Well first off; why do you want this cancer so badly and "wrapped around your finger?"
I wouldn't really know what to say about if cancers love to be chased or not at all. Me personally I like a girl when she makes me work for the relationship or whatever. Do you even know what his 3 year relationship girl looks like? Because for all you know the girl at your friends house that he was with could be her and he probably couldnt be over the break up. Most cancers tend to hold onto things. If it sounds like I'm bad-mouthing, let me reassure you I'm not; I'm just trying to get some facts straightened out before I give a solid answer or something close to solid hah.
Well, I have a cancer rising and I attract cancer men like crazy. Have a nice boobs and know how to cook, also be a lil shy and your genuine self. It's been like bees to honey. Though they aren't the ones I'm after😉
Sag89 has a good point to what she's getting at. But remember not all cancer guys act like cancer guys if that makes sense haha. For instance I like it when a girl lets me know right off the bat that she likes me and isnt scared about it. I don't mind a fast pace relationship as long as the L bomb isn't dropped within a year's period haha. I also like to go out more to eat than stay at home and have a girl cook for me. I mean I appreciate a good meal and all but I don't want my girl slaving away so we can eat. Let me spoil her and take her out!
But BA you shouldn't have much trouble with getting your cancer boy to like you. Just turn on the charm we all know you have and you should be set 😉
if his mom was diagnosed with cancer give him space [not too much - he'll need some comfort] but cancers are usually very close to their mothers - it's probably easier for him to deal with easy going relationships like his friends right now than try to start a serious relationship with someone new while he's stressed out about his mom [priority # 1]. Bad timing, but trust me, his mother's illness trumps everything else in his life right now. Be patient with him. God forbid his mother doesn't get better - he may never recover, and I mean that quite seriously.
And some general advice - if a cancer invites you to meet his mother, never decline. They care what their mothers think and they'll care if you like their mother too.
IDK about the whole, cook for him thing. A lot of the Cancer men I know prefer to do the cooking, and many other domestic things. They like to treat their women like Queens.
This is very true! LOL, thats why I love cancer men 😄 I mean, I like to do domestic things too but its nice to have a guy that knows how to do it without screwing everything up LOL.
wow I haven't posted on here for awhile... im to lazy to read all this. How to catch a cancer? pfft I dunno be interested but not to interested. We go crazy over the unknown. Give us a taste of your beauty. Let him call you. I hate the chase... but I would rather have me doing all the work then her annoying me and calling me all the time. Every once in while is cool tho! Just make sure you have something to talk about. bc just talking about how the weather sucks or how you can't sleep and have awkward silences every few minutes is really annoying. text if your going to talk about stupid crap imo. And MAYYYBe I??ll text back. God bless.
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I wouldn't really know what to say about if cancers love to be chased or not at all. Me personally I like a girl when she makes me work for the relationship or whatever. Do you even know what his 3 year relationship girl looks like? Because for all you know the girl at your friends house that he was with could be her and he probably couldnt be over the break up. Most cancers tend to hold onto things. If it sounds like I'm bad-mouthing, let me reassure you I'm not; I'm just trying to get some facts straightened out before I give a solid answer or something close to solid hah.
-SMiLES