fucked up!!!

ok, making a long story short...im getting good at this...
so i have this female Gemini friend...she fell for a guy online "touche"..he is a cancer(this is where yoU guys come in to gimme some advice) the thing is...they started talking online, the guy started calling her all the time and really spending a lot of time on the phone with her...i mean a LOT of time..so much so that he even called her from Holland...we are in Africa "note"....then eventually they met...great sex they both went crazy...he kept on calling her and wanting to be with her blah blah blah..the thing is...he was giving all the signs that he was really into her and that she was the one for him, cause no one had made him feel the way she did...the funny part....one day...kaput....total silence...not a word....well there are details to the story that i will not be telling now cause they might not be relevant...the thing is...its normal for cancers to give the silence treatment? what does makes it trig..why does it happen...i guess and i KNOW..men are all players...but would like to know if this is a normal thing to cancers— really curious about it and my friend its getting to the desperation stage...seriously...i would to....but fuck it im dealing with a scorp and those already have the nutso certificate so i don't even bother anymore!!!

HELP ANYONE—??

well he said he is married...and so is she..the thing is that he was ok with the whole thing, asked her to go to his town and all, but one of the times she was really down and told him she was getting divorced...might that be the reason— the question seems not to be the reason but if he was faking all those emotions and feelings!!!!

resuming and concluding the motherfucker was playing with my friend!!! shoooooooooooo i would so cut his dick off, make a stew and feed it to his wife!!!!

not fare thou...he made her fall for him and made her believe she was especial...why not make things clear from the beginning—??

well i guess you are right but with us chicks...sometimes if you skip the i love you part and we are perfect to eachother and the i miss you and the i need you would be wayyyyyyyyyyyy better!!!!!

No, I don't think YOU should cut his private part off!

Why don't you try talking with your friend? They were both MARRIED to other people. Why is your friend even expecting anything more than a fling with a married man? When you have sex with another person outside of your "marriage" than you are basically agreeing to nothing more than a screw!

tripi...i couldnt agree more with you...the thing is and this is so old...things arent always easy done as they are said...and i speak for experience...so maybe she cant really get her shit clean at home and was hopping some understanding and loving out of it— the thing that gets to me, is the fact that even if its quite obvious that its just a fling and we have in our heads that it is just a fling...why do guys have to go one and try to convince us thats something elese just to kick out butt afterwards—

honesty...thats what is lacking!

you see if it was like..ok, lets just fuck around..no strings attched blah blah blah..its something, but when it startes being i love you , i cant live without you then you start messing up with our head!!!

well...you are right and i dont have words to back up my previous comment!!!!