How easy is it for you to fall in love ?

Just reflecting on my past.

I realised it was always easy for me to fall in love with ladies. If anything, it appears formulaic.

- She needs me
- I find her attractive
- She's smarter than me.

That's pretty much it.

Venus In Cancer.


How easy is it for you to fall in love ?

Please include your Venus sign.

And btw, to all the ladies who keep posting about cancer man drama

He either can't work out if he can trust you... and no, that's for him to figure out, not you to tell him ( all you will need is time)

Or

he decided you're untrustable but he's already in love with you. (No hope, move on)


Every single time.

I tend to fall in love before testing if they are trustable. And that's the reason behind a lot of the relationship drama that I get.

All that fucking scorpio in my chart and trust test just makes life too difficult. I think if I didn't have as much scorpio, relationships would be much easier.


I don't chase women and I don't like women who chase me.
She absolutely must be smarter than me, academically.

Attractive to me:

Nice eyes
Nice lips
Nice Skin
Hair matches her character.

That's pretty much it.

I dated europeans, asians, indians (yes I am aware they are also asians) latin american, strippers, doctors, gym instructors, dentists, lawyers, criminals, fat people, skinny people, curvy people, flat people, blondes, brunettes.. I think I even dated a girl with a missing front tooth once. In short, I really really don't care, as long as she has nice eyes, lips, skin and hair.

Add to that if she needs me + smarter than me + I can actually trust her.. I could probably marry her then and there. Every time that formula added up, I was thinking about proposing before month 2.

V in Cancer of course.

I don't fall in love easily. It's tough just to muster up an attraction.

I need time, by the time I start opening up and falling for them the guy is on his way out the door. It takes me a while to trust. It's like I become a different person, feeling free and becoming more expressive. I wish guys had more patience. 😢

Venus in Leo

i just go for dem bewbies....

Thank you for hiding those posts, I was afraid my seminal interpretation of the love of a Cancer man would be lost to mankind in the balance of a Venus in Libra's rants. 😛

Venus in Cancer (from a Virgals perspective):

Infatuated easily. Very into romance. Those cheesy love lines you hear in movies? Yeah, written by Venus in Cancer! Affectionate. High libido. Makes love but also has aggressive sex. Mmm.... Is a giver, def a giver. Always, I mean *always* mentions just how much he likes you. Not a day goes by without you knowing how into you he really is. Even says those things in front of friends n such.

Venus in Libra approved! 🙂

So I would say yes, they fall easily.

Btw, I was speaking about a Cancer male!

lol, that's why I said bewbies. Cancers are in love all the time I think, perhaps the female crabs have more control but the male crabs I think are always in a romantic lalaland. 😛

Posted by incandescentcancer
lol, that's why I said bewbies. Cancers are in love all the time I think, perhaps the female crabs have more control but the male crabs I think are always in a romantic lalaland. 😛

The easier it is for a guy to fall, the less I trust him.
Because I feel it will be even easier for him to fall out of love.

Posted by LunarMaiden

Posted by incandescentcancer
lol, that's why I said bewbies. Cancers are in love all the time I think, perhaps the female crabs have more control but the male crabs I think are always in a romantic lalaland. 😛

The easier it is for a guy to fall, the less I trust him.
Because I feel it will be even easier for him to fall out of love.

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Of course, that's the case. It is all random infatuation because of the size of the bewbies.

lolx.. ok i am an aquarius. well while i was reading the comments of all of you, i was remembering my cancer lover boy.. you all, YES YOU ALL talk like him. i mean to be very honest with this sweet yet sexy yet charming yet soft yet velvety nature along with bit of childish behavior to wow us .. makes us in love with you. it hits me so damn bad that, i have no idea when i fall hard for a cancer and cant thing of anything other then a cancer.
aquarius has this quality of getting detached. but i am sure with a cancer it gona be a tough one as i just love the softness and feelings of a cancer.

i never know that cancers like to chase. don't know if it works for every cancer of not. but i wanted to give him every happiness. just he gets distant sometimes and i fail every thing while he is away as my mind is in control of him loll.

any of you cancer fall hard for an aqua girl? what di du saw in her if u are still together ? what made you move on?

