leave so I can finally rid of him. Harsh, I know but I do mean that. I love him so much, but I know we will not work. I just would like some insight on what may be going thru his mind.

Posted by Arielle83
Hey I met a cancer in high school with the same birthday as me and to this day we still keep in touch. It's one of those relationships where we just pick up after where we left off. Nothing different. There were times where he asked to be with me and I rejected him so we would break contact. But if we were in the same area code down the road, we would meet up again. We actually just met up this week in our home town. He lives in London, England now and I live in Perth, Australia. We've known each other for 16 years and I think it will always be like this. Cancers are long standing. You can reject each other but if there is history it just keeps going. Why do you not want him around?

Because I am still very much in love with him and having him around is killing me. I'd rather not deal with that..

Yes he knows I am and there's something wrong because I have no idea how he feels about me. I actually want to be with him and he doesn't want a relationship. Therefore I need to move on and he needs to let me. He pushes and pulls and i deserve better.