im afraid.

Hi there;

is there anyone that can give me a hand with this??
he is driving me mad; seems like we both madly in love;
and now that we are away for 3 weeks but we speak a lot and sms a lot; but i would like to know if we
are compatible before i get too involved and end up hurt.
in the biginning he was cool and even acted like he liked other guys checkin me out, and now he started
sayin that he is falling for me qnd everyday he tells me that he loves me, but now heis very possossive and sort of controling, not in a negative way YET,
but in a way that seems like when i get back he will all over me and wanting me all for himself.
thank u a million

ME......
Planetary positionsplanet sign degree motion
Sun Taurus 29??58'25 in house 1 direct
Moon Sagittarius 23??18'09 in house 8 direct
Mercury Gemini 21??34'48 in house 2 direct
Venus Gemini 11??25'55 in house 2 direct
Mars Taurus 19??06'06 in house 1 direct
Jupiter Libra 0??30'40 in house 5 retrograde
Saturn Libra 3??11'08 in house 5 retrograde
Uranus Scorpio 28??01'26 in house 7 retrograde
Neptune Sagittarius 24??07'15 in house 8 retrograde
Pluto Libra 21??59'20 in house 6 retrograde
True Node Leo 3??33'33 in house 3 retrograde


HIM......
Planetary positionsplanet sign degree motion
Sun Cancer 1??24'24 in house 12 direct
Moon Leo 13??58'23 in house 1 direct
Mercury Cancer 12??37'56 in house 12 retrograde
Venus Taurus 26??46'17 in house 10 direct
Mars Leo 8??42'37 in house 1 direct
Jupiter Pisces 17??32'01 in house 8 direct
Saturn Cancer 7??23'04 in house 12 direct
Uranus Libra 23??41'32 in house 3 retrograde
Neptune Sagittarius 7??36'58 in house 5 retrograde
Pluto Libra 4??05'05 end of house 2 direct
True Node Sagittarius 19??23'25 in house 5 retrograde

Don't try to just grade things off of the horoscopes FragMind. If you really want to see how things are going to turn out for you two just go for it all the way. Hopefully It works out and if it doesn't oh well! And for the most part a taurus and a cancer always are compatible.

So maybe things are starting off a little rocky with the whole possessive part; honestly that's part of almost every cancer's personality. It's their way of being sure of not being hurt in the long run or whatever their deal is. It also seems he's coming on a little too strong but I can't really say much because I don't know him personally.

If you feel things are right with him, keep at it, if not; break it off before someone seriously gets hurt. May you reach the level of transcendance! 😉 Good Luck!

-Smiles 😄

lol smiles...
thank you, in fact i feel it quite strong and right, but last times that i didnt really care whatthe astros said, i smashed my head against the wall if you know what i mean.
with this guy everything is unordinary.
we met in a weird way, just for u to have an idea we saw eachother at the border, i was with a friend, on my way out and he was trying to find parking but he kept goin with the car back and forth, and i wanted to cross the street, so i made i sign as in either go back or forth but make up your mind so that i can cross, and he looked at me appologized and i walked, got in the car and left, funny enought when me and my friend got to the toll gate ther ws a note waiting for me and the toll gate was already paid, the note had a number and said: to the girl that gave me shit, of course i sent a msg thanking for payin the toll gte and we started changing msgs, it went on all night and the first thing i had n my cell teh next morning was a good morning msg, everything was perfect and sweet, till 3 days later when he sort of dissapeared, didnt return my calls nor msgs, mean while a friend of mine which i trusted a lot told me that she had met him and he was after her and painted a really dark picture of him based on information she got about him, so if he was after her i was hurt, but ok, but things didnt feel right to my gut so i called him to tell him that it was ok that he wanted my friend but i coldnt understand why suddenly he wouldnt talk to me, to my surprise, he was really upset with me cause that "friend" of mine didnt meet him randomly, she actually went after him and told a whole bunch of shit about me, including that i was a droggy...so he was upset with me for what he heard n i was upset with him for the same reason, and because of the same person...teh so called friend.
after that day, which has been over a month ago, we have been speaking and smsing everyday non stop, we live about 20 minutes away from eachother but still we didnt really get to see eachother 2 weeks after we started talkin and we were together for a bit but almost jump into eachother pants.
i had to travel for 3 weeks, im very far from him now😢
and we still talk everyday, goodnight msgs before falling asleep and good morning msgs first thing in the morning from him, so he started calling m his girlfriend and down the line he said he was falling for me and now he loves me.
in teh beggining i thought he wanted to fuck around, but the night before i le

ouch....i know its long...promise its almost finished


so the night before i left we were supposed to see eachoter, but sems like whenever we want to be together something happens, so we were just writig msgs and saying how much we wanted to be with eachother, and i said :imagine what we could be doin if we had managed to be together tonight and his reply was, i cant stop thnking about it, but i will wait for u and i dont mind not being able not to make love with u tonight cause im lovong gettin to know you better.
so resuming if u can call it that, he calls me a lot, sends me about 50 msgs a day, of course i return the msgs hehehe i spend more time typing on the phone than actualling enjoyin my trip, and he is always worried of what im doin, who im with, the other day one of the colleagues that i met in the training i came invited me for lunch and let me tell you my boy wants happy at all, which is funny cause before we got all lovie birdie with eachother he gav me teh speech..i liek other guys checkin u out and wanting u and im not jealous, but now he says taht he loves me too much and he doesnt want anyone around me.
so im a little confused, crabs are famous for being honest right? and he says he only says what he thinks and feels and that even if he know i want to hear something he wont say it if he doesnt feel it, so im confused, he is 7 years older than me, and all his exes are like top models something that im surely im not, but he says he is crazy for me and he will not do shit, and even if someone sends him msgs or calls him he tells me ( he is a very wanted man) which is flattering but atthe same time scary.
im fallin for him, he says he loves me, but you know when u havethe feeling thats just too good to be true?? well thats how i feel.
another thing, i just got '" divorced"and he was already thinking in finding a car cause he thought that the car i drove was my exes which is not and today he started alkin about finding me an apartment around the area he lives for me and my daughter...its not like he offers to pay for the things but its like he didnt even have sex with me and is already so into things isnt that strange or crabs are like that—

