@andrea13
11 Years
Drop hints or be direct with a cancer?
Posted by andrea13
Should I drop subtle hints or just be direct and concise with a cancer man?
Cancers feel free to express your opinions
NAh, just ram him into submission... Lol sorry couldn't help myself :p
But really though, what's the back story?
Be direct and concise, but not blunt/harsh.
dude you're an aries.
the idea that an aries can drop anything "subtle"..lmao.
Be direct. No texting, only calling. Be as less threatening as possible.
Be direct. No texting, only calls. Take the subtle approach and your messages will get mixed up and taken the wrong way and you'll be back at square 1 or three steps back from that.
Posted by Damnata
dude you're an aries.the idea that an aries can drop anything "subtle"..lmao.
lol w/ you.
Have you seen that film with Michael Fassbender where he plays the perverted sex craved guy?
i could hardly watch it, so i just fast forwarded it. lmao Iknow i know. so lame.
but in key points, he acts like a cold ass fucker and also tries to have a lack of empathy for his sister and the women he just has sex with. but he's Always polite. I thought for his chart, that role is good for him. He reminds me alot of James Franco.both kind of ewww.
but i know lots of women love those two aries men. (ironically they both have virgo moons!!)
omg and those scenes remnd me of christian bale sex scenes/morbid in American Psycho.
Posted by andrea13
Should I drop subtle hints or just be direct and concise with a cancer man?
lmao
*ahem*
what's your mars?? that's how you go about it.
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by andrea13
Should I drop subtle hints or just be direct and concise with a cancer man?
lmao
*ahem*
what's your mars?? that's how you go about it.
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LMAO
I have mars in aries
Posted by Damnata
dude you're an aries.the idea that an aries can drop anything "subtle"..lmao.
Yeah hahaha
An aries like to try new things
Posted by Moonbutter
But really though, what's the back story?
I like this cancer guy and want to approach him. He was also dropping subtle hints to me.
be direct, make him feel secure emotionally when he close to you.
and (maybe) he'll drop another hint for you
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Damnata
dude you're an aries.the idea that an aries can drop anything "subtle"..lmao.
lol w/ you.
Have you seen that film with Michael Fassbender where he plays the perverted sex craved guy?
i could hardly watch it, so i just fast forwarded it. lmao Iknow i know. so lame.
but in key points, he acts like a cold ass fucker and also tries to have a lack of empathy for his sister and the women he just has sex with. but he's Always polite. I thought for his chart, that role is good for him. He reminds me alot of James Franco.both kind of ewww.
but i know lots of women love those two aries men. (ironically they both have virgo moons!!)
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Haven't watched it. I don't even know who Fassbender is. His mere name sounds disgusting.
Never like James Franco.
I know they're Aries but I have very fastidious tastes with that sign since I know so many therefore I can be SO picky.
Have you ever seen the Libertine? I love the opening speech.
Posted by Damnata
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Damnata
dude you're an aries.the idea that an aries can drop anything "subtle"..lmao.
lol w/ you.
Have you seen that film with Michael Fassbender where he plays the perverted sex craved guy?
i could hardly watch it, so i just fast forwarded it. lmao Iknow i know. so lame.
but in key points, he acts like a cold ass fucker and also tries to have a lack of empathy for his sister and the women he just has sex with. but he's Always polite. I thought for his chart, that role is good for him. He reminds me alot of James Franco.both kind of ewww.
but i know lots of women love those two aries men. (ironically they both have virgo moons!!)Haven't watched it. I don't even know who Fassbender is. His mere name sounds disgusting.
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Never like James Franco.
I know they're Aries but I have very fastidious tastes with that sign since I know so many therefore I can be SO picky.