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Posted by LunarMaiden

Posted by incandescentcancer
lol, that's why I said bewbies. Cancers are in love all the time I think, perhaps the female crabs have more control but the male crabs I think are always in a romantic lalaland. 😛

The easier it is for a guy to fall, the less I trust him.
Because I feel it will be even easier for him to fall out of love.

Of course, that's the case. It is all random infatuation because of the size of the bewbies.

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Not always the case.

Posted by Peanutbutter

Posted by incandescentcancer

Posted by LunarMaiden

Posted by incandescentcancer
lol, that's why I said bewbies. Cancers are in love all the time I think, perhaps the female crabs have more control but the male crabs I think are always in a romantic lalaland. 😛

The easier it is for a guy to fall, the less I trust him.
Because I feel it will be even easier for him to fall out of love.

Of course, that's the case. It is all random infatuation because of the size of the bewbies.

Not always the case.

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Aight, aight, your Cancer fell in love with you for your personality 😛

Posted by Honeybees
lolx.. ok i am an aquarius. well while i was reading the comments of all of you, i was remembering my cancer lover boy.. you all, YES YOU ALL talk like him. i mean to be very honest with this sweet yet sexy yet charming yet soft yet velvety nature along with bit of childish behavior to wow us .. makes us in love with you. it hits me so damn bad that, i have no idea when i fall hard for a cancer and cant thing of anything other then a cancer.
aquarius has this quality of getting detached. but i am sure with a cancer it gona be a tough one as i just love the softness and feelings of a cancer.

i never know that cancers like to chase. don't know if it works for every cancer of not. but i wanted to give him every happiness. just he gets distant sometimes and i fail every thing while he is away as my mind is in control of him loll.

any of you cancer fall hard for an aqua girl? what di du saw in her if u are still together ? what made you move on?

I simply don't understand why women like Cancer men. I look at it and can't see one likeable thing, if I was a woman I would simply hate Cancer guys for being wimps almost effeminate...lol.

I have an aquarian moon, tell me about detached. Everyone tells me the same thing, "I have spoken to you so many times but you're somehow distant, do I even know you?"....lol. I knew a couple of aquarian girls but due to life related circumstances I couldn't move forward, although one of the Aquarians and me got drunk and almost hooked up until both of us remembered we had people waiting for us at home 😛. I find aquarian girls playful and generally nice.

Posted by incandescentcancer

Posted by Honeybees
lolx.. ok i am an aquarius. well while i was reading the comments of all of you, i was remembering my cancer lover boy.. you all, YES YOU ALL talk like him. i mean to be very honest with this sweet yet sexy yet charming yet soft yet velvety nature along with bit of childish behavior to wow us .. makes us in love with you. it hits me so damn bad that, i have no idea when i fall hard for a cancer and cant thing of anything other then a cancer.
aquarius has this quality of getting detached. but i am sure with a cancer it gona be a tough one as i just love the softness and feelings of a cancer.

i never know that cancers like to chase. don't know if it works for every cancer of not. but i wanted to give him every happiness. just he gets distant sometimes and i fail every thing while he is away as my mind is in control of him loll.

any of you cancer fall hard for an aqua girl? what di du saw in her if u are still together ? what made you move on?

I simply don't understand why women like Cancer men. I look at it and can't see one likeable thing, if I was a woman I would simply hate Cancer guys for being wimps almost effeminate...lol.

I have an aquarian moon, tell me about detached. Everyone tells me the same thing, "I have spoken to you so many times but you're somehow distant, do I even know you?"....lol. I knew a couple of aquarian girls but due to life related circumstances I couldn't move forward, although one of the Aquarians and me got drunk and almost hooked up until both of us remembered we had people waiting for us at home 😛. I find aquarian girls playful and generally nice.

