help cancer men please

Hi i am in a relationship with a cancer man, he developed a really bad heron addition and i told him i couldn't be with a drug addict, we have been seeing each other off and on for 2 and half years now and both love each other immensely, no mater how many times we would break up we would always get back together, well recently he has come firm about quieting drugs but is unable to talk to me the last things he said to me is that i am a bit selfish and thats ok but right now he canot be here to fullfill my needs while he gets clean, we have talked about marrage and kids etc. i haveent seen him in 5 days or heard from him really at all, his dad is monitering his sucess in quiting, i am here becasue i need to know hes going to come back and that hes not seeing someone else and just vanishing from my life, i have been selfish and need him desperatly as i am a single mother and recently my whole life got turned upside down financially i have texted his dad more then i should, please cancer men help me, please ask me questions, im in trouble in my life and he is the only one that can sooth me so this is a big concern that hes coming back and not just slowly moving out of my life i feel like i need to know.
thank you

How are we supposed to know?

And if thing are that bad for you, and he's trying to stay clean, he'd be smart to not put himself back in a situation that will trigger the addiction. Sadly, that could mean you. He needs a rock to lean on now, and if he has to be your rock, he's avoiding taking care of himself.

i have been told i am the trigger, but he did say when he is clean he will come back, should i hold on and belive thats what he will do or let go. i guess what i am asking is would a cancer man say he will come back if he will not

what i am asking is would he tell me to move on or just vanish?

ive asked straight out and received no response if i should just move on

I think they are very honest and will say what they mean....but also say what you need to hear to make you feel better - but with some truth behind it. The thing is, he's going to always associate you with those tough times. And he may avoid you because of that. Cancers never go back...in their heads, oh sure. But physically, no.

You would do best to take care of yourself and let go the best you can. He needs to do what he needs to do, and wondering if he's telling the truth abt an unknown or not won't change that.