How cancers feel about liars

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Namy
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11 YearsCancer

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Posted by StarChild63
I know I was wrong for this but I have an excellent PD friend and she pulled lots of personal information from the other aqua dude my cancer friend is dating. I've gotten access to all of his Facebook messages, text messages and call history, all activity on the apps he uses and even the pictures he keeps on his phone. Knowing what it takes for her to love another man, I'm sure she will dump his ass when I show her all of my findings. I know this move was grimey as shit but I had to. I want to show her with proof how much of a bad decision dude will be and I hope she will change his mind about him. Dude is nothing but a hypocritical, depressive washed out, drug addicted junkie who lies about the most. I actually kinda feel bad for him and what I'm about to do. I KNOOOWWWWWW she's going to be PISSED at me for sneaking around and prying in his business but she'll get mad and get over it but I KNOW she won't get over what I'm about to show her. I even have phone conversations! Even if she hates me to the point she cuts me off, at least she'll know the real him and be done with him. She too amazing for a scumbag. I plan to meet her tomorrow for lunch. I'll keep you updated.



WHY would you ? In my mind... if you could this to a guy I'm dating. You'd do the same to me, if we ever got together. In the End..with this move, we never will. So crazy..
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StarChild63
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Posted by cancergoddess143
Do everything in your power to break her relationship up from this Aqua. But please remember, that whatever you do, it still will not change the fact that she does NOT want to be with you. You will still be in the friend zone. You need a seriously tall glass of shut the fuxk up and mind your business juice. Pathetic





We all got a little darkness in us. I do admit that this is a straight up bitch move but hey. Cancergoddess you would know a lot about this....coming from the slut that actually tried to catfish the whole dxp, pretending to be the woman in your pic, telling guys that that was actually you in that picture! I was going to try to hit you up until I realized that you were a psychotic catfishing liar when kim31 called your ass out on it. LOL. Go shit the fuck up and sit down, you're just as lame as this move I'm about to pull.
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StarChild63
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Namy, I'm doing it because this dude is irritating and all I want to do is expose him for what he is. I know she'll be mad and if I don't end up with her it's fine. At least she won't make the mistake of falling for this loser. She deserves much better than that. Even if she's with a better man that's not myself I'd be happy. She has so much going for her that dude is going to RUIN her life and up until now she had no proof. And this wouldn't be the first time I've saved her from a terrible decision. Like last time she was mad for about a year but eventually she will come back and realize the bullet she dodged.
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StarChild63
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Claro, thanks for your input. You know, I did go to an extreme level but she has been tangled up in this dudes mess for about 2 and a half years. Since she started talking to him again, he has brought nothing but drama and sadness into her life and dude is just an immature prick who is out for himself. She doesn't deserve that. She's like the typical cancer woman and it infuriates me when I hear that she actually gives him her time, body, love and,affection. He doesn't deserve it but tricks her into thinking he's decent by lots of fronts he puts on. She can't recognize it because she is sweet and naive and trusting and hopeful and always trying to be loyal and good to people. And we've known each other for 10+ years and she knows about all of the shitty things I do and knows that I would rarely do something like this. She knows me just as well as I know her. And we keep everything open between us (well most). After I explain why I did what I did and snuck behind her back while doing it, she will understand.
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Namy
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11 YearsCancer

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Posted by StarChild63
Namy, I'm doing it because this dude is irritating and all I want to do is expose him for what he is. I know she'll be mad and if I don't end up with her it's fine. At least she won't make the mistake of falling for this loser. She deserves much better than that. Even if she's with a better man that's not myself I'd be happy. She has so much going for her that dude is going to RUIN her life and up until now she had no proof. And this wouldn't be the first time I've saved her from a terrible decision. Like last time she was mad for about a year but eventually she will come back and realize the bullet she dodged.



When you tell her, make sure it's all about her...meaning, let it be completely clear. Make sure she understands like we do, that she's better than what she's getting and you only want to prove this to her. Make sure she understands that you're doing this for her and not for your personal selfish reasons(we know that's not completely true). This is the only way I can forgive you. Goodluck. 🙂
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cancergoddess143
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Posted by StarChild63
Posted by cancergoddess143
Do everything in your power to break her relationship up from this Aqua. But please remember, that whatever you do, it still will not change the fact that she does NOT want to be with you. You will still be in the friend zone. You need a seriously tall glass of shut the fuxk up and mind your business juice. Pathetic





We all got a little darkness in us. I do admit that this is a straight up bitch move but hey. Cancergoddess you would know a lot about this....coming from the slut that actually tried to catfish the whole dxp, pretending to be the woman in your pic, telling guys that that was actually you in that picture! I was going to try to hit you up until I realized that you were a psychotic catfishing liar when kim31 called your ass out on it. LOL. Go shit the fuck up and sit down, you're just as lame as this move I'm about to pull.
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Lol mad much?!?! She still only sees you as a weak ass platonic friend. A boy she will never be with romantically. Sorry bruh!! Lol
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Geminihope
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11 Years

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Don't do it. This will it end well. This is not going to make her leave him. If she has been at it for 2.5 years then even if you showed her videos of him having sex with other women won't chnage her mind. The heart wants what the heart wants and until she decides on her own she deserves better, no damning evidence will stop her pining for him. He will find some way to manipulate all the evidence and sugar coat things to keep her hooked; and she will believe him! Just walk away.
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Feistypisces777
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I'm sorry to be negative nancy over here but most of the time, no matter what a person's sign is, it doesn't matter if a person sees the shit right in front of their face. Her bf could be eating face with another girl and she would block it out from her brain because her heart and mind are fully in it. I know you are the best type of friend because I used to want to do the same exact thing with my friends but at the end of the day it won't matter. The best thing you can do is to leave it alone and hug your friend when all of it is done. I know it hurts you to see your friend like this but just go with it. When I was younger I walked away from my friends who just wouldn't open their eyes and I know they missed me and needed me the most later on and felt bad but are too embarrassed to even approach me again. She will need you but just be patient and let her learn her lesson. That's what friends do.
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Aquarius09
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You have captain save a hoe complex or rather a dumb hoe in this case. If this guy is as lame as you say, I'm sure this dumbass woman has seen all those "stellar" traits he has to offer in her 2.5 yrs of relationship with him. Don't tell me that she's blind to his true colors. She's just an ostrich with her head in the sand. No one can pretend or create an illusion forever.

As for you, you can't save a person that doesn't want to be saved. Cancers don't leave people. They may cheat in an unhappy relationship, but they never leave the person they are with. I'll bet you anythinh that she won't leave him despite all the dirty things you found on this man. She will just shrug and stay with him. I think you need a hobby so you stay occupied with something more productive than snooping on people that have nothing to do with you.
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cancergoddess143
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Posted by StarChild63
Posted by cancergoddess143
Do everything in your power to break her relationship up from this Aqua. But please remember, that whatever you do, it still will not change the fact that she does NOT want to be with you. You will still be in the friend zone. You need a seriously tall glass of shut the fuxk up and mind your business juice. Pathetic



The truth hurts Lmmfao



We all got a little darkness in us. I do admit that this is a straight up bitch move but hey. Cancergoddess you would know a lot about this....coming from the slut that actually tried to catfish the whole dxp, pretending to be the woman in your pic, telling guys that that was actually you in that picture! I was going to try to hit you up until I realized that you were a psychotic catfishing liar when kim31 called your ass out on it. LOL. Go shit the fuck up and sit down, you're just as lame as this move I'm about to pull.
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