I've know this cancerian girl when I play soccer with my group of guys friends. She works at the soccer ground. Even we have seen each other many times, but we were just like "hi", "bye" friend. Until recently when she was talking to my friends, I sat beside them and we did talked a bit. The following week, she asked my friend for my number and she contacted me. We hit off very well with text messages, then she started calling me and we talk on the phone. She will always be the one who initial the contact. Things were going well for both of us but one day she suddenly stopped contacting me. I felt affected, so I texted her and asked her if there's anything wrong, and she replied that there's nothing wrong. The following day, she texted me again and asked me if I'm still affected and I said yes. She asked me don't feel that way and we chatted for a while. Still, she don't contact me like how she used to be. So a few days later, I wrote a long text and confessed to her that I like her and this feeling has been making me feeling sad when we don't communicate like how we used to be. Upon reading my message, she called me immediately and tell me that she will not ignore me and she went on telling me more about herself and what's her expectation in a relationship. We talked for 2 hours on the phone telling each other about our life and what we expect in a relationship. However after we hang up, there's still no contact from her. I am really confused by her actions, is this girl interested in moving our friendship to the next level? And why is it that she call me immediately after I confessed to her. I'm a guy that when I like a girl, I don't dare to show too much to her if she is not responding or showing much interest and this is making me crazy. Please help. Btw, I'm a gemini.
Cancerian girl confusing me.
I've know this cancerian girl when I play soccer with my group of guys friends. She works at the soccer ground. Even we have seen each other many times, but we were just like "hi", "bye" friend. Until recently when she was talking to my friends, I sat beside them and we did talked a bit. The following week, she asked my friend for my number and she contacted me. We hit off very well with text messages, then she started calling me and we talk on the phone. She will always be the one who initial the contact. Things were going well for both of us but one day she suddenly stopped contacting me. I felt affected, so I texted her and asked her if there's anything wrong, and she replied that there's nothing wrong. The following day, she texted me again and asked me if I'm still affected and I said yes. She asked me don't feel that way and we chatted for a while. Still, she don't contact me like how she used to be. So a few days later, I wrote a long text and confessed to her that I like her and this feeling has been making me feeling sad when we don't communicate like how we used to be. Upon reading my message, she called me immediately and tell me that she will not ignore me and she went on telling me more about herself and what's her expectation in a relationship. We talked for 2 hours on the phone telling each other about our life and what we expect in a relationship. However after we hang up, there's still no contact from her. I am really confused by her actions, is this girl interested in moving our friendship to the next level? And why is it that she call me immediately after I confessed to her. I'm a guy that when I like a girl, I don't dare to show too much to her if she is not responding or showing much interest and this is making me crazy. Please help. Btw, I'm a gemini.
Posted by notyourtype
In the 2 hr long phone conversation you guys had, she never addressed the reason why her communication has been less frequent?
Hi. No we didn't actually touched on this. Basically we were telling each other what kinda person we are when we are in a relationship. Briefly she just said sometimes she will behave like that certain point of time but she's harmless.
Posted by aquavita
why are YOU not initiating contact
Actually, many times I wanted to but I was just worried if she will find me too pushy. Furthermore, she used to be the one who initialed to contact me in the beginning but suddenly her attitude changed. This also makes me wonder if she has lost interest or anything. Thus causes me to hold back about contacting her.
I do that all the time. If I like someone ill pursue them but after a certain point if I feel like im doing all the work then ill fall back some to see if you'll step up. So step up. Start initiating conversations, ask her on a date.
Posted by moodycrab712
I do that all the time. If I like someone ill pursue them but after a certain point if I feel like im doing all the work then ill fall back some to see if you'll step up. So step up. Start initiating conversations, ask her on a date.
But by doing this, won't you give the other party the wrong idea that you may not be interested? What happen when they really think that you are not interested in them and give up?
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