Cancer Venus?

Please explain this love language to me! I have a Sag in Venus and my Sun sign is in Libra with a Moon in Cancer so I am wondering if I come off as too detached or giving mixed signals?

What's their moon sign?

With my venus in cancer, I'm passive, timid, love family and friends, I love people who do things for me, because a I do a lot for people and ask for nothing in return, so when someone else takes charge, it feels good, I really do appreciate it.

We might eat too much, prefer to stay home or be with close friends. I hope I helped.

He has a moon in Scorpio and Sun in Gemini. I have a Venus in Sag and a moon in Cancer. I feel like I've lost him he has been distant but popping in and out of conversation I feel like a mess.