Have you ever seen the Libertine? I love the opening speech.
ive never seen that film. but looked it up on wiki. Hedonistic, makes no apologies for his decandant, lusty behaviour. Yup.
well, i can't really say much because my past history of ex's, i am Always with a certain "type" of man. i just prefer it if they "control" their urges and keep to one woman type. that's all. so these types must find a woman who is "all" to them.
wow cut off . well no surprise. lol
anyway what i wrote again,
ive never seen that film. but looked it up on wiki. Hedonistic, makes no apologies for his decandant, lusty behaviour. Yup.
well, i can't really say much because my past history of ex's, (now that i look back with clarity, since i dont seem to see it myself) i am Always with a certain "type" of man. i just prefer it if they "control" their urges and keep to one woman type. that's all. so these types must find a woman who is "all" of that to them, sexually, emotionally, happily fulfilling ect.
i just find men who fall easily for femme fatale types very very weak. so if they can handle it, and are smarter about it, they're strnger than their sexual urges.
More breast less talking. Food dont forget food. Oh we HATE guessin. And if you give a mean fuck then sold. Once he's into you.He will pursue you and woo u. THen and only then you have him for life.
Aggressive women need aggressive men?okay den.
Posted by PVandJellay
Be direct and concise. I was dropping hints back and forth with a Cancer guy. Finally even my Libra mars was exhausted at the passivity. I had to directly tell him that things were moving too damn slow, and if he was interested I needed to know. Well that got the ball rolling. I feel as a disclaimer I must tell you that we ended up being uncompatible. LOL. Aggressive women need aggressive men.
lol!!
my husband tells me, "you're NOT aggressive enough."
and i'm like, "What??"
"i'm Always the one being aggressive."
😛 😛
but since the very beginnning he has Always been the aggressor.
shhhheeessssh. men. now he wants to see us switch roles for a moment. 😆
Posted by PVandJellay
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by PVandJellay
Be direct and concise. I was dropping hints back and forth with a Cancer guy. Finally even my Libra mars was exhausted at the passivity. I had to directly tell him that things were moving too damn slow, and if he was interested I needed to know. Well that got the ball rolling. I feel as a disclaimer I must tell you that we ended up being uncompatible. LOL. Aggressive women need aggressive men.
lol!!
my husband tells me, "you're NOT aggressive enough."
and i'm like, "What??"
"i'm Always the one being aggressive."
😛 😛
LOL! Funny thing is, I don't even usually think of myself as aggressive. I'm usually quite passive, and prefer the guy to lead. This was my first attempt at dating a cancer. The Cancer guy initiated originally, but after that it turned into a serious of subtle hints like the OP said. He's a cancer Merc, I'm an Aqua Merc, I need directness, it was driving me nuts. So I just came right out and asked him what he wanted, where was this going. He was interested, and we gave it a go, but there just wasn't enough spark. I think for me Cancer/Pisces feels too familial. I started feel like I was dating a step cousin.click to expand
lol 😛
you probably need a masculine sign mercury. but feminine sign merc is still good; his merc probably fell in a feminine house. (the way astrology Always says fem is water/earth houses) and fire/air is masculine. my husband has sag merc, and i have cap merc. but since finding that capricorn is kind of masculine because of "saturn" influence, and other aspects, it makes sense alot.
you need directness!!
that libra mars needs a hint of aries energy. 😄
Posted by PVandJellay
Yes, a fire crab maybe. 🙂
oooh i saw this and thought it was soooo cute!!!
how about air crab? lol
their gemini venus/merc ect would appease your virgo parts. 😛 mercury "gets" mercury.
trine your aqua too.
so many possibilities. 😄
Posted by PVandJellay
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by PVandJellay
Yes, a fire crab maybe. 🙂
oooh i saw this and thought it was soooo cute!!!
how about air crab? lol
their gemini venus/merc ect would appease your virgo parts. 😛 mercury "gets" mercury.
trine your aqua too.
so many possibilities. 😄
Aww that is adorable. 🙂 I have a few air crab friends, definitely more platonic. Just too similar.click to expand
i get ya on that feeling; i hate the platonic feeling. snooooooze fest. zzzzzz. and some more zzzz.
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Should I drop subtle hints or just be direct and concise with a cancer man?