CanScor Combo...

Can it work? It sometimes seems we share the same point of view, likes, dislikes & issues even! Any one who can share their point of views in this combo? Just various traits that work well with eachother and the ones that see to clash.....having fun figuring out the puzzle....maybe theres a missing piece!

When it is good, omg it is out of this world. I wish it did work better. Of course other aspects play into it, but I would love to find a Scorp and settle down with one. Theres something about them that goes deep inside of me, I feel so complete. Generally from what I've seen and/or read the Scorp man Cancer female is a better combo then fce versa. I dunnno.

I am not sure how it works in relationships.

Scorps are fun and very intense. I have scorp relatives and they are fun, sometimes very depressing, and very egocentric. The world is about them, and they do not seem to care about anything but them. Not saying this is the scorp persona all the time, but they do tend to have this. I did read that the Cancer Scorp combo can be very intense in all regard. As for experience I can not see how beneficial it can be for the Cancerian. I do see how a Scorpio can benefit from such a relationship.

@ocean...about the good part, so very true...the connection between the two can be simply amazing...Happy to say I too have experienced the pleasure of sharing this with a crab, I also seem to be experiencing some type of tug & war as well on the behalf of both us..in hopes of the combo workubg both ways...im the scorp!....=) fingers crossed! Moonie...its true! We scorps can sometimes be very self absorbed smh...but when in love its mostly about the other person...we are loyal,compassionate, giving, passionate, protective....as ive read the crab can be as well....we have these tug of war issues but always find our way back....in hopes of a happy ending...wait! Another happy beginning....=)....

Ocean, on what level(s) did you find your scorp to complete you? Chemistry? Compatibility? Communication? Sexually? Intimately? Emotionally ...all of the above...some stronger than others?

Posted by Claro de Luna
I always had a problem with their secretive natures, I never liked that with either of my 2 Scorpio exes!

I don't know if that's me as a typical crab or not .. 🙂

No, I coincide. Weird, I was thinking about that yesterday morning too, how everything is always a secret. Not that they have to share everything, but even the simplest things a secret. lol

Posted by missscorps

Ocean, on what level(s) did you find your scorp to complete you? Chemistry? Compatibility? Communication? Sexually? Intimately? Emotionally ...all of the above...some stronger than others?

Well, Ive had two. The first nothing I ever have experienced before. Hard to explain, everything on every level completes me with him, yet at the same time a storm when it was bad. A bond that is unbreakable. We just get each other, and he accpets me and I accept him regardless. And at times I feel like I hate him for knowing how to hurt me. We go in and out of each other's lives but always come back even if we say the most hurtful things. Nothing vulgar, just know where to hit or what to say. But we remain loyal to one another. It's the strangest thing I've ever experienced, but it makes sense and it feels right even when we're in the middle of a huge storm. We can go months without seeing each other or talking, and it's like no time as passed. We read each other, know what the other is going to do, say, think. We move around one another with ease as though we've lived together all our lives, but yet theres that fear of love and rejection that makes us step back both to observe and to protect ourselves. Both feel vulnerable, but yet so safe.

The second, he was what at first I thought the opposite even though they shared the same bday date (not the same year though). When he was in my life, I always had a smile on my face on on my heart. Undescribable really, the happiness I felt. I really fell fast and hard for him once I let him in. I saw a side to him I knew reflected in my mind the true male scorp. Saw that early on, lucky for me I had been conditioned by Scorp #1 to recognize it. We no longer talk. Right now, he'll be lucky if he ever gets a hello out of me again. I know where to hit with him, and that's where it's at, and right now he's feeling it. Hard. He's pissed, and mad for so many reasons. I keep him guessing and even when he thinks he knows me he doesnt. He's learning that the hard way right now. And that puts a smile on my face.

Posted by Claro de Luna
Yeah .. secrets that probably don't even need to be secrets. Everyday little things.

Though it could be different between a female scorp and a male crab, hmm? ..

