I can't deal with cancers anymore

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by cappygirl11 on Sunday, September 28, 2014 and has 16 replies.

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@cappygirl11
12 Years

I hate it cause I care and its so hard to get a capricorn to care.

But I can't deal with cancers sulky pouty u hurt my feelings emotions all the time.

I'm so feminine but feel like the male in this relationship.

I feel like punching him out if I see him except he's pmsing so I can't even see him.....

Please help

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@Kim31
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by xMoonMan
Posted by cappygirl11
I hate it cause I care and its so hard to get a capricorn to care.

But I can't deal with cancers sulky pouty u hurt my feelings emotions all the time.

I'm so feminine but feel like the male in this relationship.

I feel like punching him out if I see him except he's pmsing so I can't even see him.....

Please help

Well, maybe you should stop acting like a man and go make him a sandwich and bring it to him along with a cold beer!

If you were a real woman and did your job properly he wouldn't be all confused n shit

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er, will another woman plus one moonman before me?...🙂

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@phEnyxBull876
11 YearsTaurus

Posted by xMoonMan
Posted by cappygirl11
I hate it cause I care and its so hard to get a capricorn to care.

But I can't deal with cancers sulky pouty u hurt my feelings emotions all the time.

I'm so feminine but feel like the male in this relationship.

I feel like punching him out if I see him except he's pmsing so I can't even see him.....

Please help

Well, maybe you should stop acting like a man and go make him a sandwich and bring it to him along with a cold beer!

If you were a real woman and did your job properly he wouldn't be all confused n shit

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+10

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@ReddmannScorch
12 Years500+ Posts

cancer men arent confusing..... we are interesting, different from the norm, we aint gonna bore you dats for sure. We da bosses. And i do agree wit xmoonman put on ur skirt, den strip and give him a beer damnit. Be a woman and stop taking a shot of that testosterone. Some cappy woman are damn frigid! Be a freak for once.

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@StarMooney
12 Years

This post really made me lol because I know exactly what you are feeling. Take all of that frustration and negative energy and go grab a stick and use it to force the cancer out of its shell. Lol! If a cancer continually gets in the emotional moods constantly, it's either because you are doing or saying something that is causing this or he/she is overly sensitive. If you're doing or saying something, you need to look within yourself and ask yourself why and find ways to fix it. If the cancer is overly sensitive, you need to take him by the shoulders and shake him up one good time and clearly state what is that you are feeling, wanting or why there is a miscommunication somewhere (and why the cancers ever flowing moods gets on your nerves). Most of the time, cancers aren't too aware of the damage and the stress they cause for the person that's standing on the outside of the shell, waiting for the crab to poke it's little head back out.

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@StarMooney
12 Years

Cancers are both crazy confusing and crazy confused. I once knew a couple, beautiful relationship. In the beginning the cancer would be in the shell because she thought the guy she was madly *madly* in love with wasn't interested in her and was giving her the cold shoulder. The guy had emotional issues too and always kept his guard up and told the cancer he wasn't interested but was and was also madly *madly* in love with her too. Lol, it was a very vicious (yet amusing) cycle. Sometimes, you just need to take their shoulders, shake them and open up your mouth and be honest. (It depends though)

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@Starry22
12 Years

Ah... I dont hold it against cancers. But the one that i was unfortunate enough to come across made me bend over backwards. I kept my spirit up and cheered him up. I shook him by his shoulders - for months! He was too caught up in self pity and it destroyed me to see him this way but I finally had to take care of myself. I wish you all the best buy if it doesnt work out it maybe time to leave. Im sorry but it will get worse if you stay in an unhappy relationship. Let him come to you - if he wants to.

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@cappygirl11
12 Years

I know why he's upset...i asked if we were getting together after work....We both work loooooonnnnnnggggg hours and have to plan to get our free time to sync.

so I say are we getting together cause I'm gonna be in your area at a client today.

He says maybe possibly will have to see how things are going later.

I say oh good I could still see you.

He gets upset cause I know he's schedule better than he does and doesn't know what getting together later means. As a result I have spoken to him once in the last 5 days and he's been a sulky baby.....

I would not freak out about that if I were any star sign at all or human or any non alien being.

Btw don't tell me to make him a sandwich cause firstly he don't eat sandwiches and secondly I get blamed for over cooking/ or getting take outa etc which has led to him getting a chubby belly and he got no time for gym

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@StarMooney
12 Years

He gets upset cause I know he's schedule better than he does and doesn't know what getting together later means. As a result I have spoken to him once in the last 5 days and he's been a sulky baby.....

So did you retaliate against him because of something you thought you knew or were sure of? Because if so, what if you were wrong? Then you would've falsely isolated him for no good reason. And then I could see why he would sulk.