I cant believe i am writing a post but like everyone else on here i am frustrated with a cancer guy!!!!!!! I call him cancer bc he is more like a Cancer than any Sagittarius i ever met. You see i am an Aquarius , with an Aries moon. Yes, i am direct, chatty and aggressive....I met this guy online, he is 7 years younger than me. I wasn't sold right away but he was pretty consistant with persuing me...slow but steady. At the time my daughter was 2 months old and i was very cautious about who i let into my life...He reassured me he didnt mind. We spent time over the summer and got closer, he did "spook" once and told me he didnt know if he was ready for a serious relationship bc he just moved to our city and didnt have a place to live yet ablbalablan.....Anyway i gave him the cold shoulder and he pushed for us to stay together. We got closer, things were going well..He and i bonded in the best of ways, We laughed, we cuddled, we opened up to each other, and i fed him. He reassured me when i needed...He was great about my daughter...anyway to make a long familiar story short, he withdrew about once a month, around the full moon times. I knew nothing about "shelling" or "giving space" or "having patience" I questioned him and he and i found our way back to each other....About 6 weeks ago same thing, he acted cold and withdrew...I reached my limit and out of fear i told him, "i dont think he is ready for this and i would still always be his friend." Well needless to say i think i crushed him. I know he withdrew on me but he wasnt expecting my quick decision to just be friends.... I was offended, and now we are slowing starting to text. I initiated and said "when you get settled and move, i hope we can see each other"...he said "we can see each other sooner if i want, busy week at work but soon enough" anyways that was two weeks ago and i am wondering WTF——?? I miss him, and i know its alllll my fault but seriously i question how real these guys are. I mean it seemed real to me, but if he could be so unforgiving it shows me that we didnt have a leg to stand on in the first place...BUT i know he will return but do i really want to be in this web— I have 7 seven years on him and a child so i am thinking i might take a pass, although i think he is the best guy ever, HE IS WORTH IT..why would he say we can see each other soon enough and then nothing—? i guess he is really thinking about an explanation and if he can trust me again.......any comments??
