@Ashdogchic
11 YearsSagittarius
Capricorns help!
Most Caps are workaholics, but when they are really into you, they are really into you and will make time for you. Also, it kinda sounds like he has another dominating sign. Do you know if he has any immediate Aries in him? If not, sad to say, he just may not be that into you, and if you think he's still involved with his ex, you're probably right. Go with your intuition.
See this is were I'm confused.. I can tell I'm the only girl that's been over just from meeting his family in a long time but damn does he hve to be so selfish and careless
He could possibly be testing me I wanted some advice if I should leave or stick it out , thank you for your advice
Posted by Ashdogchic
He could possibly be testing me I wanted some advice if I should leave or stick it out , thank you for your advice
@M is giving some pretty good tips, but if you are being treated with disregard, then I think you already know the answer. Also, even the forced sex thing seem to be a little out of character for a Cap man. They are sexual beings and love sex normally, but I can't see them forcing it on you, and like I said earlier, when a CAP man is into you, they are really into you. I'm not even sure about the part when you said he had sex with someone else since you wouldn't have sex with him. That's a lot of out-of-character traits for a Capricorn, but then again, I guess everyone is different so that's why I said to see if you can find out what his other placements are. Well, like I've always said...If you have to question a person's feelings for you, then you're already in the negative.
Anyone who pushes sex on you before you are ready is NOT a keeper. Toss him back into the pond.
Posted by truecap
Anyone who pushes sex on you before you are ready is NOT a keeper. Toss him back into the pond.
+100000000
I told him how I felt about the lying and carelessness , he said wow ok bye then. Such an asshole. We're done.:.
SUCH an ASS!!!
You're so much better off without him!
Thank you , talking about it has left me empowered by the decision! Hopefully I get to date a cap again whos willing to offer the awesome benifits they hold onto!
He's just a bad guy all the way around. Please don't let that one bad seed ruin all caps for you.
Posted by Ashdogchic
I told him how I felt about the lying and carelessness , he said wow ok bye then. Such an asshole. We're done.:.
Sorry to hear that he was such a jerk 😢
Cap men are really challenging. Thankfully they help us Saggies grow! Hope you find the right one for you, good luck!
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Hi I'm a 21 year old Sag female with a moon in cancer and rising in Leo. I have never dated a Capricorn male but something about this year has made me less attracted to the usual Gemini, Aries, Leo group. I met Sean on tindr, he is a handsome brilliant guy who loves travel, go to shows and plays in a band. He is 24 and works way to much at his job. As I'm getting to know him I'm realizing that most of his life consist of work. He seems up tight and selfish and no matter how hard I try I can't help but feel like I'm walking on egg shells. I'm not used to his "my way or the highway" attitude when we first met he pushed sex until I gave in, it was absolutely magical I have never had sex with someone like that before . But deep down I was a little annoyed, he pushes sex even when I already say no. I also noticed that he hides things. I showed up to his house three days ago to bring him his medication. He was so drunk , while driving he told me some good and bad things I could tell he'd been holding inside for a while. He told me he valued that I cared so much , and that his family likes me a lot but then he told me that a while back when I ignored him for a week he had sex with someone. :/ the thing is I gave him plenty of chances to tell me this but only when he was drunk did the truth come out. The next morning he was short and grumpy with me , he told me he'd make things up to me but spent the whole day doing what he wanted to do and told me he'd call me when he was ready, around 5 I called him saying I really wanted to see him he seemed just grumpy and careless and said he'd call me back in a few minutes... I never got a call... His excuse 4 words "sorry I fell asleep" he also explained hes very busy but damn what a harsh capricorn . Anyways I do see a future with this man and assume he's not willing to give me all of him just yet. I know that capricorns can be like that but I'm starting to wonder if he sees me as a side chick, since something's telling me he's not over his ex, (still says they're in a relationship on fb) which is the reason we fought. His excuse was he never goes on fb and that he hates his ex and that she's a cookiemonster. I just don't ever want to be a stupid girl so please be as brutally honest as possible , i got so mad I have not messaged him back and he has not hit me up again. What do you guys think? Any advice is helpful.