I think it is. Although female Scorps are vulnerable, they are more stronger of the two I feel emotionally. The male Scorps are way more vulnerable and sensitive than they let on, let alone will allow the world to see. And why eveyrthing is a secret because they don't want to be left wounded, or even more vulnerable, even when they know they care about someone. That is what keeps everything more of a secret, because then it is less likely they can be hurt, or that it cant be used against them their love, feelings, emotions, vulnerability, etc., nor will be they be left openly hurt and wounded. Protect their heart and soul at all costs. To break through it is a feat, but when it happens you better hope youre prepared for the depths they'll take "you" to.

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Posted by missscorps

Ocean, on what level(s) did you find your scorp to complete you? Chemistry? Compatibility? Communication? Sexually? Intimately? Emotionally ...all of the above...some stronger than others?

Well, Ive had two. The first nothing I ever have experienced before. Hard to explain, everything on every level completes me with him, yet at the same time a storm when it was bad. A bond that is unbreakable. We just get each other, and he accpets me and I accept him regardless. And at times I feel like I hate him for knowing how to hurt me. We go in and out of each other's lives but always come back even if we say the most hurtful things. Nothing vulgar, just know where to hit or what to say. But we remain loyal to one another. It's the strangest thing I've ever experienced, but it makes sense and it feels right even when we're in the middle of a huge storm. We can go months without seeing each other or talking, and it's like no time as passed. We read each other, know what the other is going to do, say, think. We move around one another with ease as though we've lived together all our lives, but yet theres that fear of love and rejection that makes us step back both to observe and to protect ourselves. Both feel vulnerable, but yet so safe.

The second, he was what at first I thought the opposite even though they shared the same bday date (not the same year though). When he was in my life, I always had a smile on my face on on my heart. Undescribable really, the happiness I felt. I really fell fast and hard for him once I let him in. I saw a side to him I knew reflected in my mind the true male scorp. Saw that early on, lucky for me I had been conditioned by Scorp #1 to recognize it. We no longer talk. Right now, he'll be lucky if he ever gets a hello out of me again. I know where to hit with him, and that's where it's at, and right now he's feeling it. Hard. He's pissed, and mad for so many reasons. I keep him guessing and even when he thinks he knows me he doesnt. He's learning that the hard way right now. And that puts a smile on my face.

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**and a smile on my heart.

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Posted by OceanDeep

Posted by missscorps

Ocean, on what level(s) did you find your scorp to complete you? Chemistry? Compatibility? Communication? Sexually? Intimately? Emotionally ...all of the above...some stronger than others?

Well, Ive had two. The first nothing I ever have experienced before. Hard to explain, everything on every level completes me with him, yet at the same time a storm when it was bad. A bond that is unbreakable. We just get each other, and he accpets me and I accept him regardless. And at times I feel like I hate him for knowing how to hurt me. We go in and out of each other's lives but always come back even if we say the most hurtful things. Nothing vulgar, just know where to hit or what to say. But we remain loyal to one another. It's the strangest thing I've ever experienced, but it makes sense and it feels right even when we're in the middle of a huge storm. We can go months without seeing each other or talking, and it's like no time as passed. We read each other, know what the other is going to do, say, think. We move around one another with ease as though we've lived together all our lives, but yet theres that fear of love and rejection that makes us step back both to observe and to protect ourselves. Both feel vulnerable, but yet so safe.

The second, he was what at first I thought the opposite even though they shared the same bday date (not the same year though). When he was in my life, I always had a smile on my face on on my heart. Undescribable really, the happiness I felt. I really fell fast and hard for him once I let him in. I saw a side to him I knew reflected in my mind the true male scorp. Saw that early on, lucky for me I had been conditioned by Scorp #1 to recognize it. We no longer talk. Right now, he'll be lucky if he ever gets a hello out of me again. I know where to hit with him, and that's where it's at, and right now he's feeling it. Hard. He's pissed, and mad for so many reasons. I keep him guessing and even when he thinks he knows me he doesnt. He's learning that the hard way right now. And that puts a smile on my face.

