suggestions

Hey there, I am sort of new here and just wanted some suggestions for a night with my cancer man. I am a gemini, and we been dating about five months now, we're also both single parents so we don't get a lot of "us" time together and have the opportunity for us to make a whole night of it. I want it to be some what special, memorable and surprise him a little ...whether it's lingerie, cooking ect...any suggestions on what I can do to make it a sexy, romantic fun filled night for my cancer man?

Hey been dating a Crab for a bit more than 5 months too...here goes my suggestions...Fish-proved!

1) home cooked meal including dessert and expresso coffee for after..
2) candles , or essential oil...
3) soft lights
4) nice , sexy lingerie (maybe white lacey stuff, nothing too bitchy)
5) nice background music, maybe jazz

Good conversation, good sex...a massage with some nice oil...lots of cuddling and kissing...!!!

Oh man this is so simple. People confuse that cancers LOVE LOVE affection, nope its not that simple. As we know too much affection irks us out and drives our asses away. Since Pisces is dealin with a crab right now and I am one myself affection won't work, well not just direct affection. Its not the affection that makes us happy, its making us feel secure and most importantly unique, special, and anything to reassure ourselves that we are worth it...umm make us feel like we are sexy. Honestly we really doubt ourselves a lot and we kinda expect to get hurt. Let us know that we are something that you desire and want to keep around unconditionally without smothering him and we are ours. Warm fuzzy feelings to put it shortly. Ya cuddling and just simple kissing (not full blown making out slobber kissing) but the kind of making out that lets us know we are appreciated, that is all we really want in the end, to be appreciated 🙂. Simple enough and yet so fucking complicated huh?

Dear aujra:

yeah I know all that 🙂 but the girl was just asking for advice for a romantic NIGHT...it is just that!!
I know the nice food, music, candles has to come with all the other things you are saying...and believe me, it is hard to make you crabs trust, to make you feel secure, unique and all your necessities!!! 😉 but it is worth every second of it..

Thank you guys so much for all the advice, this is my first time dating a cancer but my best friend is one, though she is a girl so not sure of the differences there. I do think he is totally worth it, and I just wanted to be able to show him that through actions and not just words. Thanks again 🙂

a romantic night for my cancer would be:

- playing music together
- making food together with intermittent bouts of brushing up against the other or random slaps on the ass
- cuddling up to a movie
- smoking a bowl
- touching/massaging
- great sex!

all in that order! no strongly scented candles/perfumes/etc. lingerie is cool but he'd rather see me naked. passionate foreplay drives him wild!

Don't cheat on him Gemini I have my eye on you 😛

Thanks Ninja, we had a wonderful night thanks to all of your guys suggestions. And aujra even though I am a gemini, I have never cheated on a b/f nor would I ever, I wouldn't want it done to myself so I would never do that to someone else 🙂

Cancers are more kinky than you think. We like dominant partners secretly. Break out a whip and watch his eyes light up. Okay i wont say anymore. LOL

Posted by CancerianGoddess
Cancers are more kinky than you think. We like dominant partners secretly. Break out a whip and watch his eyes light up. Okay i wont say anymore. LOL

So Ive noticed 😉

Posted by aujra
Don't cheat on him Gemini I have my eye on you 😛

lol

Posted by PiscesArgie
Hey been dating a Crab for a bit more than 5 months too...here goes my suggestions...Fish-proved!

4) nice , sexy lingerie (maybe white lacey stuff, nothing too b1tchy)

LOOOOOVVVVEEEEE IT!!!!