Long story short, I started seeing this cancer man & two weeks later found out I was pregnant. He is in the Army & at the time was in Indy but he owns a home here in our hometown. He began acting strange after I told him I was pregnant. I didn't really blame him because if a girl called me two weeks later & said she was pregnant i'd have doubts too. But I kept him informed about the whole pregnancy. In June when I delivered he came to the hospital & signed the birth certificate. In July I got a msg from a girl who claimed she had been in a 3 year relationship with him. She said he has always cheated on her & they are always off & on. He it's a great dad, he buys everything for our son & you can see how much he loves him. In August he quit going to Indy where the ex is from & he was always at his house. He didn't go anywhere. We were spending a lot if time together. I even took my other children up there. He made us dinner, we went shopping, I became really close with his family & started hanging out with the family too. I know they say Cancers move slow & don't express their feelings so I took it as we were moving slow. Anyway in Nov he had to leave for 6 mos for the Army. Two weeks before he left he began acting strange & I couldn't figure out why. Come to find out he had $ 600 stolen from him & he thinks it was me. Then after 3 mos he goes back to his ex. I truly believe in my heart that was his way of punishing me because he thinks I stole his money. Idk what to do. Leave it alone & let her have him. Does he really even love her? It would be better if I could post the whole story but I'm limited on words here. Any advise from anyone?
Confused about a Cancer man - please help anyone
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