How long does cancer men take to be exclusive?

We have good connections, most of our values, attitude and humor are very similar. We can talk for 6 hrs straight easily on all dates.

Been on 6 dates over 2 months, we are not physical and haven't been to each other's place. The most intimate thing we've ever done is kissing and cuddling.

Personally this is too far in for me to go and date other guys, is this pace normal for cancer men? or is that too slow?

@LunarGuidance

We met on a website, he told me he is looking for a long term relationship before we met up. We have defined our intentions.

Does level of stress and therapy count as personal issues? if so yes he does talk about that, he also talks about his family and friends. When I talked about mine at the beginning he would ask me what you like about them? Going by your check list he seems to be a positive cancer man.

He hasn't invited me to his place yet as he is moving next week and he was staying with his parents temporarily when we met. He told me I will meet his house mate. I take it as an invite?

Can you elaborate about the going off the radar for a few days? when you guys do that do you only hide from the girl you are dating? or everyone?

Yes I do allow him space, once we were talking about a text he thought he replied. he scrolled up and notice he didn't, then he also notice he once took 4 days to text back and he immediately apologized a few times to me. That's when he reveal his stress level issue.

Agree, LunarGuidance's post is pretty solid and spot on. The going off radar thing is how we deal with stress or attend to other things in our life you may not know about. In general it may be from everyone but sometimes we'll just hang with a best friend or someone unrelated to the situation or family. Even in that case we may not discuss what's bothering us, just get our thoughts off of things (it depends on how the crab deals with his stress).

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Agree, LunarGuidance's post is pretty solid and spot on. The going off radar thing is how we deal with stress or attend to other things in our life you may not know about. In general it may be from everyone but sometimes we'll just hang with a best friend or someone unrelated to the situation or family. Even in that case we may not discuss what's bothering us, just get our thoughts off of things (it depends on how the crab deals with his stress).

I pretty good at giving him space but some of his behavior made me had doubts like may be he took offence to some of the things I said?

He posted a funny picture with adult joke humor, when he texted me he make sure I know he posted it. I liked his photo. I also posted something, I commented on my phone with a tag for him. I responded to his text teased him a little bit, I know he is busy so I wasn't expecting a quick reply. however I saw him online multiple times yesterday and he even posted a new photo. it gave me the impression he had time but just choose not to reply?

28 years!

Honestly, I don't think it takes a Cancer man very long to commit at all if he's totally crazy about you. If not, he'll play games or whatever, maybe for years, until he realizes he does want you...

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Posted by Luxhc
Honestly, I don't think it takes a Cancer man very long to commit at all if he's totally crazy about you. If not, he'll play games or whatever, maybe for years, until he realizes he does want you...

True but...
If he is not crazy about you he will never commit.

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He might if he reaches desperation, but it probably won't last long. I mean, I was going to say that but then I decided it might be harsh. There is this astrology book "He's Just Not in the Stars" that seems to sum it up pretty well. Still, yes in my experience Cancer men are totally quick to commit.

2 months and no sex and he is still around. What is the problem here? its obvious that he is into you... Stop over analyzing