DO THE GAMES ever stop?

when do the games stop? seriously?
Everytime I think ive closed him off from me,
he comes back around, and acts like hes done nothing wrong,
i told him yesterday (after he IMed me first)
"LOOK I dont like you anymore, maybe in another life"
then i said "if you want me, prove yourself to me, otherwise leave me the F__ alone"
i also went on a tangent about how his mother did a number on him, i know i probably shouldnt have done that but the guy is so obviously disturbed when it comes to women and insecurity its sad.
I also said "im glad i met you, now i know how to NOT to treat my sons" and then i signed off.

Im just mad at him, i went into the city to see him, i called and he didnt pick up, he didnt know i was coming but he was home, and i signed on, and i called so i could see him, but he didnt pick up. after that, i said to myself sc-w this. he wants me , he's gonna have to prove it.


DO THESE STUPID GAMES STOP? I hate playing games, I hate it! but all he seems to wanna do is twist me like a wet towel...I hate him...but i cant ever stay away for freakin long. IM just being way more coldhearted now, and my heart isnt very invested, hes made me lose complete hope in everything.

Hey girl,
Look B patient! LOL! He knows how 2 work U and U will not get into his heart with this behavior. LOL! U need some emotional control or he is going 2 keep "seeming" like he is playing games. Sorry 2 tell U. He is not playing games. U R rushing him and so he is shutting U out of his protective shell until U get a grip on U. U don't have control over your emotions and he does not want 2 B bothered with an emotional mess. Sorry. I had 2 tell it 2 U like that. Do they ever let U in. Yes they do and they call back everytime U call and text back if U do consistently. U R rushing him. If U don't like the fact that he is protecting his heart and that is Y U hate him, then move on. Because U will have 2 have alot of patience.

well first i texted him "hey im in your town" 3 hours later, i called him, and texted him, he didnt respond, i saw he was online and he didnt say anything. so that pissed me off, he was obviously ignoring me. i dont know if he was still mad about the night before, because awhile back he had told me he slept with a excoworker and felt like he was cheating on me(even though we werent together) he pissed me off so i decided to tell him well im going to go have sex with my ex, and he said "have fun" i wrote him back i did, he seemed pissed, im sure he was...I said LOOK u had sex so can i...and hes all "i could have had sex tonight with this friend but i didnt coz i want to be in love when i have sex" LOL right hes such a show off, and probably a liar...i dont know, so maybe thats why he didnt pick his phone up....

we havent gotten physical yet but he always talk about it being impossible for him to see me again without doing so...this sort of bothers me on some level, once we get physical, will he still act aloof? COZ that part scares me...

im impatient girl, ive talked to him for a year and half, i have a right to be pissed off hes still pulling this BS off...

your advice is still welcomed though.

U R rushing. It is also his right 2 protect his sensitive feelings and his heart. U should also show him that U have the right 2 protect your heart and that U don't give it away so easily. If U feel like he is disrespecting U, then Y can't U cut him aloose. If U cut him aloose, he will C that U don't like this type of behavior. Don't rush a change. However, if U put your foot down long enough with NO texts, NO emailing, No calling and even when he calls out of the blue. Don't answer. This is how he gets the feel of people. But U R scolding him, 4 just being him. SO NO, U will not get into his heart because he does not feel comfortable with U. He knows U want him. That is the problem. U need 2 show a real small, small, amount of love or attention, then back way off. That is letting him know U R interested. However, he does not know exactly how much. Then continue 2 do it. Even if he gets with U, show love and run in the other direction. That way he won't feel like U R trying 2 force him or capture him into anything. I hope this helps. Oh, and U might need a little fixing on the emotional outbursts.

yeah thats a hard one, he gets under my skin..im a really direct person.

ant- thanks for your refreshing post. im just ignoring him now, im making no effort to call(well i didnt do this much anyway), text, or message him.

first thing he asked after he told me he had sex with the girl was am i jealous or mad...(or whatever it was).i said um no just disappointed...its like he wanted me to be mad and jealous i wasnt jealous it was sort weird i wasnt but i wasnt.

yeah it seems that way probably coz its true. he just says these intense things to me...when im not with him, i dont exist, but when im near him, in the same room, he cant keep his hands off me, and all wants to do is kiss and talk to me..hes not a normal crab!, he has a scorpio moon...😢 it makes him so much more confusing...are you a guy?

are you a cancer?

oh ok...thank you🙂 scorpio...scorpios love me a lot...they usually scare me...

because i can feel their thoughts, and know their motives, and i rather not be around that sort of energy...its exhausting...you know the lead singer of radiohead is a libra with aries moon..lots of scorpio planets..interesting combo...

lol hey hes a cute funny looking guy...i tend to like libras in general, although they always break my heart, its ok though coz its always worth it with a libra male.

yeah i noticed this cancer guy calls me mama sometimes, and i dont know whether to laugh or be creeped out...its strange...

LOL, thats mean...

yeah i wrestle with the creeped out issue...i know its strange...i figured it was a cancer man thing...he told me it means he likes me a lot...i just said uh okay...

lol...well I met him online actually, we didnt meet face to face till recently...we're not dating so i dont expect him to be loyal to me...i dont know..people can only push me so far and then i get bored. and im bored...its like this aloof stuff can only get to me so much and then im over it.,...but i get over it then he shows up out of nowhere...im just making 0 effort with him from now on. thats a promise to myself i made.

And just make sure U keep your promise!