And this is why some Cancers are mad, in more ways than one 🙂

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And you my fine sir. are correct 🙂

@luna thk you for sharing....=) its true about scorps and privacy....but for me its not about secrets,I am just a private person. I have many, many acquaintances with whom I share cordialities, niceties but a handful of life- long friends of which I will share my more private life with....for me, its not about secrets not of any kind its more about being private and carefully choosing who I allow into my circle....once your in, your in & I will trust you with most everything unless youve proved me wrong, the person I love & vice-versa knows me like a book....well sometimes! 😉 Im finding with my crab there is such a communication barrier due to fear of rejection on both of our behalves, i decided I would let my guard down with him...let go of my fears for love and ive been left feeling like I should have kept my sheild in place & then other times he makes me feel like he is glad I didnt...but to his benefit ....hmmm? In my scenario he seems like the one with all the secrets.....but only because he wont open up.....he does in other ways I suppose....just having a hard time understanding his dance....

Cancer goes best with Pisces.

I like Scorpios, but their inclination toward sneakiness is what irritates me.

Don't really have that problem with the Cancer women, except for the Decan II's from time to time.

It's up to the Scorpio on that one.

Lets try this one more time! Its This.... We don't want to be left wounded, or more vulnerable, even when they know they care about someone. That is what keeps everything more of a secret, because then it is less likely they can be hurt, or that it cant be used against them their love, feelings, emotions, vulnerability, etc., nor will be they be left openly hurt and wounded. Protect their heart and soul at all costs. To break through it is a feat, but when it happens you better hope youre prepared for the depths they'll take you to.....us too, much like the crab... takes alot to penetrate us for us to "trust....we dont share ourselves with just anyone...we need a connection on all levels...emotional, intimate, mental, physical type bonding connection....but once we trust, we open up & let you in...we dont stray...we are loyal above and beyond....ride or die type of deal.....we dont leave when the going gets tuff but will be by your side thru good & bad times....we let you in & part of our world sometimes to the point of you making it go round! maybe we are too alike! Hmmm.......that connection you speak of Ocean....its there when we're together ....no words necessary but rather a look....chemistry....Omg like no other..he has shared the same... about the way I make him feel....but the communication....lacking.....will we ever be able to get it right? Like we are both the same....we get the closest and then its like it scares us....he more than I...he will shell for a few and come back and we start over....im ready for the middle...he said he was too and then I did the pushing away.....sigh...😢

Im liking iwins thoughts!....=)lol

Posted by missscorps
Lets try this one more time! Its This.... We don't want to be left wounded, or more vulnerable, even when they know they care about someone. That is what keeps everything more of a secret, because then it is less likely they can be hurt, or that it cant be used against them their love, feelings, emotions, vulnerability, etc., nor will be they be left openly hurt and wounded. Protect their heart and soul at all costs. To break through it is a feat, but when it happens you better hope youre prepared for the depths they'll take you to.....us too, much like the crab... takes alot to penetrate us for us to "trust....we dont share ourselves with just anyone...we need a connection on all levels...emotional, intimate, mental, physical type bonding connection....but once we trust, we open up & let you in...we dont stray...we are loyal above and beyond....ride or die type of deal.....we dont leave when the going gets tuff but will be by your side thru good & bad times....we let you in & part of our world sometimes to the point of you making it go round! maybe we are too alike! Hmmm.......that connection you speak of Ocean....its there when we're together ....no words necessary but rather a look....chemistry....Omg like no other..he has shared the same... about the way I make him feel....but the communication....lacking.....will we ever be able to get it right? Like we are both the same....we get the closest and then its like it scares us....he more than I...he will shell for a few and come back and we start over....im ready for the middle...he said he was too and then I did the pushing away.....sigh...😢

Actually when I posted that, I'll recopy and post again, what Im meaning, I was referring to Scorpios and not Cancers lol

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Posted by Claro de Luna
Yeah .. secrets that probably don't even need to be secrets. Everyday little things.

Though it could be different between a female scorp and a male crab, hmm? ..

I think it is. Although female Scorps are vulnerable, they are more stronger of the two I feel emotionally. The male Scorps are way more vulnerable and sensitive than they let on, let alone will allow the world to see. And why eveyrthing is a secret because they don't want to be left wounded, or even more vulnerable, even when they know they care about someone. That is what keeps everything more of a secret, because then it is less likely they can be hurt, or that it cant be used against them their love, feelings, emotions, vulnerability, etc., nor will be they be left openly hurt and wounded. Protect their heart and soul at all costs. To break through it is a feat, but when it happens you better hope youre prepared for the depths they'll take "you" to.

