Happy valentines day my dear fellow cancers and cancer lovers.......
Sometimes i tend to allow others to decide things for me.. (not on life decisions though). Simple things like selecting dress, camera, etc.... they confuse me a lot. Finally i settle with the opinion of my dear ones and would feel my choice would have been crappier.....
my cancer girl has to process things, so her decision making is not the quickest (or the best). i tease her and tell her her favorite color must be plaid
I am opposite. I like to make all of my decisions on my own. I may ask for advice from a trusted friend here and there depending on the magnitude of the situation but I do not like people to try to talk for me or decide for me, ever.
I ask opinions, but end up doing what I want. Mostly, I'm just wanting validation for my choice. If they suggest something else, I'm still doing my own thing. 🙂
hmm, interesting... When i was in a relationship, there was a period when i would seek my gf's suggestion to even smallest of the things i would buy... i used to go with my gut on the choice given by her.... maybe i thought she must always be right...... Thank you for your opinion guys n gals..........
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Sometimes i tend to allow others to decide things for me.. (not on life decisions though). Simple things like selecting dress, camera, etc.... they confuse me a lot. Finally i settle with the opinion of my dear ones and would feel my choice would have been crappier.....
Any one felt the same..