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sweet of you😄

Posted by Honeybees

Posted by incandescentcancer

Posted by Honeybees
lolx.. ok i am an aquarius. well while i was reading the comments of all of you, i was remembering my cancer lover boy.. you all, YES YOU ALL talk like him. i mean to be very honest with this sweet yet sexy yet charming yet soft yet velvety nature along with bit of childish behavior to wow us .. makes us in love with you. it hits me so damn bad that, i have no idea when i fall hard for a cancer and cant thing of anything other then a cancer.
aquarius has this quality of getting detached. but i am sure with a cancer it gona be a tough one as i just love the softness and feelings of a cancer.

i never know that cancers like to chase. don't know if it works for every cancer of not. but i wanted to give him every happiness. just he gets distant sometimes and i fail every thing while he is away as my mind is in control of him loll.

any of you cancer fall hard for an aqua girl? what di du saw in her if u are still together ? what made you move on?

I simply don't understand why women like Cancer men. I look at it and can't see one likeable thing, if I was a woman I would simply hate Cancer guys for being wimps almost effeminate...lol.

I have an aquarian moon, tell me about detached. Everyone tells me the same thing, "I have spoken to you so many times but you're somehow distant, do I even know you?"....lol. I knew a couple of aquarian girls but due to life related circumstances I couldn't move forward, although one of the Aquarians and me got drunk and almost hooked up until both of us remembered we had people waiting for us at home 😛. I find aquarian girls playful and generally nice.

sweet of you😄

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And that's why women like cancer men.

Posted by BommyKnocker

Posted by Honeybees

Posted by incandescentcancer

Posted by Honeybees
lolx.. ok i am an aquarius. well while i was reading the comments of all of you, i was remembering my cancer lover boy.. you all, YES YOU ALL talk like him. i mean to be very honest with this sweet yet sexy yet charming yet soft yet velvety nature along with bit of childish behavior to wow us .. makes us in love with you. it hits me so damn bad that, i have no idea when i fall hard for a cancer and cant thing of anything other then a cancer.
aquarius has this quality of getting detached. but i am sure with a cancer it gona be a tough one as i just love the softness and feelings of a cancer.

i never know that cancers like to chase. don't know if it works for every cancer of not. but i wanted to give him every happiness. just he gets distant sometimes and i fail every thing while he is away as my mind is in control of him loll.

any of you cancer fall hard for an aqua girl? what di du saw in her if u are still together ? what made you move on?

I simply don't understand why women like Cancer men. I look at it and can't see one likeable thing, if I was a woman I would simply hate Cancer guys for being wimps almost effeminate...lol.

I have an aquarian moon, tell me about detached. Everyone tells me the same thing, "I have spoken to you so many times but you're somehow distant, do I even know you?"....lol. I knew a couple of aquarian girls but due to life related circumstances I couldn't move forward, although one of the Aquarians and me got drunk and almost hooked up until both of us remembered we had people waiting for us at home 😛. I find aquarian girls playful and generally nice.

sweet of you😄

And that's why women like cancer men.

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haha i agree.. the sweetness in you guys makes us girls/women like you cancers 🙂 however it is hard to understand whether you are faking it or not.

Just out of curiosity. Why do you want " gay cancer son who loves his mummy one day" ?

Not being homophobic, its just a kind of odd thing to say.

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Where in Aus do you live ?

Adelaide. SA

So this morn my Crabbypants said he's enamored with me lol.

It's only been a month & a half since we met btw...

So you be the judge 😉

Venus in Cancer you say.

Sounds about right.

Posted by Peanutbutter
So this morn my Crabbypants said he's enamored with me lol.

It's only been a month & a half since we met btw...

