Let Me Experience My Emotions

Im trying to figure out how to word this so I can get my point across.....
Do cancer males like to experience i.e live through their partners emotions?
For instance...if your happy then do they mimick that emotion and it creates happiness for them? If you are sad...does that cause for them to be sad as well?
You ever had a man stare deep inside your eyes and think hmmm .....whats he looking for....?Its like hes trying to "See You"...trying to see whats really going on. Sometimes, it seems to be invasive. Its like....get outta my head, get outta my emotions and let me experience them already. Its almost as if they react quicker to change then you do.
Sigh...maybe im just sleepy or maybe I need to start wearing sunglasses around the house.

It gets worse, they cause massive emotional outbursts in you to enjoy it like emotional vampires. Cancer guys are dangerous, they fuck with you at a whole new level.

Now see...I would probably actually like that in some twisted deranged way. Ill go as deep as he wants to go. I dont like shallow emotions. Theres something about some men that make u stand up and notice. Some hidden facet of their whole persona that just screams ill take u there. Ive found this mostly in water men. Im not talking some kiddie ride that costs two fifty cents pieces to ride. Oh no...im talking the ride of a lifetime.
On second thought...ill leave the sunglasses off.

I guess what im saying too is can a cancer men handle other peoples emotions well? Or, are they so bogged down with their own emotional webs? For instance, ive had some male friends that love to "feel" They like feeling "alive". Good or bad emotions, they just like to experience the depth, the passion of that emotion. Love, hate, wraith, etc...

Cancer men will help you rationalize your emotions, it's their own emotions in love they may have problems dealing with appropriately.

I tend to feel the uneasiness of this mind reading with Scorpios. I know my Cancer does it but he's more subtle, more relaxed about it, so I don't feel threatened, I just feel understood and acknowledged. In my experience, scorpios have to let you know you what they've "taken" from you instead of just letting it be. I don't mind having my emotions read, but why be so freakin' obvious about it?lol Anyway I love that my Cancer does this, there is something very freeing and soothing about that telepathic connection...I feel it deeply and it's like crawling into a warm cocoon. My body automatically starts leaning towards him and I feel very safe.

Hahaha I will say that the only time his reading me bothers me, is when I'm trying to hide something...*one eyebrow raised*lol Like if something hurtful about my past comes up, he'll watch me very carefully and try and coax out my emotions (I usually become very stoic). Making me very nervous and irritable. One time I snapped at him "Can I be?! Can I live?! Damn!!". Really hurt his feelings 😢

Yes it can be invasive, but so is sex, so is love. Intimacy is invasive *shrugs*

Its exactly as u described Rose. I try to hide those emotions and he just watches me carefully. Then he gets hurt if I try to keep those emotions from him. He really is the sweetest thing I have ever met. Ive never experienced a man like him before, he is very very into his mate.

Incandesant...u are right about the rationaliztion. He does this for everything. Im more of a "it was meant to be" kinda girl and theres not always an answer. He does very well with his feelings in love. He told me" i love you within six weeks of dating." He says it alll the time. The man loves being in love. The more I give the more he gives back and the more I give him. Its a nice cycle.

Posted by coldwater
Now see...I would probably actually like that in some twisted deranged way. Ill go as deep as he wants to go. I dont like shallow emotions. There's something about some men that make u stand up and notice. Some hidden facet of their whole persona that just screams ill take u there.... I'm not talking some kiddie ride that costs two fifty cents pieces to ride. Oh no...i'm talking the ride of a lifetime.
On second thought...ill leave the sunglasses off.

This is golden! Luv it.

Posted by coldwater

Incandesant...u are right about the rationaliztion. He does this for everything. Im more of a "it was meant to be" kinda girl and theres not always an answer. He does very well with his feelings in love. He told me" i love you within six weeks of dating." He says it alll the time. The man loves being in love. The more I give the more he gives back and the more I give him. Its a nice cycle.

Cancers love the game more than the players.

I can see the man is not stupid by any means, but neither am I. I can see him watching me watch him.