LeoGemini11
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Posted by LeoGemini11Just...
You'd think I'd know a thing or two about Cancers since I dated one I for three years

Posted by LeoGemini11Mmm I think you should have held off on being intimate if things didn't feel right with him...that's when you do the opposite and give him space. Had you not been intimate and given him space he would have eventually come out of his mood and had you to look forward to. You have taken that pleasure of wonderment and chase away from him so what does he have to look forward to?
Awesome, thanks for the advice, kissmygrits.
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We met at a neighborhood bar a couple of months ago and I initially started talking to him. My first impression was that he was the shy, quiet, brooding type, typical of some cancers. His friend was talking to one of my friends and I noticed him quietly sitting in the corner so I struck up a conversation and we seemed to hit it off. Since then, our schedules permitted us to meet up a couple of times after that.
The 3rd date we met up at a bar and had a couple drinks. He was always very touchy feely, did all the cute/romantic and chivalrous things that guys do and he showered me with tons of compliments. Needless to say, we ended up making out by the end of the night. I was on a cloud.
The fourth date went well until the end of the night. I felt as if the conversation didn't go as freely, there was a lot of awkward silences and he wasn't his usual touchy feely and romantic self. I asked him what was wrong and why he was so quiet and he told me he "gets like this sometimes." I remember my ex boyfriend (a Cancer-Gemini cusp) could get really moody, but never so early on. Anyway, we were intimate that night, and behind closed doors he was more touchy feely, but I still felt kind of strange about our whole interaction prior.
When I got home I texted him I had a good time and to let me know when he was off again and he told me he had a good time as well but didn't acknowledge hanging out again or going on another date. Is he over it?