@zosopage17
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So whaha doin' later?!! π
Jussss kidding, tryin to make you feel a little better if you lold at all. I'm in the same boat, done with men. Life is so much easier and better ratm, other than the two male cupboard raiders at home here who never let me rest haha
Posted by PurrrrHissss
I'm done with relationships. I can't trust people. It fucking sucks.
Can I get a 'holla!!'
Amen.
I'm just so tired of the "nice guy" stigma. I get fucking trampled, and then when I absolutely flip my fucking lid and rage - I'm the bad guy, somehow.
Fuck. All.
No, I haven't.
My problem is that I buck SO FUCKING HARD. I am the mot gentle man you will ever meet, until I am crossed. I sware to God I can flip that switch in a matter of seconds, and sometimes - in retrospect, it astonishes even me.
Bitches deserve it though. I am fed up with people who think that they are the sole center of the universe, and the subordinates that suck their fucking dick to make the stigmatism happen.
As far as I'm concerned, people can get fucked in the ass and ran over by a train. I honestly, could care less.
Ive dated two. One was a ltr. Oi.
What drives me crazy is the "backing group" that support these ignorant people. Why does nobody have the fucking balls to tell somebody that they are wrong. Or that they fucked up, or that they made an incorrect decision.
Stop sucking collective asshole society - man the FUCK up, drop a set of nuts and stand up for what you believe in. Jesus.
Posted by OceanDeep
Ive dated two. One was a ltr. Oi.Aww, not good? What went wrong? You don't have to answer that if you don't want to, though.
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Nope, that's okay I dont mind talking about it. I'll shoot for tomorrow, tired right now lol
Posted by zosopage17
What drives me crazy is the "backing group" that support these ignorant people. Why does nobody have the fucking balls to tell somebody that they are wrong. Or that they fucked up, or that they made an incorrect decision.Stop sucking collective asshole society - man the FUCK up, drop a set of nuts and stand up for what you believe in. Jesus.
awesome!!!! (sorry to delight in your rage, but you know....)
it's cool.
Fuck. All.
Wow..Are you guys really this angry right now? I'm a virgo... but this doesn't express a virgo's cold, cold world. Ouch! Love ya'll but lighten up. Shit and emotions happen.. gotta learn to grow and adapt in the motions... I know that ya'll are good at that. Dig deep and find the happy place. You know it's there. I just saw the happy lovey side of everyone for the last 2 months. What's tearing at the heartstrings?
Posted by lindavi20
Wow..Are you guys really this angry right now? I'm a virgo... but this doesn't express a virgo's cold, cold world. Ouch! Love ya'll but lighten up. Shit and emotions happen.. gotta learn to grow and adapt in the motions... I know that ya'll are good at that. Dig deep and find the happy place. You know it's there. I just saw the happy lovey side of everyone for the last 2 months. What's tearing at the heartstrings?
wOw.. is this ever a virgo thing to say...
My Cancer version..
Wow.. are you really this flippant and obtuse right now? I'm a Cancer... and your comment sure lacks emotion. Ouch! love you guys, but I have to remember that Virgos say stupid stuff all the time. you just have to learn to ignore. Analyze all i have written, and figure out what I'm trying to say to you. Think hard, I know it's there.
The Cancers will let you know when the happy lovey side comes back... so you can be more comfortable with them
Thanks crabs.
Apparently, other crabs are having difficulties as well?
Posted by lindavi20
Wow..Are you guys really this angry right now? I'm a virgo... but this doesn't express a virgo's cold, cold world. Ouch! Love ya'll but lighten up. Shit and emotions happen.. gotta learn to grow and adapt in the motions... I know that ya'll are good at that. Dig deep and find the happy place. You know it's there. I just saw the happy lovey side of everyone for the last 2 months. What's tearing at the heartstrings?wOw.. is this ever a virgo thing to say...
My Cancer version..
Wow.. are you really this flippant and obtuse right now? I'm a Cancer... and your comment sure lacks emotion. Ouch! love you guys, but I have to remember that Virgos say stupid stuff all the time. you just have to learn to ignore. Analyze all i have written, and figure out what I'm trying to say to you. Think hard, I know it's there.
The Cancers will let you know when the happy lovey side comes back... so you can be more comfortable with them
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@lindavi20: We get angry, and we need to vent it. Don't take the "cold virgo world" comment personally, it's just irrational emotions talking not anything genuine or serious.
@shellshocker: I get you're angry but don't take it out on lindavi20. She was actually trying to cheer yall bitches up, and you smacked her in the face. Don't be immature.
