help! want this cancer man back

Dear Scorpio:

1st: I believe you're not being straight forward with what you feel. Let him know you find it rude that he's flirting with other girls while you cuddle. Don't pretend it's okay 'cos you're the only one who will suffer. Stop playing games with him, and see how he will react. if he disappears, let him go and transform, just like the phoenix you are. Cancer men like it when their love interest is jealous. (at least that's what my ex cancer used to tell me. he said "i feel loved that way")

2nd: he's obviously guarded because you rejected him so many times. My cancer ex did the same thing when we first started. he tested me every single way possible. (eg. threaten a break up, act as if he doesn't care, get mad at everything I say and do, etc.) what did i do? dodge them. DODGE every single thing he says. those are not true reflections of what they really feel. Action speaks louder than words. Remember, Patience is a virtue.

3rd: You know this person more than we do. what is his track record with women? is he the player type? but then again, love really works in mysterious ways. him being a player wont matter if you really like him. Best bet to win this cancer is to not be too demanding... Let him lead.. show affection in a subtle way.. call/text him.. but if he doesn't reply, it's ok.. wait.. if he calls/msges you.. be available ASAP..always be available to talk to him.. (keep in mind it's all temporary..(your submissiveness)..as u are a scorpio like me LOL), get even later when he's already attached ROFLMAO.)

PS: ok..u dont have to get even but ur story on how he plays push and pull game pissed me off.. so yeah that's what i'll do to him if i'm in your shoes. cancers have a hard time letting go. so you'll get the power once he's attached..
for now.. let him lead.. swallow the pride, let him lead.. patience is the key to success here my friend)

GOOD LUCK (^.^)

"Let him lead.. show affection in a subtle way.. call/text him.. but if he doesn't reply, it's ok.. wait.. if he calls/msges you.. be available ASAP..always be available to talk to him.. (keep in mind it's all temporary..(your submissiveness)..as u are a scorpio like me LOL), get even later when he's already attached ROFLMAO.)"


THIS IS SIMPLY SO FUNNY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
indeed follow this advice!!!
hahahahaha

This Scorp certainly knows her tricks to catch crabs 😉

Posted by scorpio1025
but is it too late now? its been a couple weeks. he liked my picture and asked why i havent been talking to him.

Yes.. you still have a good chance. Yes, he wants you to talk to him first. talk to him.. if he ignores..don't panic... just wait.. he will msg you again..100% .. then ask in the most feminine and nicest way possible why is he ignoring you.. never get mad..

remember: don't demand... let him lead.... patience.. always be available when he wants to talk.


In my experience, I used to ask advice from my cancer ex about life.. feelings.. what-should-I-do-problems kind of thing... show vulnerability to give him the idea you trust him... then tell him you feel empowered and nurtured by his wisdom and care..make him feel you needed and that his advice are the best.. (tho in reality.. you know in the deepest part of your heart, they're not...)

Posted by PiscesArgie
"Let him lead.. show affection in a subtle way.. call/text him.. but if he doesn't reply, it's ok.. wait.. if he calls/msges you.. be available ASAP..always be available to talk to him.. (keep in mind it's all temporary..(your submissiveness)..as u are a scorpio like me LOL), get even later when he's already attached ROFLMAO.)"


THIS IS SIMPLY SO FUNNY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
indeed follow this advice!!!
hahahahaha

This Scorp certainly knows her tricks to catch crabs 😉

I feel naked...stop it 🙂

Posted by PiscesArgie
"Let him lead.. show affection in a subtle way.. call/text him.. but if he doesn't reply, it's ok.. wait.. if he calls/msges you.. be available ASAP..always be available to talk to him.. (keep in mind it's all temporary..(your submissiveness)..as u are a scorpio like me LOL), get even later when he's already attached ROFLMAO.)"


THIS IS SIMPLY SO FUNNY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
indeed follow this advice!!!
hahahahaha

This Scorp certainly knows her tricks to catch crabs 😉

HAHAHA!!! 2 YEAR MY FRIEND.. 2 YEARS!

scorpio740
YOU ARE MY NEW SOURCE OF ADVICE HAHAHA!!!

."Yes, he wants you to talk to him first. talk to him.. if he ignores..don't panic... just wait.. he will msg you again..100% .. then ask in the most feminine and nicest way possible why is he ignoring you.. never get mad..

remember: don't demand... let him lead.... patience.. always be available when he wants to talk."


I laughed my ass off when you said that about the "temporary submisiveness" TOTALLY AGREE....

I have been patient for 6 MONTHS NOW, USING THESE TECHNIQUES, and the Crab is slowly falling HAHAHA.

But it does get tiring....a couple of times, I had to bite my tongue ...but I DODGED, as you said.

Anyway he knows I'm not that quiet and submisive though he likes to believe he is the one in control, haha but he is mistaken!!!

Anyway, Scorpio1025, you will get the Crab, follow the Advice of Scorpio 740 STEP BY STEP.

