Need some Cancer man advise.......please :)

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by scorprising928 on Saturday, October 15, 2011 and has 8 replies.

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@scorprising928
14 Years

I have been coming to this site for some time for free and have finally decided to SIGN up. YEAH!!!....You guys seem to have the BEST insight into the cancer relationship or maybe lack of one...lol. Here is my issue..I am HEAD over heals for a Cancer man and I have been for over a year, I haven't let him know though, reason being is because he has a girlfriend. He did NOT have one when I started liking him, but S% ^t happens. He doesn't really know me and I don't know him either. We just happen to take classes together. At times I notice him checking me out or maybe it's just my imagination. You know how you Cancers are 🙂. I have tried to FORGET him, but there is SOMETHING about him that will NOT let me let go. UGH!!!!! He is sooooooo hard to read sometimes, but so am I(Gemini with Scorpio rising). It's like we play this ping pong game back and forth. Some days he is REAL friendly and complimenting EVERYTHING and then nothing. But because I am a MOODY Gemini I pay it no mind and keep going. He and the girlfriend are going thru changes and I have NOT tried anything because I respect that he has a girlfriend and I wouldn't want that done to me(been there too many times)

My issue is......will this Cancer man/Gemini woman(with scorpio rising) work?....should I give him a clue or hint or what??

Let me just say that I am NOT your typical Gemini...more Scorpio then Gemini....always wondered why those Gemini traits NEVER applied to me.

Thanks in advance for the insight

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@MiaSangria
15 Years

My observation is that they play games. Can come on hard and fast but can be fickle too, maybe testing? If they really like you they'll pursue hard and fast but they'll also test you and even keep you 'on reserve' if they're not sure.

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@nimbue
15 Years1,000+ Posts

he's not single?

unless you like plumping up his ego. he's like, 'got a girl but the chicks still flock', sort of thing, swaggering around. if you don't do the right thing it'll backfire on you.

Posted by scorprising928
He and the girlfriend are going thru changes and I have NOT tried anything because I respect that he has a girlfriend and I wouldn't want that done to me(been there too many times)

sorry, i skim sometimes just read that. it's good to keep your distance for now

Posted by scorprising928
!He is sooooooo hard to read sometimes, but so am I(Gemini with Scorpio rising). It's like we play this ping pong game back and forth. Some days he is REAL friendly and complimenting EVERYTHING and then nothing. But because I am a MOODY Gemini I pay it no mind and keep going....should I give him a clue or hint or what??

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i don't think you need to give a hint or clue. he's a cancer, he knoooows *spooky music* and you have scorp rising. you know that he knows. i say don't do anything flirty or whatever else till he balls up and loses the girlfriend.

it might just be one of those things that never get off the ground, despite the magnetic pull and potenial...

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@highlander
15 Years

agree with all you gorgeous ladies, get your own man, he's playing mind games, don't waste your time with him, even if your venus is a water sign, gems and cancers suck in relationships together.

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@scorprising928
14 Years

Thanks for ALL the ADVISE guys!!!!!!!!! I appreciate it 🙂 Yes, I will stay away from him!!!! He just drives me nuts!!!!...Mind or Matter(I will keep saying this..lol)