is he testing?

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pixielove
@pixielove
9 Years

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Hi guys,

So I'd like to share with you all my story and ask for your advice. I have been dating my cancer man for the last three years. He has a great man who has helped me come a long ways. I was in a very bad relationship before him and getting together with him has made me realize that I had many unresolved issues from the past.To keep the story short- we broke one time a year ago but he waited for me while I took care of myself during the time we were not together. So recently we broke up again due to repeating the same things of my past.I pushed him and he said i really needed to heal and take care of me before anything else. He said when im ready I can contact him. After five months I finally called but he didnt answer and im sure he saw my call then i texted him after a week he still did not answer though i saw he had seen my msg.

I am also known for reacting, for getting all panicky and calling million times if he does not answer so I am wondering if this is what he is doing.Testing to see if i will react and start bomb calling and messaging him.

I also know him being blunt. I know for a fact that hed tell me to move on if he does not want to be with me.

Help please.

I really dont want to push him again to lose even the slimmest chance I might have.