I AM CRABLESS!!!

Hello i'm a taurus girl and need help with a cancer. I met my cancer friend about a year ago but we live about 2 hours drive from each other, we get together now and then, he always begs me to come see him, so anyway the last time i go there:

He hugs me tight and tells me he's missed me. Everything seems cool but he keeps looking at me with this cold, kinda psycho stare which gives me the chills but at the same time excites me (what the hell is that?)...during this time he makes comments about how other men must find me attractive and when the last time i slept with someone was. I tell him that he was the last time (which is true) and he shrugs his shoulders like he wouldn't of cared anyway. He then tells me to come to bed. We then make love...well i make love to him while he just kinda lays there watching me with that cold stare, i almost expect him to pick up a bag of cheetos..LOL! Before you say it, i'm a taurus female and have no problems in the bedroom department! so i ask him why he's holding back on me and he looks at me like i'm stupid and asks what the hell i'm talking about. After about 15 minutes he decides to put his back into it and so that bits great!!!!

The next morning we get up, i say goodmorning and he kinda grunts goodmorning back. He gets up and 5 minutes later is gone out the house without a word. I wait for about 20 minutes and there's still no sign of him, so i get out the bed and look out the window...OMG - he is in his backyard cleaning...OK WHAT THE HELL? u leave a sexy female who you couldn't wait to see in your bed and you get up 10 in the morning to clean...have i missed something? I'm not gonna lie..i was feeling he wanted me out his house, so i decided to get dressed and leave. He comes in about 15 minutes later and asks where i'm going and i say i got go do a few things and he gets upset asking me why im in such a rush. He asks me to stay, so i do but then he doesn't speak to me again and spends that time ignoring me and cleaning the house...OK, I"M ABOUT TO TAKE THE MOP AND SMASH HIM OVER THE HEAD! I decide i really cant do this and make some excuse up of why i have to leave, he comes to the door and hugs and kisses me and tells me to be good and make sure i call. On the drive home i'm really pissed and decide to call him back and explain how i feel and that i love him but can't deal with his moods...to that he replies WHATEVER!

Someone please tell me what the hell is going on?

LOl venus lady that was a funny story, im sure u dont find it funny though. But ill go ahead with what u said

"OK, I"M ABOUT TO TAKE THE MOP AND SMASH HIM OVER THE HEAD! "

Just do it.

MercinAries:

Thanks for your comments but unfortunately they were of no help except to state the obvious....uh duh! But I am sensing a slight crabbiness coming from your direction...are you sure that you are not in need of some taurus action in the bedroom department?? LOL!

😄

MercinAries:

Uh Duh! My point exactly...we all know us bulls need to be fulfilled in the bedroom department or else we become snappy...multiply that with a touch of a crab ascendant and what do you get? ANSWER: someone you never want to meet!!!! LOL!!

So is it just a snappy, crabby day today or are you always like that? hahaha

MercinAries:

LOLOLOLOLOL!!!!

Welcome to the world of females! 😄

*oh and leave the cheetos out of this...now your getting personal✨

Hell yeah its going to get interesting....Taurus v Taurus...damn we should sell tickets...not sure we should be using the cancer board as our venue though!!!!

*Venuslady smiles while she munches on some cheetos*

He sounds a bit neglectful....check for a cap or virgo moon or rising. He also seems like a morning person that likes to get up and get things done early in the am. I'm like that myself although i would NEVER leave a fine piece of booty in the bed unattended to.

I have since sent him an email(yeah..i know i got it bad...there's just something about you little crabs that keeps me coming back for more!). I asked him if we were still friends to which he replied "yeah...of course we are", i then asked him how he was and he never responded. Since then he has not initiated contact. That was last week! Does this mean he's over? I'm a taurus and need to know straight up where i stand...it kills me when you leave me guessing! I NEED CLOSURE AND HE'S NOT GIVING ME ANY! Is there any way of getting you little crabs to say whats on your mind?

Fantastic.. another defective crab giving the good ones a bad name..

just whack him over the head and tell him to snap out of it and stop being a little punk ass bitch.

WTF.. get up at 10 AM to clean with a girl in your bed.. when this happens you know the world is taking a turn for the worse..

And whats up with not giving it 100% in the sack? It's OK venuslady, unlike some, certain crabs do go to great lengths to satisfy their partners..

He is just in it for the sex. But that cold stare, he sounds mad about soMetHingggg and if that's true you may never know OR just think back to the dumbest little thing you did that made him snap slightly, he hasn't let it go lol

Venuslady, I am really sorry that you are going through this right now. Yes I know it can literrally drive you crazy and make you want to hit them lol, it reminds me of my cancer man everything is a mystery, and it's hard to get them to open up and tell you what's wrong with them. I know he makes you want to come back for more, imagine me who is also a cancer always trying to figure out what's wrong always trying to talk and ask questions but you have to give them their time. Give him some time, he's probably going through one of his crabby moments, we all have them eventually once you stop contacting him, he will call and may try to express to you what was really wrong. And then once he tells you, it will probably be something so minor and you're response would probably be "oh my god, that's it why didn't you tell me". Some cancer men find it hard to express themselves, which can drive you crazy, but at the same time they will expect you to understand and no matter what forgive them for their reactions So give him time, he will call trust me. Whatever you do don't contact him it may be hard but trust me he will wonder why you stop initiating. Good Luck!

Giving him the benefit of the doubt, although not normal, maybe he was just trying to get stuff done and thought it was polite to let you sleep in. Hmmm.... As for being a lazy partner, zip him up with some caffeine next time! Ha-Ha!

He obviously liked you if he left you in the house to rest. He could have told you to get ya ass out! 🙂 Try not to figure out these "crabby" males. Just go with the flow...He seems nice enough. Although game playing seems to be prevalent with these creatures.