lost cancer!!!!

Please help friends .I'm a cancer and I cant seem to keep friends!! I know cancers are loaners but I fell so alone !!

If you feel so alone why don't you go out, mix up and make friends. Having friends includes ignoring their bullshit. Not letting what they do affect you so much. No one is perfect, to maintain friendships you must understand that. Keep your secrets to yourself and don't invest your emotions too quickly.
I test my friends always, I know all their strengths and weaknesses. That would help you categorize who should be your close friend or acquaintance. I have more acquaintances than friends and people who consider me a 'friend', tell me thier secrets but I never tell them mine. You don't need friends as much as you think you do, it's not always rosy. 🙂

Hmmm This is totally new for me... No offence but why are you guys so afraid of working on a friendship— I mean the whole thin and thick thing!?

Friendships are awesome if they are done right!!! I mean like a romantic relationship it will have awesome moments and not so much ones but into a certain level is better because some people open up better in a friendship.

It might be my imagination or my bitter experience but i think some cancers and their mood sometimes you guys tent to go throught phases of "all i want is fun and not deal with any drama" meaning i dont want to have to work with the ups and down of a friendship... All i want is a bunch of enablers and groupies.

agree 20 is the test

10 is solid

8 and under still room for betrayal

Posted by soundsunscene
agree 20 is the test

10 is solid

8 and under still room for betrayal

not really.

Even you do have good friendships with your friends for 50 years, it's still easy for them to betray you. For me, Only big turning points can make you know who is your real friend.