HELP ON CANCER MAN

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lnana04
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I'm no Cancer, but I've read similar stories on the opposite sign.

Maybe he told you what he initially did because he felt comfortable doing so and thought you could handle knowing how he felt with no expectations or pressure put on him or the situation.

For him to say that he loves you as a friend, to you acting like a nagging girlfriend, suggests that maybe your actions and expectations changed after him telling you his feelings. The keyword in what he initially said was "friend" and now it seems that he feels you are starting to expect something more or move it to another territory.

I think his feelings in both cases are his truth. Now if you haven't changed at all and is not expecting anything, then maybe he bipolar lol. idk
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Lil.ladie.taurus
@Lil.ladie.taurus
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Possibly. However my expectations from our bond hasn't changed.
When we first met he had the intention to date me, and after we met I still just wanted to be friends.
He said I hurt him .
He also said once he becomes my friend he won't go back.
And if I were to ever say I wanted to be with him he would probably stop talking to me cuz that means I'm playing games.
But I never wanted to be more than friends.
However , I am overbearing , so I can see why he said like a nagging gf.
But to end the friendship really shocked and confused me.
He has a gf now.