@OP: I know what you mean about the "nice guy" syndrome and all that BS. I hate it too. Not in a bad enough mood right now to yell and scream and cuss about it, but I get there often enough and I may come back to this thread at a later date to do just that.
Posted by lindavi20
Wow..Are you guys really this angry right now? I'm a virgo... but this doesn't express a virgo's cold, cold world. Ouch! Love ya'll but lighten up. Shit and emotions happen.. gotta learn to grow and adapt in the motions... I know that ya'll are good at that. Dig deep and find the happy place. You know it's there. I just saw the happy lovey side of everyone for the last 2 months. What's tearing at the heartstrings?wOw.. is this ever a virgo thing to say...
My Cancer version..
Wow.. are you really this flippant and obtuse right now? I'm a Cancer... and your comment sure lacks emotion. Ouch! love you guys, but I have to remember that Virgos say stupid stuff all the time. you just have to learn to ignore. Analyze all i have written, and figure out what I'm trying to say to you. Think hard, I know it's there.
The Cancers will let you know when the happy lovey side comes back... so you can be more comfortable with them
@lindavi20: We get angry, and we need to vent it. Don't take the "cold virgo world" comment personally, it's just irrational emotions talking not anything genuine or serious.
@shellshocker: I get you're angry but don't take it out on lindavi20. She was actually trying to cheer yall bitches up, and you smacked her in the face. Don't be immature.
@OP: I know what you mean about the "nice guy" syndrome and all that BS. I hate it too. Not in a bad enough mood right now to yell and scream and cuss about it, but I get there often enough and I may come back to this thread at a later date to do just that.
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@ZenBear... I'm not angry at all. I thought I would re-word her comment so she could see how her words could also be viewed as a smack in the face. Hers were unconscious... mine were conscious
and seriously little man.. stop telling me what to do, say or how to say it. You are not wearing a badge... that shit must be earned π
I like your method Shellshocker. The words are a little patronizing within those flipped script posts, yet that wasn't necessarily consciously intended or very noticeable to many. You're one of the Cancers here who have me thinking and it's not the first time you've done it either, I like that. π
Thanks Claro... i'm humbled π
@ZenBear... I'm not angry at all. I thought I would re-word her comment so she could see how her words could also be viewed as a smack in the face. Hers were unconscious... mine were conscious
and seriously little man.. stop telling me what to do, say or how to say it. You are not wearing a badge... that shit must be earned π
click to expandIf you're gonna be rude to my friend, then I'm going to call you out on it, and I dont need a fucking badge to do it.
Is this what takes place when theres a whole lot of different crabs in a barrel. Cant you all just get along.
Just trying to make you guys smile. You cant cut the tension around here with a knife its so thick .....whew
Good lawd!! π
Posted by lindavi20
Wow..Are you guys really this angry right now? I'm a virgo... but this doesn't express a virgo's cold, cold world. Ouch! Love ya'll but lighten up. Shit and emotions happen.. gotta learn to grow and adapt in the motions... I know that ya'll are good at that. Dig deep and find the happy place. You know it's there. I just saw the happy lovey side of everyone for the last 2 months. What's tearing at the heartstrings?I actually thought this ^^^was rather condescending. Coming in to say people have no basis for their emotions is the height of rude. Calling people immature because they expressed something opposite to the perceived standard worldly text connotes condescension and criticism because the world is not in agreement with you.
Shellshocker is right to retort as she did.
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I called shellshocker immature not because she disagrees with "the perceived standard etcetcetc" but because she was intentionally rude to someone who clearly doesn't understand that her own words could be perceived as rude. You can disagree without insult, it's not hard. I insulted her only in retaliation to her aggression towards a friend.
So I agree, shellshocker was right to retort. I disagree that she was right to retort AS SHE DID.
Posted by Crabmoon
Hi Zen π
Lol, hi crab. π
Alrighty, I'm done with this debate. My apologies for the insults, my protective instincts took over.
Woops, broke my own rule about apologies. π
I'll just say I'm sorry for the insults, and leave it at that.
I
wOw.. is this ever a virgo thing to say...
My Cancer version..
Wow.. are you really this flippant and obtuse right now? I'm a Cancer... and your comment sure lacks emotion. Ouch! love you guys, but I have to remember that Virgos say stupid stuff all the time. you just have to learn to ignore. Analyze all i have written, and figure out what I'm trying to say to you. Think hard, I know it's there.
The Cancers will let you know when the happy lovey side comes back... so you can be more comfortable with them
@lindavi20: We get angry, and we need to vent it. Don't take the "cold virgo world" comment personally, it's just irrational emotions talking not anything genuine or serious.
