Please help me with a cancer man...Very interested

He is a little older than me...What turns them on? should I take more of the lead? I want to know what makes their blood BOIL! Hehe. Don't be affraid to be candid with me 🙂

I can't speak for the rest of the cancer men here, but I will say bubbly women make me very nervous.

You can't get a cancer man on a whim, but you sure as hell can lose one on a whim.

Subtle + sensual are your key words.

Well you're a Leo so taking the lead should be pretty easy. For some reason we seem to be attracted to them like no other sign. Be yourself. Your true self. If you are bossy then be bossy. They tend to see through fronts. I think alot of them are psychic on some level.

Getting him is very easy. Trying to keep him is another story altogether. He is going to run away at some point. He can't help it. I hope you are ready for that. It really hurts. We tend to get our feelings hurt rather easily.

If you post his birthday , we could probably offer more assistance.

Thank you Nala13 =) I feel I am already being to pushy (my leo side) and he said it doesn't bother him at all. He is just incredibly slow..He tells me how beautiful I am and I need to be patient..I told him I was going to back off for a bit because I can be bossy..He said "well if you feel thats what you need to do, do it but im telling you dont worry about it". Idk hes so confusing!

Just be yourself and it will work out. I don't know about others but I personally think that Cancers and Leos make a solid match. What will really warm him up is the generosity of your Leo heart. I have been in two relationships with Leo women and their generosity made me love them so much.

There is no reason for you to curb your natural instincts, this is what he will love most about you. Go do the lioness thing, partying, dancing on tables, making jokes, laughing etc. I have always loved that fresh openness about leo women. Well I do have venus in leo which might have something to do with it but I do think it's an excellent match.

You will find him to be very affectionate and above all he will listen to your problems (that's why I said be yourself, don't put on an act for him). Good luck!

Posted by incandescentcancer
Just be yourself and it will work out. I don't know about others but I personally think that Cancers and Leos make a solid match. What will really warm him up is the generosity of your Leo heart. I have been in two relationships with Leo women and their generosity made me love them so much.

There is no reason for you to curb your natural instincts, this is what he will love most about you. Go do the lioness thing, partying, dancing on tables, making jokes, laughing etc. I have always loved that fresh openness about leo women. Well I do have venus in leo which might have something to do with it but I do think it's an excellent match.

You will find him to be very affectionate and above all he will listen to your problems (that's why I said be yourself, don't put on an act for him). Good luck!

incandescentcancerp\- AWE THANK YOU!! That made my day =) I def am not changing who I am, he definitely likes that about me and even says "i can tell im going to have a lot of fun with you" He just seems a ittle back ad forth but Like i said he is a bit older than me..Ill just take my time. Thank you =)

^^Oh another piece of advice, when you get mad don't do your usual thing of blowing up, he will probably get hurt. Tell him calmly what your problem is and he will set it right (cancer men listen very well to their women). So watch out for that one!

Posted by TotalLeoChick29
He is a little older than me...What turns them on? should I take more of the lead? I want to know what makes their blood BOIL! Hehe. Don't be affraid to be candid with me 🙂

You're 29, grow up already...

@OP: This is one of those scenarios that we really need to have an excellent idea of this persons chart.

For example incandescentcancer and I are both cancer men of the same age group and yet we have categorically different characters and personalities. We both have a very different view of Cancer Man/Leo Woman relationships and we both have different tolerances to things in dating. You really need to have a better idea of this person's (probable) character before making a strategy or a plan and that's when studying this guy's birth chart comes into the picture.

Posted by Jynja

Perhaps, she doesn't even know what a chart is?

Anyway, Leo's affinity to love and Cancer's ability to receive love and reciprocate makes this pairing quite the beauteous one. The only usual issue is usually in Leo's insecurities. More often than not, though Cancer can fulfill Leo's need for affirmation without condition, Cancer can feel quite left out of Leo's fiery agenda and himself begin to waver about her love. Without key water placements, she might not even notice how she makes him feel in order to restore the balance.

A fiery/airy Cancer man might be able to match her zest, but the one with water placements will have a harder time having his emotional needs satisfied. Unless, Leo has key water placements and can regulate her fire every once in a while to cater to her relationship. Cancer is not demanding, but when Leo takes and takes, she'll soon wear Cancer out.

Pace your demands... he's just a man, after all - not a god

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Well said.

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Posted by TotalLeoChick29
He is a little older than me...What turns them on? should I take more of the lead? I want to know what makes their blood BOIL! Hehe. Don't be affraid to be candid with me 🙂

You're 29, grow up already...

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Maybe you should just suck my ass. k thanx

LOL!!! AT "Maybe you should just suck my ass. k thanx"

Leos are Cool!

Sounds like you are refering to the bedroom in your first comment?......If so I myself Love a women who knows whats she wants and isnt afraid to say it....when it comes to sex or romance I tend to be a little slow in the begging because Im not entirely sure if thats what the women wants at that time....She has to hint towards it at least...But once I get the clear Message.....ITS ON!!

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Posted by TotalLeoChick29
He is a little older than me...What turns them on? should I take more of the lead? I want to know what makes their blood BOIL! Hehe. Don't be affraid to be candid with me 🙂

You're 29, grow up already...

Maybe you should just suck my ass. k thanx

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LOL - I read this whole thread. This was the post that stuck out most to me. Let the ass sucking begin!

i m dating a leo girl currently so i can tell u that u leos are easily avalaible..and need to play a little hard to get to increase the attraction..shes very nice,helpful and caring and not possessive but very needy. i m a bit tired of her tbh..well thats my advice..suit urself. i m cancer sun scorpio woman.

sorry..i meant cancer sun scorpio moon. :p