Venting about cancer man and how I want to hurt hi

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by dragoneyes on Thursday, February 9, 2012 and has 11 replies.

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@dragoneyes
15 Years

The freakin Cancer guy who I had, I'm saying had because today I'm kicking his ass to the curb, has not only had me as a nice fwb for the past 2 years, but I noticed that he has someone else on the side as well.I feel so bad for not realising what an asshole he was sooner.Here I am thinking that maybe he is just not showing his true feelings, I really made a stupid ass out of myself. And imagine i'm his Team leader so I see him every day (Pulling out my hair). I would really love to hurt him back....

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@dragoneyes
15 Years

Lol you are right he did nothging wrong. It is me that could not keep my feelings out of it.you see I was thinking that maybe just maybe he felt the same way. I think it I'm mad at myself for being so stupid and puttinh myself into this situation.

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@dragoneyes
15 Years

Lol you are right he did nothging wrong. It is me that could not keep my feelings out of it.you see I was thinking that maybe just maybe he felt the same way. I think it I'm mad at myself for being so stupid and puttinh myself into this situation.

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@dragoneyes
15 Years

Lol you are right he did nothging wrong. It is me that could not keep my feelings out of it.you see I was thinking that maybe just maybe he felt the same way. I think it I'm mad at myself for being so stupid and puttinh myself into this situation.

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@dragoneyes
15 Years

Lol you are right he did nothging wrong. It is me that could not keep my feelings out of it.you see I was thinking that maybe just maybe he felt the same way. I think it I'm mad at myself for being so stupid and puttinh myself into this situation.

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@dragoneyes
15 Years

Lol you are right he did nothging wrong. It is me that could not keep my feelings out of it.you see I was thinking that maybe just maybe he felt the same way. I think it I'm mad at myself for being so stupid and puttinh myself into this situation.

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@UsernameTaken
14 Years

Posted by dragoneyes
The freakin Cancer guy who I had, I'm saying had because today I'm kicking his ass to the curb, has not only had me as a nice fwb for the past 2 years, but I noticed that he has someone else on the side as well.I feel so bad for not realising what an asshole he was sooner.Here I am thinking that maybe he is just not showing his true feelings, I really made a stupid ass out of myself. And imagine i'm his Team leader so I see him every day (Pulling out my hair). I would really love to hurt him back....

so, your jealous that your non-committed fuck buddy fucked somebody else? i'm sorry, but i don't see what the error is, other than you obviously catching feelings for a fuck buddy. he's not the asshole, you are. and you're his Team Leader at work? ever hear of not shitting where you eat?

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@Cancerflower5808
15 Years

Well, clearly she should not have let her feelings cloud her judgment;however, there is no need to be so harsh on her due to this mistake as she has already admitted it. I doubt she needs others to constantly remind her of it. I'm sorry to hear about this, but next time try to start a committed relationship with someone. Do not just settle for a fwb "partnership" or whatever term would be appropriately used to describe it. I do not think you will be able to hurt him at all because he does not have any feelings for you as he was just using you. I hope you are able to get through this,move on, and make good decisions next time. Best of luck to you =]