100% guarantee to WORK! 🙂

Posted by Cancer1986LeoCusp

Posted by PiscesArgie
"Let him lead.. show affection in a subtle way.. call/text him.. but if he doesn't reply, it's ok.. wait.. if he calls/msges you.. be available ASAP..always be available to talk to him.. (keep in mind it's all temporary..(your submissiveness)..as u are a scorpio like me LOL), get even later when he's already attached ROFLMAO.)"


THIS IS SIMPLY SO FUNNY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
indeed follow this advice!!!
hahahahaha

This Scorp certainly knows her tricks to catch crabs 😉

I feel naked...stop it 🙂

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YOU ARE SOOOO BUSTED CRABBY!!!!! 🙂

We Fish and Scorps know how to deal with you Crabs....we love Crabby meat!!
So dont hide inside those shells, come out to play with mommas!!!!

Hahaha!!! you know I love you CancerLeoCusp, dont you ? 🙂

(keep in mind it's all temporary..(your submissiveness)..as u are a scorpio like me LOL), get even later when he's already attached ROFLMAO.)

i like how lighthearted this is. 🙂 lol its like this zodiac stuff is real cause you said exactly as i act for real. like i need my space to calm down when i'm pissed yes like a phoenix to recover. it makes sense that he needs his too.. just not used to a guy dominating me. i usually am the aggressive one haha. i really miss the power though. guess its my own bad. it just sucks how much pride we have and that we have to surrender it so often. *sigh* being a scorpio is hardd work... hell being a GIRL is hard work.

Posted by scorpio1025
(keep in mind it's all temporary..(your submissiveness)..as u are a scorpio like me LOL), get even later when he's already attached ROFLMAO.)

i like how lighthearted this is. 🙂 lol its like this zodiac stuff is real cause you said exactly as i act for real. like i need my space to calm down when i'm pissed yes like a phoenix to recover. it makes sense that he needs his too.. just not used to a guy dominating me. i usually am the aggressive one haha. i really miss the power though. guess its my own bad. it just sucks how much pride we have and that we have to surrender it so often. *sigh* being a scorpio is hardd work... hell being a GIRL is hard work.

Girls , what you are plotting here is a strike unders a belt for a cancer...we get really attached to a person we care about. In fact i guess it will not work as soothely as you plan because as far as i know scorps also get attached and have a hard time letting go, i guess you are already there 🙂

Pisces are able to just to move on relatively easy i think which hearts when they act like nothing happened...i think it is explained by the fact that they have a lil form each sign of zodiac and can act distached like air signs if they want 😢

You should wait until you're mature enough for a relationship. Maybe have sex with random people in the meantime?

Why do they want you to talk with them so badly then ignore you? I don't understand this........do they not understand what message this sends? Don't you feel kinda stupid when you keep talking to them and they do this? I'd feel like I was stalking him at some point.

Don't we all just wanna be wuvvvvvvvvvvvvvved? That's all I want.....to wuv and be wuved =)

Posted by scorpio740
Dear Scorpio:

2nd: he's obviously guarded because you rejected him so many times. My cancer ex did the same thing when we first started. he tested me every single way possible. (eg. threaten a break up, act as if he doesn't care, get mad at everything I say and do, etc.) what did i do? dodge them. DODGE every single thing he says. those are not true reflections of what they really feel. Action speaks louder than words. Remember, Patience is a virtue.

what do you mean by dodge btw??

Posted by scorpio1025

what do you mean by dodge btw??

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it means don't take what he says seriously. just take it from one ear, then out on the other... don't argue too much... act nice, calm, stable.

eg: cancer: "fuck off!! I don't want to talk you ever again!!"
scorpio: "i wont. I"ll never leave you. stop pushing me away."

good luck (^.^)

Posted by MoonBunny
Scorpio740 knows her crabs. lol

We're different from the other two water signs. Scorpio and Pisces are "layers". Layers of an onion that you need to peel as you work your way in. Their personality is such. Scorp throws one small test, and if you pass, you get let in a "little". Inch by inch, layer by layer.

But with Cancer, there's just a single hard shell. There's always a hard test. The other smaller tests are simply distractions. We're too clever to bribe an Native Australian with pokemon cards, it won't work, pokemon cards aren't their weakness. We need to push the buttons and we know where they are.

For most signs (not just Scorps), we begin with their self-control issues....

This is sooo true.
I have been subjected to many tests, hard tests, testing my limits, my patience, my reactions.
You know where to push the buttons...
Fortunately for us Fish, we also KNOW what you are doing so we don't mind the tests...or, we do, but we know better.

I have started reading about Crabs when I began dating mine, and I was so much better prepared when the time came for his test, ignoring, little disappearing acts, shelling and so on. I just understood them so much better, that I am so thankfulfor all the people here!!

and I agree with the Scorpio girl who is an expert on Crabs...
Just take the verbal beating...once. Show the crab you can take it. But then remind them of what they told you, and tell them that you didnt like that and it hurts. If they care, they will try not to do the same twice, or at least they will lessen the agresiveness. And make sure they say they are sorry!!!

Crabs should remember that , in the case of Fish, we swim away....we can be patient and love them and understand them but won't be humiliated again and again!! 🙂