confused over a cancer man

So I've known of this cancer man for 2 years but was in a relationship with him for 4 months. The chemistry between both of us was there we never fought or argued. Our main thing always was respect n communication. We had met each others families n I was the first girl to meet his son but we both have our past n trust issues. Getting into this relationship I knew he had been cheated on in the past n he had trust issues n for me well I was molested at age 8 n my whole life I've lived with not trusting men. I never open up because I don't want to get hurt but now I'm thirty something n I wanted to leave all my skeletons behind so with this relationship I let him in without being scared n things were good up until a couple days. A couple days we got into our first argument n he won't answer my calls or my text message. we hardly get to spend time together because he wks, school, son, n is in the military. So I've always been very respectful of his schedule. I've kind of have left it up to him to tell me when he has free time. We'll our argument was about us not being together twice last week he had asked to see me n I cancelled on him the first time was because he told me he had to be at wk at 4am and he couldn't stay up to late. So I didn't want to keep him waiting for me so I told him that I wasn't ready maybe next time I just didn't want him not sleeping because of me n well the second time he invited me over to families bbq I originally thought it was his moms house n I said yes but when I found out it wasn't I got scared n I tried to get out of it n well now he won't talk to. He's last text was I'm tired of wasting my time trying to see you. I let my fears get the best of me I get scared meeting people for the fear of rejection/hurt. I wanna fix things with him n I don't know how he ignores all my text n my calls. I know he cared a lot every morning I would get a good morning from him n now it's nothing for the past couple days I still text hoping to get an answer. What did I do so wrong? Is there anything I can do from my part to fix it?

I'm surprised you don't know what you did wrong?.. He's wrong not picking your calls but you're equally wrong not taking any form of responsibility.

The only thing I can say I did wrong was not seing him as much as I wanted to. I thought I was being the understanding girlfriend on his busy schedule n his time with his son. I take responsibility for my mistakes that's y I keep calling trying to fix it but I can't when he won't respond.

I've never been with a cancer sign man so it's hard to understand him n his rejection.how he closed down. N can be so cold

Have you considered explaining to him why you cancelled? The thing about many Cancer men is they want all of your attention all the time unless they need their space. When they make plans to see you, it's very important to be there. They're learning to trust you in the beginning, so always flow through with what you say you'll do. Honest and open communication is the way to go.
His Venus sign will tell us more about how he deals with relationships, but this is a good start for Cancer Suns.

Sorry, that was supposed to say *follow through. Good ol' swipe texting...

My Cancer ex was the same way when he would get upset. He'd go into his shell and I had to wait until he was ready to come back out and talk...sometimes days, sometimes even a week. Needless to say that's why he's an ex. Ain't nobody got time to wait around and play "guess why I'm mad".