@shellshocker: I get you're angry but don't take it out on lindavi20. She was actually trying to cheer yall bitches up, and you smacked her in the face. Don't be immature.
@OP: I know what you mean about the "nice guy" syndrome and all that BS. I hate it too. Not in a bad enough mood right now to yell and scream and cuss about it, but I get there often enough and I may come back to this thread at a later date to do just that.
@ZenBear... I'm not angry at all. I thought I would re-word her comment so she could see how her words could also be viewed as a smack in the face. Hers were unconscious... mine were conscious
and seriously little man.. stop telling me what to do, say or how to say it. You are not wearing a badge... that shit must be earned π
click to expandI do apologize. I was not trying to be hateful and I meant no offense. Have whatever opinion of a virgo you want. As for my post, I was more noticing a shift in behavior in cancer threads lately in general. I'm not uncomfortable with the negativity, just trying to bring a little lightness and cheer into the room. I hate seeing people sad or unhappy. Realize that not everyone is out to get you.
"flippant and obtruse", huh? lol.. Have to say I've never been called that one before. I realize I did sound a little like a space cadet..guess that's what happens when you mix wine and dxp.
.Zen- You know
Zen- You know me well enough to understand my intentions. Thanks for defending me. You know what they say though.. "opinions are like assholes.. everybody's got one."
Ohai. Crab rage whoo. This thread turned out fun π
Lindavi - I personally wasn't offended by what you said, my shell is back up and stuff just bounces off. I can, however, see how it could have been offensive, and I think serves as a prime example for how crabs get hurt. A lot of times people either don't care, or don't realize they've said something hurtful. Crabs notice it every time - nothing slips by us in the ways of emotional manipulation.
I still
Posted by zosopage17
With women. That is mother fucking ALL.Keep reading this:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/scorpio-women-3374493/
It's easy to lose perspective. This might help a little.You'll be alright. π
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Oh Jesus. You really tryin' to send my face back to that thread? LOL. It's gotten progressively worse buddy, to be honest. Now it's affecting my time with the kids, which is why I am RAGING.
BUT - I am NOT going into detail so don't even ask.
Thanks homie. I'm gettin a bottle of Jack tonight and gonna pound that shit to my face. Yeah...sounds nice, maybe write some music - play some games. I'm excited.
I'm waiting for my basketball league to start up - that'll be fun.
Best. Picture. Ever.
Posted by Crabmoon
All of us can be markes at some point, it is human nature. We can try to avoid it most of the time, but come on, we all get out of the line sometimes.
I agree. I really didn't mean it in an inconsiderate way. Thoughtless on my part. Guess I had better check myself better next time. lol
Posted by zosopage17
Lindavi - I personally wasn't offended by what you said, my shell is back up and stuff just bounces off. I can, however, see how it could have been offensive, and I think serves as a prime example for how crabs get hurt. A lot of times people either don't care, or don't realize they've said something hurtful. Crabs notice it every time - nothing slips by us in the ways of emotional manipulation.I still
See, this is what I like about you guys. Honesty. Very good points... and I agree.. cheers! Though my words may have sounded critical, I genuinely didn't mean to hurt or offended, but I did. I have a lot of respect for a crabs ability to feel and express so much. I have my own shell that is good to come out of, learn and grow. We live, we learn.
Now I'm going to drink a cold brew, just not while I'm commenting on dxp. lol
Its a "Virgo world" LOL meaning.... its a cold, cold world out there....
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As ice so dress warm boo. π
rar
You're still young.
When you grow a little bit older, you will learn that the right thing to do is to be an ass. To hit it and quit it, to lie, to cheat, to steal. Be the worst version of yourself, and they will love you for it.
You have all the best qualities of yesteryear. They are worthless today. The sooner you learn that, the happier you will be. Make a girl cry occasionally, smack a bitch once in a while. Who cares you would hate it? Its not about you! stop being so selfish. give the people what they want.
Posted by BommyKnocker
You're still young.When you grow a little bit older, you will learn that the right thing to do is to be an ass. To hit it and quit it, to lie, to cheat, to steal. Be the worst version of yourself, and they will love you for it.
You have all the best qualities of yesteryear. They are worthless today. The sooner you learn that, the happier you will be. Make a girl cry occasionally, smack a bitch once in a while. Who cares you would hate it? Its not about you! stop being so selfish. give the people what they want.
^^^Geez *backs out of thread slowly*
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With women. That is mother fucking ALL.