Cancers....ha.

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by UsernameTaken on Sunday, October 16, 2011 and has 19 replies.

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14 Years

so why are you guys out of your minds emotionally speaking? and whats up with the mind games? i think its retarded that you actually keep boyfriends/girlfriends acting the way the most of you do.

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Posted by UsernameTaken
so why are you guys out of your minds emotionally speaking? and whats up with the mind games? i think its retarded that you actually keep boyfriends/girlfriends acting the way the most of you do.

maybe cos you talk to them like this? ^^^ 😛

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Posted by UsernameTaken
so why are you guys out of your minds emotionally speaking? and whats up with the mind games? i think its retarded that you actually keep boyfriends/girlfriends acting the way the most of you do.

So a Capricorn from Killadelphia is here to talk about the emotional problems of OTHER people?

Talk about projecting!!!

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@Cancerianbby69
14 YearsCancer

I guess everyone should keep their hands off cancer males and leave em to cancer woman lol

Cancer guy #1 was so into me the first day that
He kept txtn me everyday from there then I stopped it cuz he started talking abt marrage.

Cancer guy#2 Same story except I actually want to keep this one. X)

Lol I agree thou. They have mixed emotions. Just make sure u keep being yourself. They dont like fakes. My bf likes everything I do for him. I like to talk alot and we have ALOT in common so try to find those things u guys have in common and make convo.

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Well. I had to comment on this thread. Honestly I am surrounded by Cancers. I have no flipping idea why either. Water signs gravitate towards me like a fly does to a zapper. As soon as I find out they're a Cancer I'm getting my crab punter ready to launch their ass straight back into the abyss they came from.

I won't disagree entirely with User due to the fact that most of it is true. I have dated my share of Cancer men who just happen to be bat butter crazy, and the girls always cling to me like I am their therapist. *Peels them off*

Seriously hate to break it to you, I tolerate you water signs, for now. A really good friend of mine for I think about 17 years now is a Cancer. There are times we have a falling out because I just cannot deal with her anymore. And I don't mean just like a month, I mean years. She clings to dear life when it comes to dating people, recycles her exes, does REALLY dumb things in search for love like sleeping with them and then oh gee can't figure out why they don't like her. Here is a fun fact. Sex doesn't always mean love. How about you separate the two and stop living in la la land? Hum? Yeah.

My sister is also a Cancer. She drives me insane sometimes. Her manipulation is so obvious, but not to my Taurus mother. She gets all moody and broody and loves to hear herself complain and moan about anything and everything.

One of my bosses is also a Cancer male. He is probably the biggest asshole I have ever, ever met. At least this one time I stood my ground when he tried to talk butter to me. Since then he keeps it short and sweet and the hell outta my area. Just the way I like it. Please for the LOVE of god stop bringing your emotions and beating us air signs down with it.

Oh and one more thing about Cancers. They search and search for love, their soulmate, whatever it may be. The second they get it they run or head for the hills. Its like some sort of self-sabotage.

***END RANT***

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Posted by iwin32

Posted by Xin

Well, you're a Gemini, so all you just said doesn't surprise me at all. You guys dislike our personality, just as we (Cancers) dislike yours. I've had Gemini friends in the past, and it wasn't pretty, because you guys are just cold, manipulative, and fake (Maybe not all Geminis are like that, but that's what I've seen from you guys), something I dislike with a passion, and that's the reason I stay away from your sign, and if one of you approaches me, I'll definitely block you or kick you out, because I don't need that kind of people in my life and that goes for Libras, Aries, Sagittarius, and Aquarius as well. I don't know who I dislike the most, Geminis or Aquarius. No wonder the two get along very well.

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Hum. Well I don't think I am very manipulative though. Cancers are kings/queens of manipulation. I haven't met a Gemini yet that was manipulative. We don't have the attention span for that butter let alone care enough about that person to manipulate them in the first place. I can be cold, but it's very rare. And that last comment on Aquarius and Gemini's we do get along pretty well, but I find they have their head in the clouds more than I do. And yes it annoys me. I did have a really good relationship with one Aquarius male, my first relationship ever actually when I was 17. We are still friends. It didn't work out, but he is still a good friend. Another Aquarius though OH no no no. He broke up with me over a text message. That sent my Taurus Venus/Mars charging straight at him. I was FURIOUS. So I don't always like all other air signs 🙂

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Posted by PurrrrHissss

Posted by Xin
Seriously hate to break it to you, I tolerate you water signs, for now.

Don't worry, the feeling is very mutual. I can't tell you how many times I've been around a Gemini and thought, "wow, if this bitch doesn't stop talking in the next five seconds, I'm throwing my coffee in her/his face."

Remember:

Don't make us use the latter on you guys.

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I only talk to people I know otherwise I won't say a word. Most of the time I don't talk to people who are mentally my inferior. 🙂

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15 YearsCancer

I concur with Purrr on this gems can be trying at times , my moms boyfriend is a Gem and there definitely are times where my blood begins to boil . All and all though hes a great guy just likes to antangonize from time to time lol.

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Gems get hit hard by all other zodiac signs so... you really have to stop and wonder

Personally, I don't mess with Gems or Libras... seem to be all about gossip, the latest and greatest, themselves and any other shallow thing you can think of. Aquas I like because they have an interesting thought pattern, even though they are emotional robots.

BUT, I can appreciate a Gem for who they are. Usually the one bitching, stripping or doing body shots in the middle of a crowded bar. 😛

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awww... love Maddy and Wineaux! I really don't know too many Gems either mostly because I think people do gravitate towards others they can relate to. I do know one Gem whom I love to pieces!! and she has a Aqua Moon to boot. She is a ray of sunshine and charms people with her love and laughter everywhere she goes. She's priceless!

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Posted by Xin
As soon as I find out they're a Cancer I'm getting my crab punter ready to launch their ass straight back into the abyss they came from.

Hahahahahaa...you are funny! Awwww...my little crabbies. I love 'em. Emotions and all.

LOL...hmmm....gem you are? Wonder your thoughts on Virgos. Hah!

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Basically we like to see how u react when its hot in the kitchen. If u can act with Grace under Fire then we will give you the due props you deserve.

The emotional fallout from a bad relationship is very hard for us, the games are not for drama but for protection.(Well it can be for drama if we sorta hate your personality and want to put you down a notch if no one else is going to 🙂