He texted me........yay! what to do now—??

we been to same college, I knew I liked him but only came to know its love when I couldn't stop thinking about him even after 2 years from college. so I like him since 6 years ....I know he too when were in college. but we just stopped at observing each other due to our shy natures..........now he texted me , I know this is one opurtunity I can use.....so how can i be with him, I don wanna be too agressive or slow either........please some guys out there help mE!!!!

Reply?

This one word will solve all your problems:

Relax!

Odd.

Posted by Crabmoon
Like Zen said relax, explain this better to us, you said that you guys haven't talk in the last 2 years. We told you to call him. I guess you did call/text and he responded is that right? If so what did he said to you? More insight please.

We had contact numbers , he just used to send me few quotes now and then, but he texted yesterday like 'hi my name' ...
I replied and then when I said about my job He told 'Hmm see I dont have that much knowledge to understand you, see how pity na??

I : pity?? I dont think so, you are pretty smart......wat are you doing??

he didnt reply for a while.....and then said he was in the train, coming back (we both live in same place)

I just wanna know, He is a typical cancer and should I talk to him more soberly or Its ok to talk like this........

Posted by ZenBear
This one word will solve all your problems:

Relax!

I am excited but didnt show him that........should I talk to him more openly or just just one step at a time?? coz we actually didnt speak much in the past...and yes when we spoke before he told me, ' why do you talk so formal'......

Posted by xxnightbynight
just let things happen... text him back ONCE... wait for a reply. See where it goes from there.

yes I dont wanna seem too agressive either, but I dont know what he expects??

Posted by OceanDeep
Odd.

what is odd?