geee sorry for such long and boring post..but i will soon flit if i cant figure him out cause i just came out of a 5 years relationship with a daughter as result and now this crab making all this promises and sayin that he loves me...its scary

whats your opinion—

Well first off with what you said; Crabs are notorious for naturally being generous especially if we have the means to be. It does seem like he wants to be with you genuinely but it still feels like he's coming on way too strong. I say give it a little more time but like I said before I don't know the man personally to be completely honest. Yes, crabs are really honest people when we want to be or have to be. Honest all around for the most part.

But it seeing as to how you two are truly starting to get all lovie dovie who knows, he possibly is straight edge about everything he's saying and truly feeling. Most cancers are famous for going for what they want. And it seems he really wants to be with you so not trying to read too much into but it may seem fast to you but to him, it's the perfect speed.

I know in my explanation I'm jumping from this to that but if you're somewhat getting what I'm saying than that works LOL.

But like I have mentioned before, if you truly feel this is right go for it. If not bag it up before it gets out of hand.

-Smiles

thank u a million heheh and thanks for having the patience to read all that heheheheh
well, i guess im so into him that there isnt much i can do neh??
are crabs really really possessive? cause im known as a perty animal i wilddddddddddd animal and he already hinted at wanting me all for himself as in most probably me wanting to be with crazy friends its not really an idea that appels to him so much so that one of the days we were supposed to see eachother and he wanted me to drive to his area which as i said is far from mine and im driving around with NO license, i said i was goin to see my friends and he got really pissed off....geee i thought i was the one person in all my relationships that jumped straight inn in a relation shit and got involved easily, now...im not used to deal with someone as or more emotional than me, he is the sort of guy that wants my attentin all for him, and if we are talkin on skype and i take a bit longer to reply either cause i dont see the msg or cause im busy he gets upset and switches off his phone and skype...arent girls supposed to be like that —
heheheh

Yeah its normally cancer trait to be somewhat possessive but im not possessive at all, I completely understand the want to party and have fun and not worry about the jealousy factor. But than again im not your usual cancer. I love to party too hah.

But maybe wth your cancer guy is just too used to being the center of attention. Just train him 😉

If its one thing we are an adaptable folk and learn fast. So train him. Im not going to lie I've been trained in some mannerisms such as holding out on being so honest haha.

But yeah its no thing to answer your questions!

-Smiles

smiles, you're such a sweetheart!

to the OP - you guys have a venus/mars conjunction. this is gonna be hot! just enjoy it and ignore his strange ways.

hey LL....
thank you so much.... but as in being hot what do u mean?
strange ways?? u can say that again...
just today, one minute he is telling me how much he likes me n misses me and askin me to spend a weekend with him in an unknown destination telling me its goin to be a surprise, the next minute he is telling me how hard it is to trust me and asking me if i have been sleepin around while im away for 3 weeks and the next minute he stops talkin to me...as simple as that...im being ignored just cause i said that him asking me if i have been with other guy was stupid!!!!
im a bit complicated as a person but this guys just drives me nutts...
but the energy between us its scary u know... we have literaly been together once... no sex involved; unfortunately, not that we didnt want was just that there was no oportunity...
its likeone minute heis boiling hot, all over me, the seconf after... he just gets hurt or upset with something that he is the only one who feels and just ignores me.


WRF!!!

and yes ...smilies is a sweetheart!

LoL you two are going to make me blush now..

what i meant about it being hot - venus/mars aspects in a chart point to sexual attraction and compatibility. the conjunction is the strongest, most insistent aspect. this is why it's gonna be hot! however, you should be careful because the conjunction can go either way - things can turn sour because it's so strong. google it for more, there's a lot out there.

what i mean about his strange ways - him being hot and cold about stuff is quite cancerian. it's a combination of mood swings and insecurity. unfortunately it's up to you to be the cool one and show him you can handle it. you have to show him constant love and attention and reassure him that you're not seeing anyone else (which i assume you're not). it takes a long time to build up trust with this sign but once you've done it, they'll trust you forever. good luck!

smiles, you know we love ya!

im goin mad....
is the need of constant reasurance normal??
is he being needy and insecure or they used to have thinsg done they way and everyone always willing to please them—
geeeeeeeeeee

Well it seems like your cancer guy fits the average cancerian male persona. The insecurity, the manipulation, all the neediness.

Im just happy to say I'm not like that. But than again I'm not your average cancer male. 😛

At least I do my best to be an individual.

-Smiles

Oh well..thank u guys for all the help and courage to go for it...i have posted the update of the situation...on the thread "silence treatment"...all the insight and opinions would be most welcome...

Smilies...really need your opinion!!! plz plz plz plz

Lol alright I'll see what I can do

-Smiles

😢