So you be the judge 😉

i am so itching to troll you mercilessly but I won't. Your virgo sun will get hurt 😛

Posted by ninjafish
Years ago I had the biggest crush on a cancer man who was a total a-hole to me. The men don't like me for some reason, but I always get along with cancer women (this applies to gay cancer men too)... I'd like to get along with the hetero cancer boys and finding at least one who I don't irritate is one of the top 10 to-dos on my bucket list. I'd also like to have a gay cancer son who loves his mummy one day 🙂

But yeah I fall in love hard, and easily if I feel a strong emotional/metaphysical connection with an individual. So obvious for me though - venus in pisces.

Tell me your top characteristics and how you behave in public and I will tell you exactly what bothers the cancer boys. 😉

Posted by Honeybees

haha i agree.. the sweetness in you guys makes us girls/women like you cancers 🙂 however it is hard to understand whether you are faking it or not.

No, cancer men are not faking although sometimes we do know the hold we have over women and may trick you 😛. But then dudes want cooch, can't help ourselves....lol 😛. Our personality traits are very real though, that you can trust!

It's easy if it's the right person. Meeting someone that interests me is the hard part. Once I'm in love it's hard for me to let go, even when it's for the best.

Posted by incandescentcancer

Posted by Peanutbutter
So this morn my Crabbypants said he's enamored with me lol.

It's only been a month & a half since we met btw...

So you be the judge 😉

i am so itching to troll you mercilessly but I won't. Your virgo sun will get hurt 😛

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Sure.. play the "sympathy for your feelings" card to make up for your lack of creativity.

Shhh... It'll b our little secret, just between you and I. 😉

Posted by Peanutbutter

Posted by incandescentcancer

Posted by Peanutbutter
So this morn my Crabbypants said he's enamored with me lol.

It's only been a month & a half since we met btw...

So you be the judge 😉

i am so itching to troll you mercilessly but I won't. Your virgo sun will get hurt 😛

Sure.. play the "sympathy for your feelings" card to make up for your lack of creativity.

Shhh... It'll b our little secret, just between you and I. 😉

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hahhahahahahaha....not bad Virgo, not bad at all...😄

Man, cancer guys love me...... Lol.

No but, all teasing aside.. thanks for the gems of advice you've given me thus far, they've been very helpful 😉

Posted by ninjafish

I'm really variable, as in somewhat unpredictable (tons of mutable energy, strong uranus which is on the asc) - this is what I'm thinking it could be. I'm also kind of solitary and run away from people a lot. But I know that at least one of the cancer guys I met who took a dislike to me thought I was arrogant, which I really don't believe I am... I do however think that sometimes my inhibition can be construed as haughtiness. He was a heavy drug user though, so obviously not tapping into his intuitive side too much because he didn't seem to be able to read people for butter.

LOL...why would you think all Cancers are assholes to you when all you knew was one crackhead asshole who could have been from any sign...I think you're over analyzing and generalising.

Although, it's true that if you leave groups too often then it might be construed as arrogance. Try to make a reasonable excuse when you leave or do what my virgo buddies do disappear when people are beyond caring (drunk etc.)...lol.

Men with Sun in Cancer are totally hot. It is Venus in Cancer that is the problem. That placement whether on a male or female is very unstable in relationships. You know the saying "I think with my heart" Venus in Cancer all day. It's too much. They are so damn fragile. They need to put "handle with care" on their foreheads.

If a man has his Sun in Cancer he needs to have a heavy amount of fire in his chart or at the very least his Mars position should be in Fire, preferably Leo.

Venus in Virgo..I tend to fall in love with people that I can fix. You know..You should get a new job, you should move, you should go back to school. I am the queen of resume making....here let me make you a resume.

The problem is they never want fixing. Oh well.

I fall in love rarely but very hard - and in all cases for Virgo man. My Venus is in Leo and I fell in love with Virgo with Venus in Leo - and I fell in love very fast and hard 🙂. Anyway - I am attracted with man that make me feel insecure 🙂. If I am safe - I do not fall in love...very weird.🙂

quick update: As of this morning my cancer is still enamored 😛 LOL.