@CLASSifiedPisces
15 Years
NOT excited about their birthdays!
My friend always says "its just another day...no big deal" deep down he does care...I can see it in his eyes when his birthday rolls around. I think most just like to play it that they don't.
I personlly don't really care for my birthday either. One of my best friends is a Pisces and she gets quite excited over everyone's birthday and my boyfriend(Virgo) does as well, but I could care less. I do acknowledge other people's birthdays though.
Based on the Cancers I know (male and female) they tend to say that birthdays are no big deal. But I suspect it's more that they don't want a big to-do like a party. I'm sure they'd be quite hurt if friends and close ones ignored their birthdays.
Posted by paries
Based on the Cancers I know (male and female) they tend to say that birthdays are no big deal. But I suspect it's more that they don't want a big to-do like a party. I'm sure they'd be quite hurt if friends and close ones ignored their birthdays.
True. I would prefer everyone not to make a huge deal over nothing,but I would be hurt if they ignored it.
he really doesnt care about his birthday i always did lol.
we just started talking again...should i hold it against him if he doesnt reach out to me on my birthday??
I don;t care about it. I get depressed and start about getting old wrinkly and people dying. Been that way since I was like 10. I don't wanna grow old or anything so screw the bday thing. Plus no one was ever or is ever around on my bday (summer yo) so its never fun 😛 I looove other people's Birthdays!
Im a cancer and I don't care about my birthday much either. I always thought that it was just another day... But then I feel like that for almost every other "special holiday" so I may be biased. As for people telling/celebrating my birthday... I couldn't care less but that's not to say I don't appreciate their love and thoughtfulness to let me know they care. Honestly, I'd rather just have a few of my friends or a family outing dinner. That will suffice... I never ask for presents or gifts because it's just another day to me. I'd rather share a nice but small dinner night out with those that I care about.
Im a cancer and I don't care about my birthday much either. I always thought that it was just another day... But then I feel like that for almost every other "special holiday" so I may be biased. As for people telling/celebrating my birthday... I couldn't care less but that's not to say I don't appreciate their love and thoughtfulness to let me know they care. Honestly, I'd rather just have a few of my friends or a family outing dinner. That will suffice... I never ask for presents or gifts because it's just another day to me. I'd rather share a nice but small dinner night out with those that I care about.
I'm not a Cancer but I feel like many of you do regarding my birthday. I have a Sag friend though who throws some sort of party or get-together for herself every year for her birthday. I can't imagine ever doing that.
yesss he is definitely like what you guys say. he says he doesnt care but boy he likes to be spoiled.
I have a ?: WE just recently started talking again and my bday is coming up. Me on the other hand I get VERY excited, I mean really lol. If you read my first post he has been a lil effy, should I hold it against him if he doesnt say happy bday or what? Plus idk why he acts a certain way when it comes around
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I know 5 cancers.
My 2 bestfriends
My youngest and oldest brother
and my "friend" whom I've posted our situation on here before.
One thing I know for sure is they really dont care about their bdays like that. Like Im always the one to get them hype lol.
Are any of you like that?
Another thing:
When my cancer and I were really close he did things like buy me stuff and call 12am exactly for my bday very caring and expensive gifts. One year 2 years ago we got into a big agruement and i delete him off my fb i know childish but bare with me ppl i was still only a teenage. I saw he requested me at 12am on my bday but didnt write on my page until a hour before it was over. I always feel like est then now he really doesnt care about my bday. In 2011 he didnt tell me happy bday BUT when his day came along I didnt give gifts and he complain about it, and I informed him he didnt even acknowledge mines, not to months later i get a text saying: I forgot your birthday , and you mad at me Im sorry"...so random right! Maybe he is hurt I deleted him once , i dont think he forgot my bday he has an retentive memory its crazy!