Lust or love

Lust or love how do you know the difference?

If friends for a while and then the chemistry changes is it love? If the trust issue etc has been dealt with and you are great friends can lust really come about or is it more?

Not talking about any special relationship here but looking back generally at relationships I have been in.

I was "friends" with a girl (now my girlfriend) for about 4 years, and I had to change schools, so we didn't see each other or keep in touch for about 2 years, then, for some strange reason, I was walking to school, and I saw her at the city bus stop that I pass every day, we said hello and stuff and we exchanged phone numbers, she said I shouldn't call her cuz her and her family are in the middle of moving out of their apartment, so I went on, never heard from her for about a 8 months, I was for some reason after some girl who I knew didn't like me but I still thought I'd eventually have a shot :/ and we began talking to each other again! it was awesome, just as I remembered from when we used to hang out a few years ago! at first we were just friends, and then she started to like me, and I sort of saw it but I wasn't sure, and then a few months later, I fell HARD for her, i realized that she was the most beautiful person on earth and she had practically everything in common with me, then we kissed in one of hormone raging moments that we've always had but never did anything about, and now were together, I am sooo in LOVE with her, and I know it's love too, because whenever I'm depressed about something, her voice and her presence makes everything all better, and that when were together, we have the best chemistry, its like were best buds when we hang out,except that we both feel a lot for each other, love is great! lust is just "whoaaah that girl is hot!"

Well, you can really whip it out, wow wee!!! Do it some more!!! just kidding! That ought to last me a while. hehe I was in total fantasy land, which is my usual destination, but this was like without that little short guy along buggin ya all the time. waking you up with that incessant "its the plane the plane!"

No, Im just teasing ya about do it some more, but it was ooeey and made me goooey. I really liked the part about the raging hormone kiss. I could actually feel it. Who is this girl, and does she know how lucky she really is—? I hope she treats you very very well!!

heehee I would have put more but I didn't want to bore anyone, I dunno if she's lucky or whatever to have ME, but I feel so great and relieved that the huge gaping whole that used to be my heart is now filled with her love, heh heh,we were at her house (when we were still friends) watching TV and we were holding hands on the couch, i was sooo quacking nervous i was sweating a little, and we looked at each other occationally, I would come oh so very close to kissing her cuz I almost couldn't resist the temptation of her soft lips and her sweet brown eyes, but I didn't know for sure if she liked me, then she got up went into her room and layed on her bed, and I just sat there on her couch in the living room like, "umm okay.." then I got up *heart pounding* walking towards her room *heart startes racing* and i go into her dark room and find her on her bed, she says to me "come here" and I get on her bed and lay down right next to her. we were staring into eachother's eyes for what seemed like eternity, we both knew that we wanted each other to do, and my mouth went DRY... I was soooooo nervous!!!! then she kissed me.. my dry lips and all!!!! and I couldn't hold back anymore and gave her the best kiss that I've ever given and that was the best kiss I've ever had, we kissed VERY passionately on her bed for in my opinion "not long enough" but really like 45 minutes, I was supposed to be out of her house by 10, it was 11 and were heard her front door open, it was her grandma who... luckily went straight into her room and didn't catch us.. but that was the best night of my life!!!!!!!!!!!!wooooooo!!!!!!!! then on my bus ride home the bus driver kept telling me stories about how when he was a kid and how he used to have "parties" with his girlfriend.... hahaha it was the greatest night ever!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh Lovitz,

I couldnt stand hearing about a gapping hole you use to have in your heart. It just makes me want to give you some of my special loving and care; you are wonderful and you are a lover extraodinare. I just want to hug you and kiss you protect you from all heartache; I am so happy for you!!! I can feel the love that is happening to you. You are very passionate and exciting and this makes me excited. That was the best kiss I have had, hehehe! Great description. Let me know how it goes.
Much love and happiness,
SuzyQ 🙂

thanks a lot suzy, I hope me and her stay together for a very long time, I cant imagine life without her.

Sounds like you have got a wonderful thing there! Treasure it! I wish you the best!
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