Help!!!!!!!!!

Hi I have posted before......just have come to some self realizations in the last little while....and yes still hung up on my cancer....

Of course I am a aries and have little patience.....so we were talking via email almost everyday....and I went and screwed things up.....I got crazy like a typical girl and said that I wanted to get to know him better and I hoped he felt the same......no response.....waited a few days and sent him another email asking him what he thought.....waited a little while longer and pulled the pin.....

I get it I get.....I lack patience and wanted to be in control.....anywho.....I sent him a long heart felt apology explaining my actions.....I know he read it but he never responded but then again I didn't solicit a response....cause I am a idiot....anyhow.....its been over a month and I sent him a email asking about christmas and he responded.....think that is a good sign so I phoned and left him a message....have still to hear from him....

I have to say that he actually has to be a good guy to have actually put up with my behavior without telling me to get lost....so this phone call is to actually ask him out for a christmas drink.......

At this point I don't know if he will respond....can't say that I blame him if he doesn't....but I sense....since in my apology email I pointed out my lack of patience and my behavior has been immature up to this point....that he might be testing me to see if I have actually learned anything....

Just looking for some feedback....some insight.....anything you tell me or offer would be greatly appreciated....

Happy Holidays

Well ...if by some miracle you do go out with him...

... best tell him that you have always struggled with

LOW SELF ESTEEM
and that is why you can't handle being wrong


...because THAT is what drove him away.

( And do yourself a favor and don't tell me I'm wrong
or there is no hope for you. )

I'm not going to tell you you are wrong.....you are right....I have made my bed and now must lie in it.....I need to come to grips with that....

Just looking again for insight.....no one is perfect and we all have our own paths to follow.....I seem to be on a really slow road when it comes to this issue.....but I do think I am making progress....as I now know I am the one with the problem.....

Yes perhaps that is another lesson that I am wrong.....and that I need to get over myself

Thanks for your words of encouragement 🙂 they are greatly appreciated.......I did refrain from contacting him and he did respond to my email.....so far nothing on the phone call.....

The ball is firmly in his court so its all up to him......all I can do is wait live my life and remember that I do have self worth and if it is ment to be it will happen.....

I know what you are going thru and all I can say is tie a knot on your rope and hang in there!

Happy Holidays 🙂

Aries and Cancer? You're doomed. The sooner you accept that probability, the sooner you will come to your senses... then he might even come after you. Then again, you will have probably moved on due to your true-to-form Arian lack of patience.

Aries and Cancer? You're doomed. The sooner you accept that probability, the sooner you will come to your senses... then he might even come after you. Then again, you will have probably moved on due to your true-to-form Arian lack of patience.

That could be so....we communicate differently and perhaps we are doomed.....but I guess its just my arian positive attitude that sometimes the impossible is possible if two people can come together...

Love is about attraction but it is also about compromise and working towards a common goal.....loving one anothers differences and learning to live with them.....and accept them

I guess only time will tell