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Scorps,or I guess for me I see in the men. Im the one that shells when I'm hurt, but he goes MIA for seemingly no apparent reasons. Or so I thought. But yeah, it's overwhelming wonderful isnt it? Whats weird, but only with him, is even when we fight, it strengthens us. And our fighting isnt fighting, it's an emotional war. Its whats inside, in our hearts, minds, souls that go to war, silently. Theyre constantly at battle when we're apart. And when we're together we know what the other thinks, just by a look. Again, the longer we've known each other the more we know and get each other, even if we hardly see each other let alone talk. It's like we knew each other in another life.

And dreams? He's constantly talking to me in my dreams when I feel him, or sense him. Or when I haven't or he hasnt heard from me for months? He always comes to me in my dreams. Or all of a sudden, he's just there in my dream... He did last night too, that's a whole other story. Found out a lot of why he's been MIA so much lately. And it completely makes sense now. Dont ever let anyone tell ya us Cancers dont get to the bottom of things, or snoop, research, investigate until we do 😛

Only once did we ever get into a fight fight, he said some rotten things, and he didnt know me for more than two weeks! LOL SO, I countered back, an

Crap!! Totally cut me off...here we go again. LOL

I countered back, and making sure to hit below the belt, where I knew it would hurt. That was for him stepping on my pinchers, and with a Sag moon to boot? He's gonna feel my pinchers LOL He cried foul, and said that was hurtful what I said and I told him maybe that would teach him next time in not throwing out personal attacks LOL He slept on the couch, I went to his bedroom and cried myself to sleep, hating him, and praying for morning so I could leave. The next morning he just stared at me, all the while I ate a polish sausage glaring back at him, he asked where the blanket came from, I told him I covered him up before I went to sleep and it was that or smother him with it, he kept staring at me and I kept eating not taking my eyes off of him, neither of us saying anything. He smiled, shook his head, said he was sorry, I said I was sorry, we hugged, laid down and talked like nothing happened LOL 🙂

Ocean....I got the part about the scorp mail....=) I used your post because even though, yes I tend to be very blk&wht w/minimal shades of gray, outspoken sometimes, quiet & mysterious others, controlling in many cases & and low key in others...I can sometimes feel like that guarded male scorp you described...,"overwhelming wonderful" (love it!) Though an understatement! And me(the scorp) will go mia only afrer the shelling! I sometimes can take it personal in other words "my feelers" get hurt...we have feelers too! We are both sooo very passionate/emotional and it seems speak best when silent...we tend to hurt eachothers feeling without always meaning to(communication thing) we will fall off for short periods and come back with the same passion/emotion that cut between us to begin with! Go figure! The connection you speak of sounds like something.....now if we can only master the communication part! Its the keep coming back part that so gets me....theres more to that there....more relevant reasons that maybe we ourselves cannot even grasp aside from "that feeling/those feelins)we maybe hit below the belt once..I being the one yo initiate..only because my feelings hurt(communication error)hes never been cruel but ive been sensitive and hes the sensitive one! Its the coming back.
part...its never over between us?

Treefrogger you got the intense/passionate/emotional part right! The best&worst of them! That communicationthing again ....downer!! Haha! Pisces....hmmmm emotional right! Too emotional for me..(the one in my situation)he was the girl in the relationship!!!

Posted by iwin32
Plus we're both way too indirect people and we protect our heart with everything we have. That's the reason I say communication is very important, but if that is not an issue, then Cancer + Scorpio is one of those perfect matches made in heaven. The aura I see on these Scorpio females is something I can't explain, but is there. My fellow water signs know what I'm talking about.

.....iwin, its allll that right there in a nutshell

Although I have those very fears iwin refers to...I let go for of my fears for love....for the crab & for me.....I know about the moving forward & letting go thing....I once told him when you hold on to fear and dont trust....you go nowhere. I opened up....he ran away and after this my fears multiplied.....

Anymore stories? Would love to meet a Scorpio.