im curious to know...

Are cancer influence at all by "sexual" text to sort of het coax out of his shell— I have always been curious because I like sending texted like that I know it would get me out of any mood ...but I never dare to send to my cancer man because he is very sensitive— Please share your feelings toward this sort of thing..._

**coax him out

I don't know but I don't think so because cancers have more of a richer appetite, nothing fast and quick or cheap.

You two haven't given up yet? You have to face the fact your Cancer men seen something in you they didn't like and they are gone like a fart in the wind.

My boyfriends ex used to flash her boobs during their fb video calling sessions towards the end of their breakup. She tried every possible thing to keep him. From phone sex to nudes to chocolate chip banana cookies. She chased him for 8 months like this. Nothing worked on him. Once he is gone, he is gone.He was just nice to her but not interested in dating her. They were done. You have got to know when to stop chasing a guy.

Also he will text her like once in 2-3 months to check how she is doing. He told me that does not mean he wants to get back.

Also he said "even if I don't get to marry you, I will definitely not marry her".

Well well look here.....he responded with 'I LOVE YOU ' to my ' reminder of sex ' text ...haha....just be yourself with a cancer ...as a scorpio girl ....it comes natural to me ...so there!! there is a way after all to break the silence ....LOL

Break the code people!!! LOL

Posted by joon
My boyfriends ex used to flash her boobs during their fb video calling sessions towards the end of their breakup. She tried every possible thing to keep him. From phone sex to nudes to chocolate chip banana cookies. She chased him for 8 months like this. Nothing worked on him. Once he is gone, he is gone.He was just nice to her but not interested in dating her. They were done. You have got to know when to stop chasing a guy.
Also he will text her like once in 2-3 months to check how she is doing. He told me that does not mean he wants to get back.
Also he said "even if I don't get to marry you, I will definitely not marry her".

i just don't believe this quote. Lots of men are never ready but if they want to be with a woman bad enough, they will be ready "together" working together to get there.

or find a woman who is willing and/or courageous enough to stand by him and tell him she's not leaving and will be with him so they can both be ready.

joon...that's what he told you...

I dunno about a man but for me, no. It would be like a cheap ploy and turn me off. Being real and honest with your feelings would coax me outta my shell.

What's not real about making love — ??

How is "sexting" or sending nudes making love? That is just pseudo sex and sometimes words are more powerful at getting your message across. What is his Venus and Mercury in?

It wasn't sexting... a message saying " you want love ? Lets make it??" no nudes.... how do I find his venus and mercury—

Posted by JJ141214
It wasn't sexting... a message saying " you want love ? Lets make it??" no nudes.... how do I find his venus and mercury—

you need his birthdate, -time and place. go to grupovenus and you'll find a lot of interesting stuff there

Alabe.com

Posted by Stihl46
You two haven't given up yet? You have to face the fact your Cancer men seen something in you they didn't like and they are gone like a fart in the wind.

Hit point

Mine still like :-p

Posted by JJ141214
Mine still like :-p

Scorpios never give up or deter when it comes to Cancers(And generally). That's what I like about them.

@Namy thank ...bit we are very stubborn and persistent ..Especially if we love ...we love fiercely and passionately and even though we may be prideful in so many ways love is not one of them..... we get what we want... not because we are special but because we persevere like no other ...and with passion ??_

I didnt send nude...There is a way to excite him sexually without being raunchy ....all based on how deep was your love making ....(which our was like a religious experience) no joke .....so the emotions connected to anything sexual we had had runs deep... and our feelings are very strong..... so strong even I get scared...... so reminding him of that safe heaven we have .think helped coaxing him out of his silence......

So whatever you did worked?

Who knows but I broke the silence and I got what I wanted to hear the most.... That he loves me ...that's good enough for me and helps me to have patience ??_

Ok good for you 😉

as a cancer I hate suggestive texts and sexual texts - your mind, emotions and adult communication are the turn on to me sexual texts remind me of men who cant deal with emotions and feelings

could just be me though as I have a lot of air in me

Posted by JJ141214
Who knows but I broke the silence and I got what I wanted to hear the most.... That he loves me ...that's good enough for me and helps me to have patience ??_

I get that....at least you're having fun..not confused or Sad. The way you feel now, definitely better.