Cancer sun, Capricorn moon.

(1/2) I've posted about this crab on my other account (I lost the pswd and was unable to log back in, dang it). I'm not sure how long this post will end up being but please read, I'm really needing some advice. We've been friends for about three years now, he's always pursued me aggressively, cared for me deeply. Despite that he would have points in time where he would kinda fall off the map a little bit. He has always cared deeply for me and I have always seen potential with him though I never really jumped on it because I like to take things cautiously at first, I felt too much pressure from him.

Anyway, after those three years we end up seeing each other now and then and eventually, about two months ago, staying the night together. It was mind blowing, we were both kind of in awe after, and I KNOW he felt it just as much as I did and I KNOW he was interested after that. I also spent the night at this house the next night as well. Anyway, obviously I wanted to talk about things and what type of affect this event had on our relationship. We agreed that things moved too fast intimately but it was a long time coming. He made it clear that he was very interested in me, no one else, but he was about to become freakishly busy with work and school (45+ hrs a week, four classes, poor guy) and I was too (two jobs, three classes).

After that, we kept in touch and about a week later the two of us, drunk, ended up staying the night with each other again. It was interesting, this time I felt a difference, it wasn't the level it was before though we were still connected he seemed like he was a little more closed off emotionally the two nights following the first. As if he was trying to protect himself or something (I've rejected him in the past, with valid reason. Even though he understands that, I sense that it still bothers him). We're kind of at the point where the two of us aren't really sure how to interact with each other. The last couple times we've seen each other before then we have not had sex and really enjoyed each other's company.

I talked to him about three weeks ago, asking where we stood, I needed more clarification. He made it clear I was the only one he was interested in, he also said he wasn't avoiding me, he's just busy as hell all the time and hasn't had time to see anyone. I pretty much gushed to him about what a fool I had been for not seeing him before, even though he knew why, and that I really cared about him. He said he wasn't su

(2/2) what I wanted from him. He then asked me if I wanted a relationship or what, seeming confused. I told him not at this point in time, but I loved the idea of us together. He went on to say that he agreed, he just couldn't put his whole heart into this right now on top of all of his obligations, which I understand. We made some sarcastic jokes about how we were going to try and —pencil each other into our own busy schedules?? and ended the conversation.

main point: I've stopped hearing from him like I had before. He's obviously busy due to school getting really insane right now but I'd like to hear from him now and then. Though, whenever I contact him I get an immediate response. I texted him saying the situation didn't seem fair. He replied with saying that he didn't see how that applied to him because he hasn't left his house unless he was going to work or class. That hurt a bit.

Anyway, what is your take on the situation? I feel like he'll be back in due time. I'm not familiar with cap moons but I know my cap venus makes it HARD for me to let go of things, despite myself appearing cautious or reserved or whatever you want to call it.

OH, I forgot to add this. He's open about how he's feeling with me, especially when he's moody. One night, he was texting me after he got home from class. He was in a cancer funk, which I find adorable. I was at a hookah lounge like two minutes away from his house, I asked him if he wanted to come out and have a drink with me. I got no reply but he ended up showing up there to surprise me. I was just about to leave. :/

I walked with him to his car and almost conviced him to come with me to a friends house. I didn't really want to go, but I was obligated & really wanted his company. He was in a crappy mood and was heading home. I offered to spend some time with him there and I know he wanted me to come but wouldn't give me a straight answer. I lacked the balls to just follow him there without him being blunt. We both kind of lingered talking then when he finally left he PEELED OUT of the parking lot, I felt anger from him. As I was leaving the lot behind him he kept hitting his breaks to see if I was following him, or where I was going, idk. A friend showed up at the lounge I forgot about so I turned back around. I let him know I was staying, he didn't come back, crabby little man. Anyway, I texted him later on asking what was up with his exit and if all was ok, no response. Talked to him the next day

What sign are you? Sun and Moon?

I'm an aqua-pisces sun (more of a water influence), a leo moon, pisces merc, venus&mars cap and a scorp rising.

He's a cancer sun, cap moon (cap moons boggle me..), leo merc, cancer venus, taurus mars and libra rising.

I'm not sure if that helps at all.

Basically, from what I read your relationship is going fine, you are just stressing. Although you say you are happy with the situation as it is, you expect love or a more romantic affair hence all your insecurities. Be honest with yourself and see where this goes. If you put pressure on him right now with all his work, he is just going to run away. Easier option is to tell him that you would like to spend a couple of days with him every week or whatever and allow him to do his thing. This way the relationship will develop and bloom normally, he is not going anywhere. Be secure.

So it goes on like that, communication is open and its a challenge to find enough time for yourselves. Capricorn moon I think is a serious and conservative moon you can research more on it as it relates to his inner self I believe. You seem a little over anxious to be with him and you keep tabs on him but preoccupy yourself with something else, stay busy and atleast try to be friends.