im seriously considering...

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JJ141214
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10 Years

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Ok ....here we go...I have this other Cancer ' friend' who is a cutie... I think he is really interested in me..... his eyes light up eveytime he speaks to me .....wont try to kiss or suggest sex.... gets really shy around me and I asked him out for a date (flats out) he said yes..... reason for this madness.... the cancer man I'm really crazy in love with is playing too many emotional games ....it hurts.... I not sure anymore which way are we heading with the I love U ...silence.....I miss you .silence....and I thought of having a plan b .to distract me from the pain.... thoughts on this....I'm not trying to play with cancer b feelings ....as I'm open to whatever may happen... and Cancer b already knows about cancer a and tells me he is a d@#ck....but cancer A will never know about Cancer B ....

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StarChild63
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I think it'll be good for you but if you're crazy in love it might actually do more harm than good. If cancer b doesn't meet up to the standards, feelings or good times of cancer a then you will feel more alone and more pain and more frustration. Plus you might end up hurting cancer b. And what if cancer a really does love you and want you then finds out about cancer b then decides to cut you off for good?Either stop talking to people and give yourself time to heal, cut cancer a off and get closure from that, or explain what's going on to cancer a and see what you two can work out between the two of you and try to aim higher.