I am seriously beginning to loose hope on my cancerian boyfriend.
We have had so many problems during the year. And recently last few months things have been going so absolutely great.
But he suggested the weekend we go away for a 2 day trip cause he leaves to go abroad in a week and we won't spend anything together.
So 2 day trip booked. We leave the next morning. I'm packing my bags....He texts cool do I fetch you from work. I say no from home. So he says no never ur family hates me. I say I'll meet him at the gate.
He goes no leave it cancel the trip.
So I try to reason with him.... He goes I shall discuss this when I'm back from my business trip.
And he dissappears.
Humiliated I unpack my bags....cause of course the family that hates him r watching me been made an idiot.
I have texted many times and called and apologised. But he's not responding.
And he leaves tomorrow. And will miss xmas and new year and my bday.
What must I do? Should I call it quits. I have begged and pleaded for him not to leave the country try angry. But he doesn't care.
Get rid of him! When someone shows you who they are... Believe them! It was an inconsiderate move over something so petty. He has the ego of an elephant which will always come before you! Give him what he wants - not just space - but... A huge VOID!!!
There's something wrong with this Cancer. There are two sides to this story(and from experience, Capricorns tend to narrate and rationalize situations only to their favor) Why are you begging him?
LOL. Moody sons of bitches. Nah it sounds like he probably had a surprise planned somewhere in his plans and you fucked it up by insisting he do something other than what he planned and then since you ruined the surprise he got frustrated and bailed. Think so? My girl does that a lot and you have to learn her moods or behavior patterns. Sad shit but it comes. I just learn to accept that part of her. Whenever she initiates and plans something already before asking me about which options she wants for the both of us she has already planned everything and she didn't include me in that because she planned a surprise for me and didn't want me to know and wanted everything to workout perfectly how she saw it in her head because she very good with the small details and things that make people feel good. Like she just knows what I like and exactly how to give it to me in a way that I will cherish and remember forever. That's the romantic side of her. She romances everyone. Women, men and, children. Lol
That's a crappy and controlling way to make a point. And he knows this will hurt your feelings. And he does it anyway. Dump the jerk. He's showing you his true stripes and isn't good boyfriend material.
Begging cause he leaves for 3 weeks in a few hours and will be gone. Cause I have his xmas present etc. Cause he's the love of my life. Cause I went against my parents to be with him.
And mostly cause the last few months have been so brilliant and awesome.
Also we had a fight earlier this year in which I basically gutted him...told him how much I hated him and he's crap habits. And after I saw what I did to him I swore I would restore him back to he's happy self.
Also when he told me to cancel the trip I said I would speak to him next yr
We have had so many problems during the year. And recently last few months things have been going so absolutely great.
But he suggested the weekend we go away for a 2 day trip cause he leaves to go abroad in a week and we won't spend anything together.
So 2 day trip booked. We leave the next morning. I'm packing my bags....He texts cool do I fetch you from work.
I say no from home.
So he says no never ur family hates me. I say I'll meet him at the gate.
He goes no leave it cancel the trip.
So I try to reason with him.... He goes I shall discuss this when I'm back from my business trip.
And he dissappears.
Humiliated I unpack my bags....cause of course the family that hates him r watching me been made an idiot.
I have texted many times and called and apologised. But he's not responding.
And he leaves tomorrow. And will miss xmas and new year and my bday.
What must I do? Should I call it quits. I have begged and pleaded for him not to leave the country try angry. But he doesn't care.