How do I win a cancer male back

I messed up and apologised.

This time he is really angry. He won't reply to my texts. Cancels my calls. I even had chocolates delivered with a note saying I'm sorry.

I'm getting no response.

This is so depressing

Your done, finished, keep pestering him he will just get more angry and you will never hear from him again.

I have to agree with Stihl and Caster here

Agree with everyone here. As hard as it is, back away.You can't expect to be forgiven immediately. Don't call, don't text, don't try to initiate anything. Just go away. The only thing that will heal it, is time. Come back in a few weeks if he doesn't respond back to you yet. When you do follow up, make sure you aren't emotionally charged because that will just send him back into hiding again.

Cancerians....my mum warned me about them.

No seriously she hadn't even met him when she said...cancerians are too emotional...u have no emotions u a capricorn. It's to much work for u...lol

Dont ever make yourself out to be the badguy and never apologize to a cancer.. play the martyr and tell em to kick rocks!

Wait wait wait....

Waiting is probably the best thing...
Depends on what you did.
Personally I think chocolates was a nice gesture but might of been strange to give a guy. Also is a bit of a detached gift to give...most people give chocolates or flowers when they Dont know what else to give.

IMO cancer men respond better when you involve their emotion. Ex) look them in the eye and tell them you love them. Use their shoulder to cry on when your disappointed. They want to feel connected to you emotionally.

For now just give him space. If you dont hear from him in a week or two, invite him to coffee or something to clear the air. Something low pressure.

Posted by CapricornLaurie
Waiting is probably the best thing...
Depends on what you did.
Personally I think chocolates was a nice gesture but might of been strange to give a guy. Also is a bit of a detached gift to give...most people give chocolates or flowers when they Dont know what else to give.

IMO cancer men respond better when you involve their emotion. Ex) look them in the eye and tell them you love them. Use their shoulder to cry on when your disappointed. They want to feel connected to you emotionally.

For now just give him space. If you dont hear from him in a week or two, invite him to coffee or something to clear the air. Something low pressure.

My advice is go get all out... And then retreat let them sort things through... If they come back good for you if they dont fuck them... Lol

I couldn't do anything emotional cause he doesn't want to see me. So a tiny of chocolate sweets and hearts was the least weirdest to send....as opposed to sending flowers or a teddy to a guy.

It did have a very emotional note with it.

But ok I won't do anything.

Except he's leaving during the weekend in business and will probably be gone and I never wanted him to leave unhappy.

Yeah just leave it alone for now. If he's willing to work it out hell come back.

If not, take it as a learning experience. Us cappies have it tough. We somehow come off as abrasive and blunt.

what did u do after all? Anywayq I always think that to write someone a letter is a good idea. It is personal but not hauntingly, it also gives the person time to think. So i suggest u write him a letter and then leave him alone. I hope he responds 🙂

Mine just came back yours will too..txt simple sweet things and expect nothing til he decides to reach out..

How long was he gone for.

See I'm negative cause he said he doesn't thing we would ever speak again

And he won't speak to me about our relationship for 2 weeks. I mean I even asked if he really wanted it to be over. And he won't replue

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